Makedde
Xena: Warrior Princess
Don't get me wrong, I am not into forcing anyone into doing something they don't want to do. But women need to take more responsiblity for themselves. The majority of abortions would occur because no contraception was used. Why won't women use it? Isn't it simple? If you don't want a baby, go on the pill, use a condom, take the morning after pill. The abortion rate rises because women are now using it as a form of contraception, and they shouldn't. They need to be educated, told to use contraception. Lack of it is irresponsible. If a woman can't be responsible for her own body, how can she be responsible for any children she has? Is she going to tell her kids that they don't have to use contraception, because they can just go and get a free taxpayer funded abortion like she may have?
Abortion is a big deal, and the high number of abortions each year says that women think nothing of undergoing an invasive procedure to rid the result of their selfishness. Not using contraception is selfish. Women can prevent pregnancy, but many don't. It seems they just don't care.
Granted, not all contraception is fool proof. But using more than one method drastically reduces the chance of falling pregnant. A condom won't work all the time, women need to realise that.
I know many pro lifers, most are against all forms of killing, many are not. I know many pro lifers who support abortion in cases such as rape, because they think of the mental anguish the woman would suffer, being forced to carry a rapists child to term. She'd never get over the rape if she had to be reminded of it everyday. Rape is different. Yes, there is a baby, but the woman didn't consent. She didn't willingly have unprotected sex knowing what the consequences should be. I still see it as murder, but what of her mental health?
Abortion in Victoria (Australia) is actually illegal. It is only legal if the woman will suffer mentally or psyically. Women have been sidestepping this law for years. You can't tell me that every woman who in Victoria who has an abortion has one because she will kill herself if she doesn't. That's bullshit. Many women have them because they refuse to face up to their responsiblities, and that's a shame.
When a woman has an abortion, what does it teach her? Does she walk out of that clinic thinking she should use contraception next time? No. Abortion, free abortion, teaches a woman that she can have as many as she likes, because that is her 'right'. What of the rights of men?
Think about it. A woman falls pregnant, she doesn't want the baby, but her partner does. She aborts the child because it is her right. The man has no say in her decision.
Lets say another woman falls pregnant. She wants the child, but her partner doesn't. He never wanted a child. The woman keeps the child, sues the man for child support, and the man now has to pay child support for a child he never wanted.
Who wins in both situations? The woman. Men have no rights over their unborn children UNTIL that child is born. The woman decides whether a mans child lives or dies, and when that child lives or dies. Surely the man should have a say in it.
Counselling should be provided to these women so they don't have abortions then whinge about it later, as some do.
I also believe that women should pay at least half the costs of their abortion. It is unfair that people on IVF must pay thousands to CREATE a child, but women have abortions and pay nothing toward the cost of the procedure, which is not right.
Eithor women pay for abortion, or IVF should be free.