Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Indeed it seems that is the major problem, although I cannot help but wondor if part of the reason you disregarded the rest of my argument, is because you found yourself somewhat stumped by what I had to say...No, I would have to go into much too in depth an explanation due to our different perspectives.Oh well, moving on......
You mentioned possibilities as to what may or may not the the cause of homosexual tendencies...let's evaluate:
1)Perhaps simple play behaviors
Like....? Perhaps the choice to behave in a manner that, while not overtly but very subtly, fit more with a feminine stereotype. Then a slightly more feminine play, and so on, over the course of years.
2)perhaps which friends were chosen
So it's thier fault ? No, but the choice impacted your future behavior, choosing a more feminine bo over a more masculine boy, choosing girls over boys, their behaviors impacted yours to some degree. There is no "fault", just fact.
3)Perhaps the choice of foods you ate the morning you played with the first female child in your early years that resulted in a horrible experience in the presence of (altered to be a more accurate statement)[b] a girl. [b]This is one statement not two.
NEver happened....I had a pretty nice childhood, and most straight guys HAVE had a very horrible experience with women..that never made them gay.... The point is that stating why is too complicated to respond to.
There are infinite possible choices that would eventually lead to homosexual behaviors. I do not think that the choice was, "Oh, that boy is cute", or anything like that, it was subtle and extremely innocent.
Would you say it was my fault that I am Bisexual ? No, but the choices you made and experiences you had resulted in your sexuality.