The Official Crush Thread

love is fickel. i dated a woman for 8 years. from when i was 16 to 24... i still hang out with her a lot. and we still love each other but we do not work as a couple, and we both understand that. but this story has a happy ending... we still have sex! woo hoo! just not too often... maybe once every two weeks... but we both date other people and if we get serious about our other relationships we stop having sex... all in all, she is now a best friend of mine and i'm not a jealous guy and she's not a jealous girl... i truly believe that when two people get together they still are still two seperate people. we all have different needs and wants and everyone needs to go down their own path... even if you are walking hand in hand.

i've also learnd that love cannot be on a one way street... if it does not go both ways it can be a lonely road. personally i like to just watch the cars go by....

love yourself and everything will fall into place.

Once every two weeks is 'not that often'??? Geez!

I think it pays to be VERY wary about thinking you are in love with someone. People are FAR too ready to declare love when it is, in fact, just a crush or affection. I mean, I was 100% totally coco nuts about Elle but even I took six months and a lot of personal contact before I got into the genuine 'love' territory, and that was as strong a thing as could be!

Originally posted by happy kine
love is fickel. i dated a woman for 8 years. from when i was 16 to 24... i still hang out with her a lot. and we still love each other but we do not work as a couple, and we both understand that. but this story has a happy ending... we still have sex! woo hoo! just not too often... maybe once every two weeks... but we both date other people and if we get serious about our other relationships we stop having sex... all in all, she is now a best friend of mine and i'm not a jealous guy and she's not a jealous girl... i truly believe that when two people get together they still are still two seperate people. we all have different needs and wants and everyone needs to go down their own path... even if you are walking hand in hand.

i've also learnd that love cannot be on a one way street... if it does not go both ways it can be a lonely road. personally i like to just watch the cars go by....

love yourself and everything will fall into place.

😑 Interesting relationship.

Yeah, I mean, once a fortnight is rather a lot for a girl you 'do not work as a couple' with!

Interesting relationship.

i've never been lonely... and for that i thank my lucky stars. i have lots of friends and family and i would not trade that for any thing in the universe. our relationship can work the way it does because we are both comfortable with who we are.

Yeah, I mean, once a fortnight is rather a lot for a girl you 'do not work as a couple' with

well thats the average... its usually 3 tims in 4 nights and then none for a month or so... depends on her really... i'm always ready to go

Originally posted by happy kine
i've never been lonely... and for that i thank my lucky stars. i have lots of friends and family and i would not trade that for any thing in the universe. our relationship can work the way it does because we are both comfortable with who we are.

I wasn't critizising (sp). Just interesting.

well thats the average... its usually 3 tims in 4 nights and then none for a month or so... depends on her really... i'm always ready to go

😂 right! How old are you again? lol jk

Originally posted by happy kine
love is fickel. i dated a woman for 8 years. from when i was 16 to 24... i still hang out with her a lot. and we still love each other but we do not work as a couple, and we both understand that. but this story has a happy ending... we still have sex! woo hoo! just not too often... maybe once every two weeks... but we both date other people and if we get serious about our other relationships we stop having sex... all in all, she is now a best friend of mine and i'm not a jealous guy and she's not a jealous girl... i truly believe that when two people get together they still are still two seperate people. we all have different needs and wants and everyone needs to go down their own path... even if you are walking hand in hand.

Does this girl have a phone number? 😄

i've also learnd that love cannot be on a one way street... if it does not go both ways it can be a lonely road. personally i like to just watch the cars go by....

Can I use this in my sig? 😎

I wasn't critizising

oh i didn't think you were... i was just elaborating. 😛

Sorry to hear that Jix that is the worst way to have a crush revealed.

Does this girl have a phone number?

yes its 813-46x-xxxx if you can guess the rest

Can I use this in my sig?

sure...

Originally posted by happy kine
oh i didn't think you were... i was just elaborating. 😛

😄

🤣

Originally posted by happy kine
yes its 813-46x-xxxx if you can guess the rest

sure...

Thank You. 🤣

wow the first time i've been quoted... i don't know what to say... i'd better not let it go to my head. 😄

Originally posted by happy kine
wow the first time i've been quoted... i don't know what to say... i'd better not let it go to my head. 😄

I thinking it probably to late for that. 😛

😂

😎

😂 i love heather

Originally posted by Ushgarak
I think it pays to be VERY wary about thinking you are in love with someone. People are FAR too ready to declare love when it is, in fact, just a crush or affection.

Originally posted by Ness
😂 i love heather

You just think you do.