Re: Hating Your Parent or Parents Forever
Originally posted by powerfulone1987
[B]I hate my mother and her boyfriend. They are so mean, and my mom has basically changed into her boyfriends ways.
I recommend you try to come on an even ground with your parents. Nothing good will come of hating them forever or arguing or ultimately acting like they dont exist... I think its way more mature and self-developing to forgive and forget.
powerful: just use that anger in a way it'll benefit you.
I understand you perfectly well, my aunt has given up her 20 year old son 'cause "he's lost" 😬
Mothers are supposed to protect, but tend to act like yours when they do not know how to handle the situation, I mean, how to handle a teenager.... just don't focus on her, focus on yourself and take care 🙂
Originally posted by TrAnCeDuO
i really cant blame him...i mean cmon! this is a message board and its main focus is on movies...everybody seems to be having fun...so why bring your pathetic problems to the message boards?its hard enough that day after day we see nothing but negative images and now you have whine about your parents...gee...no wonder suicide and depression is so high these days...
It's not JUST for movies, that's why it has video games, music, books and OTF 🙄
If we want help with our problems then we have every right to post them here, if you don't like it then you can leave. Suicide is nothing to joke about, how dare you call somebody else's problems pathetic. Yeah, somebodys posting thier problems, so what? be supportive rather then be a moron by turning the other shoulder just because it's not your problem. Nobody's making you read thier problems so if you don't want to then DON'T, it's as simple as that.
Originally posted by BlackC@t
It's not JUST for movies, that's why it has video games, music, books and OTF 🙄
If we want help with our problems then we have every right to post them here, if you don't like it then you can leave. Suicide is nothing to joke about, how dare you call somebody else's problems pathetic. Yeah, somebodys posting thier problems, so what? be supportive rather then be a moron by turning the other shoulder just because it's not your problem. Nobody's making you read thier problems so if you don't want to then DON'T, it's as simple as that.
being suicidal over what you just stated in the paragraph above IS PATHETIC.
Infact, anyone who has a roof over their head and food in their stomache who believes life isn't worth living is a pathetic individual.
Beating the snot out of your children should be your right as a parent. It's the one way to create discipline in the house hold. Snotty little 14 year old girls with full make up purses, cell phones, tatoos, and belly button piercings should get their ass beat regularly. Little boys...well they deserve to get the sh!t kicked out of them regularly just to make sure they grow up to become men.
Suicide is a quiters way out. When life gives you a challenge...you don't take your own life. You face the challenege head on.
That's the only way you make it in this world...
Originally posted by BlackC@t
What some of you have been saying has been very rude and mean. I can relate to powerfulone, my step-mum starting throwing remotes and they hit me then she slapped me across the face. What did she do that for? because she hates me, I clean every mess that I leave up, I help out a hell of a lot and yet she abuses me. She tells me that my real Mum hated me and I was the reason she died. I get hit, abused phsically and mentally from her for no reason. When I asked her she says because I try to hog my dad, am I not allowed a relationship with my father? when I told me step-grandma (her mother) she through a glass of water in my face and told me to stop telling such nasty lies. Are you people going to start saying that it's all my fault and that what she does to me is for my own good and that I should stop crying and grow up? *cough*BACKFIRE*cough*
So it seems suicide is the only way out for me.
I agree with Link. Which alot of you my find odd, since i was a lot like Black Cat. Suicide is pathetic. You're only 14, don't start going into depression now.
Getting hit for no reason is wrong i'll agree, but sometimes mothers/step mothers get so fed up with dealing with teenage girls that they just have to shut them up. I'm not saying you're at fault. But, please, Don't start with the suicide threats. You wanna know what you do, you ignore her. And if she continues to hit you. Hit her back. That's all you can do.
And when you turn 18 get out of the house.
Correction. I was younger when I was getting beat real bad by my mom's boyfriend. As i got older he just slapped me real hard on the face and continued the mentally and verbally abuse me and threaten to be beat me with a belt or whatever.
He is a big man and I can not take him on.
You people are way insensitive to people and if you are going to be that way and put people down and talk down to them, then what's the point of responding. Does it make you feel better about yourself? If so then you all that are being negative have a problem too.
i agree with powerfulone, some of you people need to develop some sort of sensitivity to other people, and grow f.ucking up. some of these people are in a bad state, the last thing they need is people hassling them.
Suicide is a quiters way out. When life gives you a challenge...you don't take your own life. You face the challenege head on.
who the f.uck do you think you are? u have no clue what your talking about so piss off and leave those of us with sense alone. i expected more from u link, i really did
Originally posted by powerfulone1987
Yall are missing the pointChanges: has become mentally,physically, verbally abusive, mean, stricter,.............
Those kind of things. She thinks just cause she is a grown up and doesn't have to answer questions that I ask and stuff like that and she does but that doesn't mean that she should use that excuse everytime to i ask one that will better help to understand why she does the things she does. Look where that method has gotten us now. I don't even care, I just need to get out of here.
Your 17 and you want your mom to clean up after you? WTF.