Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
You are well within your right to attempt to challenge and debate any view you disagree with, and I will say the same for anyone.The fact that everything you post sounds like an excerpt from the Ladybird Guide to the Dark Ages just makes it so you can't challenge anyone realistically. Not my fault, yours. You believe that if you don't plan to have a child, you shouldn't have sexual intercourse. You're entitled to think this, and say what you will about it, however this does not bestow upon you a shield.
-AC
No actually you have misconstrued it.
I think that if you aren't ready to deal with a child, don't have sex. That doesn't mean sex is only for babies, in fact, I have sex with my wife just for the pleasure. But I'm not ignorant of what could happen.
You wont always get pregnant if you have sex,... and you won't always be protetected if you are carefull about it.
It can go either way.
I believe people should be more responsible about the choices they make, (i.e. if you wanna shit in the street, go shit in the street.... but be sure to stand next to your shit and claim it, ... don't dismiss what you do.) ...and handle their responsiblities like the "adults" they claim to be.
So... do you have to plan to have a child to have sex?
No.
Should you be ready for one?
Yes.
If things turn out that you are pregnant should you then just kill the child because you can?
Not in my opninion.
Just wait though son, you'll see. It will be proved that life starts at conception and abortion will be illegal (except in medical emergencies) soon enough.
Oh, and abstinece is Not from the dark ages as you say.
You are doing a disservice to all the young men and women (millions, just in the U.S.) who choose to save sex until they are ready.
But I guess you are ready, ... for anything. You've got it figured out pretty good, seeing as how you are smarter than all of them and smarter than me, ... right? 😉 🙄
Originally posted by sithsaber408
No actually you have misconstrued it.I think that if you aren't ready to deal with a child, don't have sex. That doesn't mean sex is only for babies, in fact, I have sex with my wife just for the pleasure. But I'm not ignorant of what could happen.
Exactly, some people are NEVER ready for a child because they don't want kids, as established earlier. Also, as we established earlier (because I asked and you answered) you claimed that these people should not have sex then.
I am no psychic, I go by what views you give me to work with.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
You wont always get pregnant if you have sex,... and you won't always be protetected if you are carefull about it.It can go either way.
What you said makes no sense. People are going to have sex, some people don't want kids. Therefore, your view about no premarital sex is blinkered and flawed. Not everyone wants a kid.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
I believe people should be more responsible about the choices they make, (i.e. if you wanna shit in the street, go shit in the street.... but be sure to stand next to your shit and claim it, ... don't dismiss what you do.) ...and handle their responsiblities like the "adults" they claim to be.
I agree with you. This doesn't mean they have to handle it how you would, how I would or how anyone would. Only how they would. You seem to forget this.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
So... do you have to plan to have a child to have sex?No.
Should you be ready for one?
Yes.
If things turn out that you are pregnant should you then just kill the child because you can?
Not in my opninion.
Well then I am thankful I do not have to give two cares about your opinion post-turning off my computer.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
Just wait though son, you'll see. It will be proved that life starts at conception and abortion will be illegal (except in medical emergencies) soon enough.
As said, we will cross that bridge if we come to it, until then, you're on the back foot.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
Oh, and abstinece is [B]Not from the dark ages as you say.[/b]
I never said abstinence was, read the post.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
You are doing a disservice to all the young men and women (millions, just in the U.S.) who choose to save sex until they are ready.
I've said many times before, if you want to do that, that's cool with me. Nothing to do with me, your body, your life. Read my posts.
Originally posted by sithsaber408
But I guess you are ready, ... for anything. You've got it figured out pretty good, seeing as how you are smarter than all of them and smarter than me, ... right? 😉 🙄
Well considering you're not proving yourself to be smart on many levels, I'd say you are answering your own questions.
Next time, read my posts before you reply please.
-AC
sithsaber408 it don't worry if people have sex and accidently get a pregnant every other time then they could just either drain the baby with a vacuum a piece at a time, or cut it up piece by piece, depending on how long the baby is do. Well after this is done everythig will be fine until it happens again and then yup. Oh yeah some people do it when the baby is coming out and the mother changes her mind they use to hold the babies head in to sufficate it. Good stuff right.
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriI never said abstinence was, read the post.
I've said many times before, if you want to do that, that's cool with me. Nothing to do with me, your body, your life. Read my posts.
Well considering you're not proving yourself to be smart on many levels, I'd say you are answering your own questions.
Next time, read my posts before you reply please.
-AC
You posted that my idea of not having sex until you are ready for the baby that could come with it was from the dark ages.
I posted that millions of young people (much like yourself) are choosing abstinence, and in fact, many of the ones that I know are choosing it because they know that they are not ready to raise a baby if they were to become pregnant.
My "idea about not having sex if you dont plan for a baby" is from the Dark Ages.
That is what you said.
Millions of American youth say you are wrong.
But I'm sure that you will cling to your irrational posting and logic, though you have been bested by Shaky, Makkede, Ush, Cyber Ninja(in a very clever reverse psychology campaign 😛 ) and myself quite a few times now.
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