Originally posted by yerssot
Please seek profesional help for your problem, asking this all to people who have not the correct education for this (or any at all in some cases) here on KMC, is not how it can be solved
Just a generalisation, but I think she was asking for an unbiased opinion from people she's never met, who can give clear views. All the members who have ordered her to "seek professional help" probably meant well, but also probably haven't helped much. None of us need the "right education" to give our opinion on her problem surely? I doubt you have the standard qualifications, but you still saw reason to comment.....
I seriously do think you need to seek professional help.
And no I'm not being cruel or mean in any way. That is just my general opinion. I mean clearly none of us are capable of diagnosing anything that Misha may be going through, but if the point of this thread was just for the "Oh don't worry, you're perfectly fine!" reassurance, I won't give it, because something more can come of this if you don't get the help you may need.
It may be simply a stage, but it can also be something more serious for all we know.
[QUOTE]phth, help smelp......i refuse any help.....
ok you say you want help but you refuse to go get any...sorry but that doesn't make sense. Obviously you do want help or else you wouldnt be comming on here and asking what to do. You need it and you know you do, comming on here and asking us was a start but your not gonna get better unless you go see a therapist cause maybe you need medication. Your probably depressed...thats what it sounds like anyways. That doesnt mean your crazy or weird it happens to alot of teens. If u cant talk to your parents then don't and if u have to the therapist will or maybe just go talk to your family doctor. As for your friends... if they wont understand then there not your friends, and i suggest you make new ones.
Thats true it is nice to talk to people going through the same thing but not a cure...like im not a doctor or anything but I was friends with this girl who was very depressed and used to cut herself and at first everyone just thought she would grow outta it. But she didnt and one day i went to her house and she was acting kinda weird and she went into the bathroom and after like 15 mins i was getting kinda worried so i knocked on the door and there was no answer. i opened the door and she was laying on the floor in her own vomit. She had took 6 bottles of pills and had to be rushed to the hospital and get her stomach pumped. The doctors said if i wasnt there she would have died because all her organs were starting to shut down.
So it is nice to talk to someone, but it may be serious and she made need help. If its not that serious well whats it gonna hurt to get checked out?
Originally posted by Syren
Just a generalisation, but I think she was asking for an unbiased opinion from people she's never met, who can give clear views. All the members who have ordered her to "seek professional help" probably meant well, but also probably haven't helped much. None of us need the "right education" to give our opinion on her problem surely? I doubt you have the standard qualifications, but you still saw reason to comment.....
Re: theres something SERIOUSLY wrong with me!
Originally posted by m!$hA
help me! i like to feel the pain! i like to cry, i like to be upset, i like it all! if my dad upsets me (which, if i talk to him, is every night) i beat myself up. not fully of course....but i punch myself places where people won't see, so they wont question (such as my thighs, my hips, my upper arms etc) until i bruise! or ill burn myself with the hair straigtner...all thos stuff!
and sometimes......this is the worse bit......sometimes i wish people i love will die so i can cry and cry and feel so upset. i mean, after i think that, i tell myself to stop it...but it still scares me that those thoughts even enter my mind! it's not for attention....i like to be alone when im upset.....and frankly, im upset quite a lot 😬 whats wrong with me?
personally i dont really think she needs professional help. it wouldnt hurt. but as whoever said no one has the education to help. most of us have probably been thru it so someone with the experience would probably be better than getting a lecture from a psychiatrist or therapist. plus if she asked to see a therapist her parents would know there's something up. so, i say just listen to people who have gone thru it in the past or even right now. this is probably just a phase though. so it should blow over in a couple months. you just need to say that whenever you have those thoughts or acts, that it is wrong and that you need to stop or it may never get better. i have faith.
Re: theres something SERIOUSLY wrong with me!
Originally posted by m!$hA
help me! i like to feel the pain! i like to cry, i like to be upset, i like it all! if my dad upsets me (which, if i talk to him, is every night) i beat myself up. not fully of course....but i punch myself places where people won't see, so they wont question (such as my thighs, my hips, my upper arms etc) until i bruise! or ill burn myself with the hair straigtner...all thos stuff!
and sometimes......this is the worse bit......sometimes i wish people i love will die so i can cry and cry and feel so upset. i mean, after i think that, i tell myself to stop it...but it still scares me that those thoughts even enter my mind! it's not for attention....i like to be alone when im upset.....and frankly, im upset quite a lot 😬 whats wrong with me?
you don't WISH people you love would die, you just thought about it...and you also thought about how people (perhaps some particualr people 😉 ) would react to that.
my guess is that you're in need of attention..
I used to cut my self cause i had nothin better to, and i have a friend that was so depressed that he looked up the correct way to slit your rists. I thougt about kill my self alot but the only thing that stoped me was that I was waiting for the day everything got better. its might be just a phase, it was for me, but some people take it a little too far. Try to stop and think about how it was when you first started doing this and see if it gotten worse, and if u realize that its worse then try some help.