Originally posted by Surtur
Well yes too much of *anything* can be bad. Maintaining a social life is important. If the internet is getting in the way of someone doing that there is a problem.And...nobody said the world was bad. I'm not sure where you get that idea, in fact I rail against the idea this country is a super awful place.
Also I do have the say...if this place became so problematic for you, what does it say about the fact you're spending your first day off in 2 weeks on here?
Do I need to go into a detailed explanation?
First my gf is out of town, it’s 35 degrees out, and I don’t really want to go anywhere. I’ve got one punch man on the the background and I’m just laying in bed.
But I don’t feel lazy because I don’t do this all day. Today feels like a reward. From what you have told me is you don’t have a job but you get out a night.
When you don’t have a job or gainful employment there isn’t any sense of reward of accomplishment so my sitting home after working 14 days straight feels like a vacation to say someone else’s who sits home all day everyday. I know I have to go back to work tomorrow but I feel great knowing I got today off to rest and relax in bed. And I can be recharged to go out and try harder tomorrow to make more sales.
When I used to be home all day, every day felt like the last. Sitting at home wether I went out at night didn’t feel great. I didn’t have much to talk about on a personal level. I didn’t have any professional or business relationships. Now I’m engaged, my text messages screen turn over twice or three times a day. I’m in demand, people rely and need me and me them.
I think you need something like that in your life.
This isn’t me talking down to you this is me saying we been in the same place before and I got out of it. I want you to as well.