Originally posted by Silver Stardust
I really am not sure WHAT I am...I don't think that simply finding someone of the same sex attractive makes one gay/bi...there are plenty of straight people who think that people of their gender are attractive.
Are you trying to write "handsome/pretty?" The term attractive implies sexual attraction
Originally posted by shaber
Are you trying to write "handsome/pretty?" The term attractive implies [B]sexual attraction [/B]
According to dictionary.com...
at·trac·tive
Pronunciation Key
adj.1. Having the power to attract.
2. Pleasing to the eye or mind; charming.
So it doesn't neccessarily have to be a sexual attraction.
Originally posted by Kanashimi
I havnt told my parents they are homophobic christians and tehy are against it in all ways and if i told them i was bi they would probably kick me out of the house
ouch dude... do u think when ure od enough to get a job and stuff u will tell them??
its like dude... Id hate to b in ure position... cuz its never easy to hate ure parents... but if u strongly do sumthin they strongly oppose they'll just have to live with it...
pretty kool of u to talk about it so easily dude :thumbup:
and SS, I'm pretty sure u can find someone of the same sex hot and not want to have sex with her... lor have a relationship ... you're prolly just a very adventorous person who likes to do wild stuff... like me 😄 hooray us 😐
I'm completely straight. I'm also comfortable enough in my sexuality to see why women like some men.
Someone asked me what I think of Brad Pitt just the other day actually. I'm in no way attracted to the man, I can see why women would like him though.
Attraction and realisation aren't equal to each other.
-AC
Originally posted by Silver Stardust
I think what it comes down to is that people are simply attracted to different things. Some gay people find the thought of having sex with someone of the other gender as disgusting as some straight people find the thought of having sex of someone of the same gender. Others don't. I, while I am straight, am willing to experiment. I will admit that I find women to be attractive.I don't really think homosexuality is entirely genetic...I think part of it is, and part of it is surroundings. A mixture of the two, if you will. Or that possibly it's the genes that makes one gay, but the surroundings that allows them to express it.
I agree ✅
And with regard to finding someone attractive and yet not wanting to actually have sex with them, that's perfectly viable. It means you appreciate them, aesthetically, but you don't necessarily want to screw them. How is this confusing?? 😕