linky...sorry but in order for you to generalize you need to base the minority to the majority what you may think is the majority is not always true you base all women on one woman which will never give the majority answer...please dont just think or assume because when you assume you make an ass out of you and me ( not that you are)...in YOUR opinion it is true in ours it is not and remember we are the girls...we know our selves best.
this chick is crazy...dont beleive everything she's tellin ya...if she really had the same kind of morals you have she wouldve have dumped this dude...since she has been with this guys for 3 years i'm guessing its one of first relationships so she's gonna or already thinks cheating is natural which means she would cheat on you in a heartbeat
Originally posted by Linkalicious
How can you want a relationship with a nimrod like that?This girl is begging to get cheated on by this guy. Once you let it slide once...it's all down hill from there. I've seen it before....girls like this are basket cases. She's that one that will break up with her boyfriend because he did something terrible, then hook up with you, and then for no reason other than he said "sorry" she'll be back with him leaving you behind. And you won't get a second thought. Save yourself the heart ache and humiliation.
Leave this skank alone. She needs a couple more minutes in the oven before she's ready to be taken out. Anyone can be nice...and lots of girls are pretty. That doesn't make her special in any way. A girl like this will be treated like garbage until SHE realizes it for herself and decides to change. Nothing you or anyone else says will change that.
Quiting waiting around for this girl like she's "the one. You'll know when you found "the one" because she'll be the girl who's "flaws" are the things that you like most about her. Besides...girlfriends during summer are a waste of time...especially with all that skin lying around out there just waiting to be hooked up with. 😛
you are such a pig ❌
Originally posted by Linkalicious
what makes you believe women know women best raven?Women can't even figure themselves out....how are you going to expect me to believe that you would know another woman better than me?
have you ever had a girlfriend? NO....
no but hello I'm a girl I know how girls act
Oh my god!
Why do you all jump Link just because he's got the balls to give his opinions on women in general?
And why shouldn't he generalize? We all do it, whether in this thread or another, so why shouldn't he? Just because it's about a topic that is in constant debate.
Sil --> That comment about him being a pig was pathetic. You didn't back it up, you generalized. You don't know him, but you thought you'd state that he's a pig anyway. That's a generalization in itself sweetie. You really shouldn't make such specific comments on things that you cannot possible understand yet, because although you may well be ahead of your years in many ways, you are still young. And there's nothing you can do about that. Once you've been through the same experiences as Link, then I'm sure he'd be very willing to listen to what you have to say, but while you're still floating around in your fluffy pink world, I don't think you should make such bold statements. Period.
Raven --> I see your point hun, but just because you're a chick you think you know women? Not possible to say this really. I'm female, but I'd never say that I know women better. We are difficult to understand, as are men, but Link does have experience, and he's going on that. Everyone has their own opinions, I don't think he actually insulted one particular member did he? Not until you all decided to rip him up, assuming that he's a masochistic 'pig'. Well, I can vouch for him, he's not a pig, he's a very sweet guy, very intelligent, very opinionated also, but most of us here on KMC are.
Myth --> Do whatever you feel is right babe. When all is said and done, and all sides have been analyzed, instinct is often the best way to go.
Thanks for your thoughts guys. Don't attack Link too much. I need to hear both sides to help me clear my head.
Link - Don't worry. I'm not going to wait around for her like she is the one. But she is very nice and if we kick things off at the beginning of the school year on the right foot, I'd love to give her a shot. If she lets guys cheat on her, well, maybe I'll be the one to show her how guys should treat her. You said that girls only pretend to want to be treated like princesses. Well, either way I'm going to treat a girl that I like or love as an angel and if she doesn't like it, then our personalities weren't meant for each other and I'll move on. I also really believe that she is not the type to cheat on somebody. I've seen how much it tore her appart when she thought about him cheating on her. She said somethiing which I can't remember exactly, but it really made me believe that she couldn't cheat on anybody because she knows the pain it causes people. And she is the type of person who doesn't want to hurt peoples feelings so I believe her.
wuTa - I thought about that before. Generally, she has the same morals as me. I think she just isn't as good at holding things against people like I am 😈 She is trying to believe that people will change and should be given a chance. That part is WAY different from my view. But the morals that SHE lives by are similar to mine.
Was his comment really called for about the girl.
He called her skanky or some other form of the word.
He doesn't even know her, maybe the man is abusive and she's afraid to leave for all we know. But now right out he goes and says she's a nimrod.
From what I read I think Myth wants encouragement and support, because he may be falling for the wrong girl, not advice on what an idiot she is.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Was his comment really called for about the girl.
He called her skanky or some other form of the word.
He doesn't even know her, maybe the man is abusive and she's afraid to leave for all we know. But now right out he goes and says she's a nimrod.
From what I read I think Myth wants encouragement and support, because he may be falling for the wrong girl, not advice on what an idiot she is.
No, it probably wasn't called for. But I understand that he doesn't really know her. He read it and gave his opinion based on what I told him. There's obviously more to people than you can write in just a few paragraphs so he made his judgements based on his opinion of what he did know. I respect that. I disagree with what he said, but I don't think he should be attacked for trying to be honest with me.
Originally posted by Linkalicious
Women can't even figure themselves out....how are you going to expect me to believe that you would know another woman better than me?