Look, the point is. You don't talk back to your parents EVER. My real mother abused me from ages 8-16 EVERYDAY! For apsolutely no reason. I didn't even talk to her. She just did. But when she said something i NEVER talked back to her. Just because someone is depressed doesn't mean that they can talk back to their parents without expecting to get their asses beaten.
oh i dont think you should say that without knowing what the argument is over 😬
i dont think thats right. and im not just saying this because im 14 and im a girl although you will probably think i am! seriously, i think ill think this until i become a parent, and probably even when im a parent!
i think thats just stupid not to talk back to someone! my parents will yell at me for nothing. literally. now i know this is putting you right back in the place of thinking of me as a selfish little brat and everything, but i just ... i really will still think, when im a parent, that youre allowed to back chat to your parents!
i mean, my dad completely blew his top. im not saying warn, im saying fully started screaming at me for this the other day:
there were no timtams in our pantry, so mum told me to get some from down in the cellar. me being the good girl i am angel_not i obeyed her. "youll need the key" she said.
so my dad comes over to me to WATCH me get out the key (who knows why). we have two cupboards that are next to each other, both slightly facing towards each other. i opened the right one but the key wasnt in it. so i closed it. but as i was closing it, i opened the other one at the same time, and the doors made a little noise, so i closed them, then re-opened the left one.they didnt chip or ANYTHING at all, they just made a noise, and my "dad" completely went off at me
"WATCH IT YOU LITTLE ****!"
"GOD YOURE SO INCONSIDERATE!"
"DO YOU REALISE HOW EXPENSIVE THEY WERE?"
"BE MORE CAREFUL NEXT TIME YOU IDIOT!"
"STUPID, STUPID GIRL!"
seriously, did i seriosuly deserve that 😬
No you didn't.
I'm not talking about that. Here's an example this is what my 14 year old cousin said to her mother last time i talked to her.
"Mom, i'm going to the movies."
"No, you're grounded for the week for not doing your homework"
"NO! I'm going to the movies! This is opening night! I can't miss it!"
"I said no. You should've thought about that before you decided to skip your homework."
"God mom you're such a fu.cking b!tch! I'm going to the movies no tonight no matter what."
THAT is back talking.
Originally posted by powerfulone1987
And she didn't have to be right underneath me right next to me while I was on the phone. These past years of my life have been hell, she even made me go to counseling cause she sayed I wasn't respecting her and I was the one with the problem. As soon as I graduate and get a stable life I am never coming back and am not keeping in contact, and if i have kids, they won't even know I have a mom, cause they will never meet her.
Oh FFS, do you know how many children on this Earth have never seen a telephone? Do you know how many of them have not got ANY food.
Stop being so spoilt, you should have given your mom and her boyfriend a slice of pizza, its only a goddamned pizza! You arent exactly gonna starve if you dont eat those two slices.
Originally posted by botankus
And what did you say to your 14 year old cousin?Was it anything along the lines of "Try talking to me like you talk to my aunt, you f**cking b*tch! Where's my belt?"
Actually i did say something along those lines. There was no reason that brat should've talked to her mother like that. And the woman is crippled for god's sake! I mean show some freaking respect!
Originally posted by m!$hA
this is regarding link and delicious 1 and black cat's little "discussion" about 14 year old girls!i actually think thats quite rude of both you two to say! i mean its like "gee, thanx for saying i act like a snotty little brat!"
its not like you two know what i do with my days is it?
for all you know, i could be donating all my money to the poor!however im not! but my aim in life is to do so. i want to become rich, or at least get a job with a really good pay, and then donate enough money to the poor to make me ... not poor, but not rich. just average!
i dont find myself to be a "snotty little brat" (although im sure noone would) and i sure as hell dont think i know everything! there is a lot for me to learn in, not only life, but in educational wise too! i mean come on, im in year 9, im not einstein!
and id also like to say that i do NOT have a big ego at ALL! even though, yeah i guess if you read about 80% of my posts on kmc it seems as though i do, but im just kidding around, and my friend know that!
before i came on kmc, i had the lowest self esteem anyone could have, and i only grew a little self respect until after i was 14 😬 i mean, if im being serious, you wont see me going around, looking at people discustingly because theyre "ugly" because, for one reason, i dont think anyone's ugly. if you actually look at someone who most people will think are ugly, you'll realise how beautiful they are. i dunno if its just me 😮 but i think theyve always got something special to their looks! i mean brad pitt, ashton kutcher, matt damon, they all look the same really 😬
anyway, my second point being, who CARES if someone is "ugly" 🙄 i mean seriously, its only the way they look 😬 its not like the way they look says ANYTHING about they way they are on the inside!
except that maybe if someone is "ugly" then theyre more likely to be shy because people treat them like shit!anyway my point to this pointless thread is that i think it was a little to harsh for you two to say that! and its not like you said "some" 14 year old girls, you acctually said it so it classes the WHOLE group of 14 year old girls 😬
actually, ive just read delicouse 1's post and she did say "most" but link, you still sort of directed it at "all" 14 year old girls.
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Ok, so what did you just say? 🤨
Originally posted by m!$hA
and id also like to say that i do NOT have a big ego at ALL! even though, yeah i guess if you read about 80% of my posts on kmc it seems as though i do, but im just kidding around, and my friend know that!
I have seen a lot of people posting here, and I have yet to chime in with my 2 cents... which as most of you around here will know is a little weird.
So here it is... THE LONG ANTICIPATED 2 CENTS!!
1) It is a big change when one of your biological parents start dating. I am not sure whether they divorced, seperated, or your father passed on, but regardless a seperation of parents is difficult to go though. When this happened, I am guessing you were living with your mother and, to her, you were the center of her universe. Now you arent, and things changed. You have to learn to deal with those changes.
2) Abuse, in any way, shape, or form, is difficult to deal with, and should not be tolerated. Have you thought about perhaps TALKING to your mother about it?
3) With the "rights" thing... you have no rights in your house. Your mother is not charging you rent or anything of the sorts, is she? She gives you an allowence and stil buys you things? No... you are on a free ride right now. Try living on your own... it is not as easy as it seems.
Your room is your private space PROVIDED by your mother.
You need to sit back and think about all she has done for you before you judge her so harshly.
Originally posted by pr1983
i agree with powerfulone, some of you people need to develop some sort of sensitivity to other people, and grow f.ucking up. some of these people are in a bad state, the last thing they need is people hassling them.who the f.uck do you think you are? u have no clue what your talking about so piss off and leave those of us with sense alone. i expected more from u link, i really did
Originally posted by powerfulone1987
Correction. I was younger when I was getting beat real bad by my mom's boyfriend. As i got older he just slapped me real hard on the face and continued the mentally and verbally abuse me and threaten to be beat me with a belt or whatever.He is a big man and I can not take him on.
You people are way insensitive to people and if you are going to be that way and put people down and talk down to them, then what's the point of responding. Does it make you feel better about yourself? If so then you all that are being negative have a problem too.
Re: Hating Your Parent or Parents Forever
Originally posted by powerfulone1987
What kind of communication is that. So tonight I bought a pizza home and my mom's boyfriend asked for a piece and I said no. So lata I left my plate and on the table with little scraps of pizza, cause my mom usually cleans up, ever since I was little, it's just how i grew up, I am not saying that she is suppose to do it, but that's just how things have been going. So all of a sudden she calls me to come dump my plate, and unoffensively I ask why and she starts talking in a mean way, and I am like why you mad and she says she's not and then i make a face like "o.k.a.y., then why are you fussing, you must be mad", and she says" yeah make those faces, I will slap the shit out of you". If that aint anger then I don't know what is. Well in the end, which took forever like always, I ended up telling her how she doesn't deserve my respect and then she starts yelling about how I better not ask for nothing anymore and she's not going to buy me clothes and no more allowance and how our relationship has been bad for a while and how this argument has nothing to do with me not sharing my pizza with her boyfriend (yeah right). By the way she followed me to my room and started fussing about all of this after we were out of the kitchen and i had dumped my plate.
All that trouble over a pizza.....Gosh! What happens when you bring a Bucket of Fried Chicken from KFC for dinner?
Anyways, my best sugestion is for you to keep you temper and don't let things get you upset. I don't know the whole business between you and your mother. So all I can say is that when you graduate from school and you become old enough to be an adult. Just moved and get your own place to live. Until then keep your cool.
look i know it's serious. I've been down that road several times. It's stupid that they're saying "Oh i'm going to kill myself because my step mom threw a remote at me" BIG DEAL! My mother pushed over a railing and i landed on a glass table and was in a coma for 6 freaking weeks! But i didn't stop! Suicide is a serious thing. I'll agree but these people aren't going to kill themselves over this. And if they do well, that would be the stupidest thing i've ever heard.