Sex before or after marrage.

i don't neccesarily believe you have to be married to have sex but i do believe you should have strong feelings for the person and be in love with them. sex is an act of love, and i don't see the point of having sex with someone that you don't love. yeah, i can understand that sometimes you wanna just let go, but i think sex should be more than that.

Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
sex is an act of love, and i don't see the point of having sex with someone that you don't love.

well one shouldnt always mix love in with the sex thing

Nope, nothing wrong with a little bedroom aerobics if you are not in love.

G'Day Finti.

😉 Let's get it on! With my man, of course.

gday corran

Originally posted by badkittykitty
I don't mean to argue with you silv but your wrong about dumping someone because they are bad in bed,saying it's superficial..it's not. if you sleep with someone who doen't care about your needs in the bedroom and only full fills his what else would he be selfish about.(just a example)
seriously. I know it sounds bad but a bad lover can send a relationship down the drain. (kissing included)

I agree, if they don't pay attention to you, and don't work with you that's different ✅ That's bad on it's own level.

But I'm saying in the case that they are inexperienced, or whatnot and just aren't the best, yet maybe,

I'm sorry if that wasn't clear 😄

yeah but who is experincied ??

i mean it takes alot time and practise 😎

ahem. 😉

I believe that you should wait to have sex until marriage... that's my plan in life.

yeah, mine too...

bit late now 😛

how would you know?? have I ever had sex with you or anyone you know????

you were married were you not 🤨

that does not mean that I had sex before marriages, does it????

I didn't say that 😛
She said that is her plan, but that WAS your plan 😛

may still be the case, you don't know that I already have done.

is that the reason you got divorced 😛
okay fine it may still be the case 😄 good for you then 👆

I'm still not divorced, we are just separated.

oh right hug have a hug then 😊