Originally posted by Syren
Oh my god!Raven --> I see your point hun, but just because you're a chick you think you know women? Not possible to say this really. I'm female, but I'd never say that I know women better. We are difficult to understand, as are men, but Link does have experience, and he's going on that. Everyone has their own opinions, I don't think he actually insulted one particular member did he? Not until you all decided to rip him up, assuming that he's a masochistic 'pig'. Well, I can vouch for him, he's not a pig, he's a very sweet guy, very intelligent, very opinionated also, but most of us here on KMC are.
no offense but I really never ganged up on link I just said not all of us are like that...and generalizing is not good. I know link is nice and smart he is a good friend of mine and he always helps me out when I need it. please dont think I was attacking him because I wasn't.....sorry I tend to think from a psychology point of view and not everyone understands me all the time. and I never called him a pig...I just said it is not good to generalize because many off times people think of the majority when sometimes it is actually the minority that is in the wrong. not all women are like this girl myth likes. so I just feel a better selection of words could have been used.
Originally posted by Smiling_Sadly
hey its ok myth......seems like its the month to breakup......😬 witch is really sad.......any who, i hope it all goes well with u, and everyone else that has their heart broken...
Um... I haven't been apart from my ex for some time now. It wasn't just this month it was back in *coughseptembercough*.
Originally posted by Storm
Females and males are not different species.
We are all human and our levels of relative complication and simplicity changes with each situation.
Imo, women are not more complicated than men.
didn't you just contradict yourself with that statment?
How can your opinion be that women are not more complicated than men if "we are all human and our levels of relative complication and simplicity change with each situation"
Not only that, but the statement "women are not more complicated than men" is also a generalization you made.
I don't have a problem with making generalizations...or with you making generalizations........UNLESS you are being hypocritical. Which you are guilty of since you asked me to stop generalizing no more than one page ago.
That being said. I just want to make it clear, that obviously i don't know this girl personally, and that i do understand each individual is different. I'm just trying to give you fair warning, from personal experience, that going for someone that allows themselves to be cheated on is a mistake. If I can give you any "decent" advice....then i'd say, just make sure that the ex is wayyyyy out of the picture before you go for her. Otherwise, generally speaking, these are the same types of women that will ditch you to "get back together" with their ex's. ESPECIALLY after long relationships...
The two things no one should ever put up with in a relationship are:
a.) being cheated on
b.) staying with someone just because they are afraid.
Obviously this is talking ABOUT women, but the same holds true with men. Don't allow yourself to be cheated on....no one should have to be put through that.
staying with someone cozz your afraid is a bad thing but easy to do
your afraid there is nothink out there for you and that wot you have (a cheeting lieing b/f who realy doesnt care about you) is better than haveing nothink and being all alone
wot your friend need to know is that she is realy hot and that she is not alone saying it isnt enough you have to make her feel it
giveing up on a relationship youve spend 3 years on is hard and the fact that he is bad for her doesnt matter and the fact that he has cheeted on her doesnt matter
the only thing that does matter is that she feels he is hers and that to let him go would be so much worse than keeping him there lieing to her
you friend needs someone there with her she sounds like she has very low self asteem i may be wrong but i dont think she could walk out on this relationship unless she knew that someone would be waiting for her on the other side
Btw: Raven, if I don't get with her, its not a big deal. I'm not pursuing a summer relationship right now because I know I'll be heading back to college in August. So instead I'm looking at possibilities for when I go back. Nothing even says that we'll hang out because like I said, we didn't really start talking until 2 weeks before school got out so there isn't a super strong bond that will make us go way out of our way to hang out. If I don't have any classes with her, there is a good chance we won't hang out and I won't sweat it.