I have mixed feelings about abortions. I think about it this way; the person I'm totally head-over-heels in love with, what if they had been aborted? I would be so half alive, no warm fussy feelings, I'd be missing out on so much, as would that person. Everyone falls in love, to think if that abortion had grown up somebody would've fallen in love with that person, love is a great feeling, it would be a shame for someone to miss out on loving someone.
But then there are people who have been raped, who have used contraceptives that fails, and still get preganant. It isn't fair and could be a major risk to their mental health, it could be very stressful and they might have trouble supporting it financially.
That is strange me and my husband to be was talking about that yesterday while we were walking.If one of us got abortion at birth we would had never met or be getting married and be in love.
Such a sad feeling.Like I said people who are rape are not most likly to get pregent then people who knew what they are doing.Not saying this is a fact just my thoughts on it.jm
Originally posted by ADarksideJediYour idea about how many get pregnant after rape is a bit off, about 5% or women that are raped get pregnant but that is only the ones that let it go that far or didn't try and prevent it after the assault. This number may seem low but you must also account for the ones that have actually reported it and in many cases the woman doesn't, this figure also doesn't include incest. There are many factors that you must take into account.
That is strange me and my husband to be was talking about that yesterday while we were walking.If one of us got abortion at birth we would had never met or be getting married and be in love.
Such a sad feeling.Like I said people who are rape are not most likly to get pregent then people who knew what they are doing.Not saying this is a fact just my thoughts on it.jm
Originally posted by ADarksideJediHowever I was showing you how your facts are skewed and if you base your judgment on false information than your judgment would be ill-informed.
Yea I see what you are saying.But it is still not as much as a teen that meant to or made a mistake to become pregent.jm
Originally posted by BlackC@
I have mixed feelings about abortions. I think about it this way; the person I'm totally head-over-heels in love with, what if they had been aborted? I would be so half alive, no warm fussy feelings, I'd be missing out on so much, as would that person. Everyone falls in love, to think if that abortion had grown up somebody would've fallen in love with that person, love is a great feeling, it would be a shame for someone to miss out on loving someone.But then there are people who have been raped, who have used contraceptives that fails, and still get preganant. It isn't fair and could be a major risk to their mental health, it could be very stressful and they might have trouble supporting it financially.
Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
That is strange me and my husband to be was talking about that yesterday while we were walking.If one of us got abortion at birth we would had never met or be getting married and be in love.
Such a sad feeling.Like I said people who are rape are not most likly to get pregent then people who knew what they are doing.Not saying this is a fact just my thoughts on it.jm
Hey... heres a thought to ponder... if your husband or wife to be was aborted...then maybe... just maybe they were not meant to be with you. 😊