Originally posted by Robtard
True, but when is sex between adults "objectively bad"?
That is indeed the debate to be had, I would give as one perhaps still uncontroversial example as between siblings. I think it is bad in itself that a brother and a brother or a brother and sister should have sex together, there are many reasons one might advance to support such a view which are not limited (obviously in the case of two brothers) to the impact on the children.
Originally posted by Robtard
We're literally just going back to the scripture and saying man+woman parts = good, man+man parts = bad
I'm not so sure that our only option is to go back to Scripture. Many people have come up with a variety of explanations as to why homosexual sex is not properly speaking sex at all and, following on from that, not fitting. Stoics for example were able to construct arguments against homosexuality activity. Cicero advances a case against being the 'receiver' in homosexuality sex in the case against Verres on the basis that it is un-Roman (we wouldn't buy that idea but it's actually not as close-minded or arbitrary as it sounds, Romans had a very developed account of what it meant to be Roman after all).
Originally posted by Robtard
Historically, homosexuality has thrived as it has wilted. There have been several cultures where it wasn't a bad thing, periods of Greece and Rome as you mentioned, even remember reading that in one of Japan's historical periods man-love was actually viewed as greater. Also think the Incas (at least for a period) didn't view homosexuality as something different than heterosexuality, it was all just sex.
People have usually thought that there is a kind of friendship higher than that enjoyed between martial-partners and sexual intercourse has often been part of expressing that, sure. Though some would say that the introduction of sex actually cheapens friendship by introducing an element of gratification and ulitsation of the other party but, i'm not sure what to think of that.
Originally posted by Robtard
No real disagreement I think (if I read you correctly), but "what is right for them" needs to also respect the humanity of others.
I don't think we disagree but are deepening the conversation!
It's that part about respecting the humanity of others which will cause us trouble for the 'what is right for them' notion. When we find ourselves bringing up the question of common Essences which have to be respected it is reasonable to suppose that from that Essence is to be found common- and binding- rules which mean 'what is right for them' is not determined by Will but by Nature.