to spank or not to spank....that is the question

Started by Mane11 pages
Originally posted by Mane
i disagree. i believe bullies are created through abuse, not discipline.
Originally posted by Samurai Guy
I think you are cool, Scottie! cheers

Ditto my friend. LOL.

Originally posted by Silver Tongue
Okay soooo you're saying that if a parent is big they should not spank there child?

That's asinine

No, I'm saying that talking to their children and having a communication is less harsh than spanking. Call it asinine or whatever but communication is far more important than getting physical.

Originally posted by WindDancer
No, I'm saying that talking to their children and having a communication is less harsh than spanking. Call it asinine or whatever but communication is far more important than getting physical.

Agreed.

yes. thats why spankings are last restorts...

Originally posted by WindDancer
No, I'm saying that talking to their children and having a communication is less harsh than spanking. Call it asinine or whatever but communication is far more important than getting physical.

Exactly! And i totally agree. I would never spank my daughter without trying to reason with her first, but sometimes there is no reasoning

Originally posted by WindDancer
No, I'm saying that talking to their children and having a communication is less harsh than spanking. Call it asinine or whatever but communication is far more important than getting physical.

Wind thats not always possible. Surely you have to know that.

Originally posted by WindDancer
No, I'm saying that talking to their children and having a communication is less harsh than spanking. Call it asinine or whatever but communication is far more important than getting physical.

True, but I have seen parents be more harsh with communication then I would ever be with physical violence.

Originally posted by Linkalicious
yet another wise as comment from the queen herself. 🙄

just once, i'd love it if you could make a comment without a some sort of b!tchy pretext remark...just once. 😉

and where is your proof that spanking your children doesn't achieve shit?
go ahead Sherlock...I'm breathing proof that it does achieve shit. But, wait...you can prove that it doesn't...

"Because If you do, I urge you to explain to me the supposed lack of evidence done on small children!"

lack of evidence done on small children. I'm no English Major...so please I urge you...explain what the hell that means exactly

Too late for that, im back to my old self! I even resized my avvy so bring it on biatch!

Beating and slapping works or TVs and electrical appliences, but if i beat you till you were too ugly for radio, all that would happen id have bruised knuckels. You wouldnt be any smarter!

bruised knuckles and a smile on your face no doubt.

Good to see you back to your old self Lils. I know we argue worst than old people...i just consider it tough love. 😉

I always liked that Avy, but i liked it bigger!

I wuld never spank my child. If i ever did then it wud break my heart

I'll change it back to bigger, i cant deal with small avvys cry I wanted to be all retro and back in old days, but i cant 😮

Anyway, the beating thing was an example 😛

Originally posted by Samurai Girl
I wuld never spank my child. If i ever did then it wud break my heart

Don't make promises you can't keep nono
you don't have kids so you don't know what you would do.

In extreme circumstances I can see how spanking may be acceptable. However, it's not something I will ever do. I plan on disciplining them another way. Spanking is taking the easy way out and in reality, causes more problems then anything.

Originally posted by Samurai Guy
True, but I have seen parents be more harsh with communication then I would ever be with physical violence.

*A-Hem*

Originally posted by Silver Tongue
Don't make promises you can't keep nono
you don't have kids so you don't know what you would do.

I learned a great line form my mom. WAIT TILL YOUR FATHER COMES HOME.

yeah too bad Mikas' daddy is already wrapped around her finger 🙄

Kidding Hun!

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Originally posted by Silver Tongue
yeah too bad Mikas' daddy is already wrapped around her finger 🙄

Kidding Hun!

ASHES you changed your name

Originally posted by Linkalicious
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Let me question Link for a second.

Look into the eyes of that sweet girl and tell me you would hit her.