Originally posted by Phoenix
yeah, but my other point is. we should be granted equality, we should NOT have to strive for it. and i agree with niki - ANYWHERE in the world, we are NOT given equality, whether we equal or surpass men. even look at the american constitution - "All MEN are created equal", it has not been changed, nor has the meaning of it been changed. the world was built by men, and is controlled by men. war is begun by men, and EVERY time the men are called away to 'fight for the honour of their country, the women hold the country together, and this is PROMPTLY forgotten once the men return
But it is the women who breed these men! Maybe women should ban guys from having sex with them if the guys promise to stop all the war. Sorry, just a thought.
well unfortunately thats not gonna happen for a long time phoenix. as long as women continue to ***** and moan about everything that doesnt go their way, they will continue to be treated the same way. thats why women are treated differently then men, they have a different, less logical mentality. where if something doesnt go their way, it MUST be because their a woman, if they dont get a job they applied for but a man does, it must be because they are a woman, it couldnt possibly be because they are underqualified, where if a man doesnt get a job, he shrugs and goes to watch porno and go to sleep.
where if a man doesnt get a job, he shrugs and goes to watch porno and go to sleep.
whereas if a man gets fired he goes into work and shoots everyone
haven't seen many women doing that
And women are passed over in favor of men because men do not generally have the primary responsibility of staying home with the kids if they get sick and daycare won't take them when they are sick. Nor do men take maternity leave when their wives get pregnant, so businesses prefer to hire men because they don't have to worry about pregancy or sick children when they hire a man. It makes it easier to chose a male applicant over a female applicant even if the female applicant does not have children and both the man and woman have the same credentials.
Originally posted by ChinaNiki
whereas if a man gets fired he goes into work and shoots everyonehaven't seen many women doing that
And women are passed over in favor of men because men do not generally have the primary responsibility of staying home with the kids if they get sick and daycare won't take them when they are sick. Nor do men take maternity leave when their wives get pregnant, so businesses prefer to hire men because they don't have to worry about pregancy or sick children when they hire a man. It makes it easier to chose a male applicant over a female applicant even if the female applicant does not have children and both the man and woman have the same credentials.
basically women are gay
why do woman always go for guys who beat them and treat them like shit? im not trying to be mean, im very interested in finding an answer to this ive come across this so many times in my life my computer malfunctioned when i tried to work the problem out. I mean my finace was in a relation ship like that for three years, i understand that people can create influenced beliefs in people. Like when guys beat on woman and tell them its there fault i know that can scar a woman after a relationship but why do they stay so damn long
Originally posted by ragesRemorse
Like when guys beat on woman and tell them its there fault i know that can scar a woman after a relationship but why do they stay so damn long
Good question. I suppose we think our love can change him but in the end we have to admit that we' re not able to. And we keep believing the promise that it was the last time. Besides, if I was in such a situation, I would be terrified that leaving him would outrage him. But leaving still is the only option.
Don't go and call me an apologist here- this is based on interviews with the women concerned.
It DOES happen that women who are the victims of domestic violence HAVE handled the situation with their husbands and gone on to lead happy lives and marriages. A husband who hits his wife has a problem- it is a problem, like all problems, that CAN be solved, and that possibility- that you can just go back to a hassle-free, happy life- is very tempting for, well, anyone.
with domestic violence, it all boils down to love. if you love someone, you dont WANT to leave them.
For example, if my dad ever hit me or anything, I would have to be dragged kicking and screaming away, and I wuld NEVER let the police take him, because I love him. It is UNCONDITIONAL love, people. everyone is unconditionally loved by someone, and unconditionally loves someone else.