Originally posted by mike brown
I don't agree, just from what I've read about them. Paying for sex is not exactly a self esteem booster for someone whose insecurity stems from feeling rejected and unwanted by the opposite sex.
^Mike has a valid point here.
It's also not just the 'I'm paying for sex' blow to the self esteem some might feel, the Incel feels that he is deserved women, so he shouldn't have to pay for sex, it should just come to him.