Originally posted by Devil King
what was supposed to remain private? You baiting me? This is why I know what you're doing isn't the whole innocent, disinterested 3rd party, concerend only with amicable outsomes, persona you use to deflect any responsablity from yourself "thing" doesn't fly with me.
I was trying to convince you to correct your post because I didn't want you to look bad. Seriously. I didn't anticipate you rejecting my PM AND mentioning it in your reply.
I made the "honorable" thing up to sound arrogant so you wouldn't think I was a "wuss". If I would have told you that from the get-go, you would have said something like, "I don't need your pity." Am I right?
Not everyone is a mean person all the time.
Originally posted by Zeal Ex Nihilo
Dude, he totally lurves you because you're his trusted BFF.YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL. YOU'RE NOT UNIQUE. YOU'RE NOT ONE-OF-A-KIND. YOU'RE NOT MAGICALLY AWESOME AND TOTALLY KEWL BECAUSE YOU'RE INVOLVED IN FORUM DRAMA THAT INCLUDES PERSONAL INFORMATION.
Ohhh, look at the cute little fella...he can type.
Originally posted by SpearofDestiny
If it's no one's business that her son has a boyfreind, then why isn't it also "no one's business" that his brother has a wife and kids ? 😬
When a coworkers asks her "So is your son hitched yet?", I think "yes" or "no" is enough. I don't think she needs to go into thorough detail about who he's sleeping with.
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
When a coworkers asks her "So is your son hitched yet?", I think "yes" or "no" is enough. I don't think she needs to go into thorough detail about who he's sleeping with.
Gay rights would change the perspective slightly. She could say..."well, my son can't get married because homosexual marriages aren't legal yet."
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
When a coworkers asks her "So is your son hitched yet?", I think "yes" or "no" is enough. I don't think she needs to go into thorough detail about who he's sleeping with.
But what if they ask who is he with now?
Is she going to say "none of your business", or is she going to admit that he's dating some bitchy gay guy ? lol
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
When a coworkers asks her "So is your son hitched yet?", I think "yes" or "no" is enough. I don't think she needs to go into thorough detail about who he's sleeping with.
I'm not talking about her co-workers, they don't really know who I am, aside from pictures she might have sitting around her office. I'm talking about people from our past; people who know me; people I grew up with, family friends, the parents of people I went to school with, old babysitters, etc. I'm not taking about total strangers. And if she were to give a simple and straight forward answer like yes or no, and then change the subject, they're going to wonder, WTF?. I know you understand my point. Does your wife never talk about your children when asked? When she runs into a family friend at the grocery store, does she engage in yes or no answers, or does she "chit-chat" with the person? Most people I know do it that way.
Originally posted by Quiero MotaI would say "He's dating this really nice guy" is about as much talking about your child's life as is "He's dating this really nice girl"
Of course she chit-chats, and I do too, but most people are reluctant to talk about their child's sex-life. Unless you want your old babysitter to know that.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Thanks for the info....yes, I already knew that. DK already divulged the contents of a PM that I thought should remain between us.... I thought of this before I typed those words and came to the conclusion that it didn't really matter to DK where he posted that information...note: he still answered my question and it WAS personal...I appreciated him answering me. Is that okay with you?
your butthurt gives me strength
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
their child's sex-life.
there's more to being gay than sex, just like in any straight relationship.
edit: which is kind of my point; most people can't seperate the act of gay sex from the fact of being gay, because that generation (as well as many menbers of those that followed) sees sex as the defining characteristic of being gay. (hence the part about gay guys her age thinking that gay sex is something that should take place at rest stops or airport bathrooms and invovle total annonimity.)
DK is right about that though...many people who aren't Gay think of being gay as being this lustful out of control Lord Urizen.
The truth is, there's no real absolute diffrence between people who are gay or straight. Straight guys are just as slutty as gay guys, the only difference is that straight guys need to give better game, since girls are harder in general to score.
Gay guys have it easier.
Homosexuality isn't just about sex. Like heterosexuality, love and companionship are also aspects of it....i know thats extremely hard for you to get Quiero Mota, but you can take my word for it.