I don't have kids, and even if I did, sure it's nice, but it wouldn't be a must, like you are making it out to be.
No one person on this planet has the capacity to end world hunger, or make absolute peace. It is human nature to be violent. Hey, why'd God make us that way...?
If God is supposed to help us, why are we supposed to help our selves? He's all powerful right? Why doesn't he snap his fingers and make everything good again? Why doesn't he cure my grandmother of her cancer, if his love is unconditional? Why would I HAVE to pray to gt God to cure my grandmother, if he love s me and my family anyway? Or my uncles for that matter? It seems to me as if God is absent. Maybe he's on vacation?
Sorry, but until this "God" ups and shows himself, or does something convincing, I am on my own, and like it that way.