Heh, I'm 21 years old, i was a teenager not long ago. Privacy is one thing, but getting mad because she over heard your conversation on the phone is something else.
Upon closer reading I see that he's hit you. Now, he hit you with a belt, that's shitty, but it's a form of punishment, hitting you in the face is something different. If you really want something done about this, call the cops, tell them that he's abusing you.
you're what 17? I'm 18 and Ive never even been offered a phone in my own room! I wouldnt even bother to ask. The older I get the more my parents expect me to do because they expect me to be more responsible so maybe the fact that your mum doesnt clean up after you is because she thinks you're old enough to do it yourself??
sorry bout the violence part. I guess at least they dont do it anymore. how old were you when u tried to move to your grandmas?
powerfulone1987 it seems your mum loves you very much she gives you pocket money and she give you her love and your just throwing it back in her face.
I am not sure whats changed in your relationship with your mum maby its the fact she has a new man in her life and you feel she is dishonoring your dead father. But the thing is she loves him and you have to respect that it doesnt mean she loves you any less.
The reason why she doesn't want to send you to your grandma is because she wants things to work out as a family. Have you actually tried to understand your Step father i mean have ever sat down and talked to him. Try it he may not be as bad as it seems 😉
In the end it really seems to me that your mum loves you very much and she is trying to keep both the men in her life happy. So just try to help her out talk to her like a adult, help around the house. Also talk to your sister i mean i wonder how she feels with her brother and mum fighting all the time.
Just give both of them a chance try to understand there situation
Originally posted by Goth_Girl
hey
my mums like that..not as bad but shes still bloddy mental 😛
she stops me goin on my comp 2 she pulls the plug 😠 !!
The only reason I have my computer back is because I have essays I need to type for school, and even when I told her I needed it to type essays, it still took her a while to give it back.
And to ash007: Our relationship is beyond repair and I don't care. Soon I'll be off to college and working and settled and then I won't have to deal with her no more. No christmas,no thanksgiving, no family reunion, no parties,no birthdays, no mothers day, no new year, no easter, no independence day, and no funeral.
its ok powerfulone1987....my life's exactly like that too, except my mom doesnt have a boyfriend and she's just naturally like that 😬
for instance....one time she called the cops (goddamned pigs..) on me for not drying a hamster cage. How psychotic is that.
and just this past saterday she made me go to counciling when its not even me who has the problems.
Originally posted by Tex
OMG! Your mom is a total Nazi!I mean when she's not working hard to provide food and shelter for you she's cleaning up after you!
Tragic!
Dont tell those poor orphans in Calcutta about this!
Your tragic story of suffering is bound to turn them suicidal! ✅tongue10
If it weren't for the smiley I would have thought that i typed this?
Originally posted by Tex
You wish! diva
Oh tex your so funny 🤺 whip
EDIT: Thread starter: I thought you were like 11 years old and getting abused.. but your SEVENTEEN? whats wrong with you? dont take that crap from some guy.. either beat him back, your younger probley in better shape a nice Louisville slugger to the face would do wonders (jk) or call the cops. your almost a grown ass man. 😠
*deep sigh*i hear the same song everyday...but anyways i think a good way out of this is that the next time they **** with you, grab a knife(preferrably sharp and serrated) and put it to your throat, then yell"i ****in cant take it anymore!!!!!"
itll probably stop all this...if death doesnt scare them then they simply just dont love you anymore...
What some of you have been saying has been very rude and mean. I can relate to powerfulone, my step-mum starting throwing remotes and they hit me then she slapped me across the face. What did she do that for? because she hates me, I clean every mess that I leave up, I help out a hell of a lot and yet she abuses me. She tells me that my real Mum hated me and I was the reason she died. I get hit, abused phsically and mentally from her for no reason. When I asked her she says because I try to hog my dad, am I not allowed a relationship with my father? when I told me step-grandma (her mother) she through a glass of water in my face and told me to stop telling such nasty lies. Are you people going to start saying that it's all my fault and that what she does to me is for my own good and that I should stop crying and grow up? *cough*BACKFIRE*cough*
So it seems suicide is the only way out for me.
Originally posted by BlackC@t
What some of you have been saying has been very rude and mean. I can relate to powerfulone, my step-mum starting throwing remotes and they hit me then she slapped me across the face. What did she do that for? because she hates me, I clean every mess that I leave up, I help out a hell of a lot and yet she abuses me. She tells me that my real Mum hated me and I was the reason she died. I get hit, abused phsically and mentally from her for no reason. When I asked her she says because I try to hog my dad, am I not allowed a relationship with my father? when I told me step-grandma (her mother) she through a glass of water in my face and told me to stop telling such nasty lies. Are you people going to start saying that it's all my fault and that what she does to me is for my own good and that I should stop crying and grow up? *cough*BACKFIRE*cough*
So it seems suicide is the only way out for me.
i really cant blame him...i mean cmon! this is a message board and its main focus is on movies...everybody seems to be having fun...so why bring your pathetic problems to the message boards?its hard enough that day after day we see nothing but negative images and now you have whine about your parents...gee...no wonder suicide and depression is so high these days...
Originally posted by KidRock
Oh tex your so funny 🤺 whipEDIT: Thread starter: I thought you were like 11 years old and getting abused.. but your SEVENTEEN? whats wrong with you? dont take that crap from some guy.. either beat him back, your younger probley in better shape a nice Louisville slugger to the face would do wonders (jk) or call the cops. your almost a grown ass man. 😠
hes got a point there...seriously...either grow a pair or get the hell out(you can move out when your 17 if you have permission from a social worker,well in michigan anyways...)