teens & birth control

Okay, well, I feel this is a very interesting topic, as I just became an adult/ending teenage years, (different opinions on "adult", but I don't mind)

First off: Jackie, everytime I see you post, and I see that "Vote For Bush" bullshit in your signature, let me make it very clear, YOU ARE A DUMB 14 YEAR OLD B!TCH TO WANT PEOPLE TO VOTE FOR THAT JACKASS!!!!!

Now, onto the topic issue:

I'm not even going to go into what the hell Alpha said as well, and Jackie....jesus GIRL....you need to hit puberty....and learn more then the 5th grade sex education tape you saw. Not ALL Teenagers are complete "rebels", your being a shallow b!tch and I suggest you shut the **** up. I was/am a teenager, and I for one am not a "rebel, cool kid, bad ass, do what I want", and my friends in high school weren't either, I don't associate with those jackasses.

I feel the only fool-proof manner is both, condom & pill. Now, I feel I will be prepared (if the time comes) within the next year or so, 18 (now)-19 (next May) to have intercourse for the first time, and I have a very strong idea of the woman I wish to share this with. (not saying anything more about her, so don't ask) And I know, sooner or later, I will indeed bring up birth control with her, and hope she agrees with me, because as nasty as condoms feel, I'm not ready for a child, and I don't want to put her future at risk, and it would be way to much shit just to have unprotected sex for the fun of it. I myself personally, will use condoms, until I marry, and then will talk to my wife about unprotected sex, if she is willing to worry about the possibility of a child, and also, the child won't be born on a wed lock, (I think that's the term, when a child is born to an unmarried couple, it's born on a wed lock?) and maybe inbetween doing so, we will have a child.

My mother knows I have alot of common sense, and as uncomfortable as it was, she was very vague, and just told me to use a condom whenever I do, unless I'm married and want a child of course. But I took it among myself to learn the vague facts about birth control from my Health book in 12th grade, and decided that this is the only 100% fool-proof way.

I may not be 100%, but that is what I feel, and I hope it is something atleast.

Jackie...

In a nutshell, birth control for teenagers is the greater of the two evils.

Birth control is cheating the system, but if you let it go naturally then there is going to be a larger slue of teenage pregnancies. And there is a high chance that no teenage boy is going to want to be a father.

Originally posted by ssj4goku
well think about it you cant stop them unless you chain them to a wall and then you will get locked up for being un humane

That is only if you get caught. 😈

No what I am saying is.Yes teens will do what they want.But handing them birth control pills is encouging them to use it and sleep around.Not giving it to them may stop teens from sleeping around.
KNowing that after a talk from a parent that they may become a teen mom or father.
So to me it is a big risk giving them the pills because that might been they attend to use it.If you don't then maybe they will not even think about doing it.
That is what I am trying to say.Acouse there up bring could be one of the promblems of them sleeping around.Maybe if they were taught in a early age about sin and such.
THey would not even think about it.No matter how rebelish they are to there parents.Up bring may be a promblem for some.JM

Parents role as I see it: Raise your kids with a basic idea of what's right and wrong outside of the house and in the world, without forcing it on them. That way they wont take it as being made to live a certain way, they will more than likely take it as advice and take it under advisement. That's what I did.

On Sex: Talk to them about the positives and negatives of all aspects of sexual activity without trying to be a doctor. Advising them to go to a doctor, one that isn't known by the family if it makes them feel slightly better and get to know the ins and outs.

The key thing in my opinion is advice, not force.

If my parents forced me to believe things I would probably have thought "**** you" and done the opposite. I was allowed to develop my own ideas. Whatever I did wrong, I took the right amount of responsibility that I should have.

Kids: Instead of running away and/or rebelling. If your parents ARE forcing you, the best way to get back at them isn't to go out and make them worry, scared or do the exact opposite. Just go out, become learned on everything that you feel you should (sexual activity in this case) and decide what YOU feel is the safest action in the knowledge that whatever happens is YOUR choice. If you make the most logical and reasonable choice, more importantly sensible, your parents will have been proven wrong by you and you will also have remained safe. Killing two birds with one stone.

Parents need to listen more, kids need to talk more. Responsibilty needs to be taken more by those who deserve it.

-AC

Originally posted by Jackie Malfoy
No what I am saying is.Yes teens will do what they want.But handing them birth control pills is encouging them to use it and sleep around.Not giving it to them may stop teens from sleeping around.
KNowing that after a talk from a parent that they may become a teen mom or father.
So to me it is a big risk giving them the pills because that might been they attend to use it.If you don't then maybe they will not even think about doing it.
That is what I am trying to say.Acouse there up bring could be one of the promblems of them sleeping around.Maybe if they were taught in a early age about sin and such.
THey would not even think about it.No matter how rebelish they are to there parents.Up bring may be a promblem for some.JM

NOT ALL TEENS ARE REBELS YOU RETARD!!!!!!!! ranting NO ONE IS SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT GIVING A TEENAGE GIRL THE PILL, WE ARE TALKING ABOUT EXPLAINING IT TO HER, JESUS JACKIE YOUR STUPID!!!!!!!!!! I don't know where you live, nor do I care, but with how dumb you are, you probably sleep around, had the pill given to you, and probably are on your way to a teenage pregnancy with how you speak. "Sin and such?" 😆 Wow, that sentence alone is retarded. Stop being a stereotypical dumb b!tch, go to school, pick up a sex education book, and learn something, my god, our future is in the hands of YOU? WE'RE MORE ****ED THEN WITH BUSH IN THE WHITEHOUSE!!!!!!! 🙄

And even if a parent DID give her the pill, it PREVENTS pregnancy, not CAUSES it, jackass. You should change your name to Jackass Malfoy. 🙄

How nice that I am being annored. 😐

Newsflash, sweetie:

some

kids

will

have

sex

no

matter

what

you

do!

Your matter of thinking is what we call "looking at the world through rose-colored glasses". 👆

Originally posted by Jackie Malfoy
No what I am saying is.Yes teens will do what they want.But handing them birth control pills is encouging them to use it and sleep around.Not giving it to them may stop teens from sleeping around.
KNowing that after a talk from a parent that they may become a teen mom or father.
So to me it is a big risk giving them the pills because that might been they attend to use it.If you don't then maybe they will not even think about doing it.
That is what I am trying to say.Acouse there up bring could be one of the promblems of them sleeping around.Maybe if they were taught in a early age about sin and such.
THey would not even think about it.No matter how rebelish they are to there parents.Up bring may be a promblem for some.JM

and they should be taught about sins? HA! in other words you want them to be religious nuts that will happily wait till after marriage and follow the bible closely? so they can go and rape others? have intercouse with their father etc.?

Originally posted by Darth Revan
How nice that I am being annored. 😐

Newsflash, sweetie:

some

kids

will

have

sex

no

matter

what

you

do!

Your matter of thinking is what we call "looking at the world through rose-colored glasses". 👆

😆

Alas, some sanity and rationality in the world.

hey Jtothep dont be so mean to jackie i personaly like president bush but birth control is not the only answer cause there is still stds to worry about

Originally posted by ssj4goku
hey Jtothep dont be so mean to jackie i personaly like president bush but birth control is not the only answer cause there is still stds to worry about

No, I should be mean to that jackass. Pill AND condom is the answer, that way STDs AND pregnancy are avoided.

Originally posted by JToTheP
No, I should be mean to that jackass. Pill AND condom is the answer, that way STDs AND pregnancy are avoided.

Don't sugar coat it, JtotheP... say what you mean.

😄

I see the argument still rages on. You guys would do best ignoring that person. Its amazing how much better you feel. I for one have come to the conclusion that, that individual is well below the age required for posting at kmc given the speech phrasing and syntax along with the obvious spelling errors.

Originally posted by TheProgramSmith
Don't sugar coat it, JtotheP... say what you mean.

😄

I can't, I'm sick of censorship, DOWN WITH BUSH! 😆

right pill and condom but that is not always gaurenteed cause a condom could break so the safest is abstenence but it is not likely to happen

Originally posted by ssj4goku
right pill and condom but that is not always gaurenteed cause a condom could break so the safest is abstenence but it is not likely to happen

If the condom breaks, THAT'S WHY she TOOK THE PILL. No one is going to submit to abstence, just take the pill and use a condom, easily settled.

Originally posted by ssj4goku
right pill and condom but that is not always gaurenteed cause a condom could break so the safest is abstenence but it is not likely to happen

Abstenance is really not birth control, more birth prevention.

Obviously the safest way to avoid pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases is to avoid the act, but the safest way to avoid head injury while sky diving is to not sky dive, but we still wear helmets while doing said act.

For some people the 99.9% of not getting pregnant isn't enough. My girl wouldn't just allow that, she said the 1% is just enough to make her want me to use a condom also. Which is fair enough coz as J said, STDs and pregnancy are avoided.

If you get older and the both of you have kids or decided you don't want any/any more, then there's the option of a vasectomy.

-AC

Originally posted by Jedi Priestess
I see the argument still rages on. You guys would do best ignoring that person. Its amazing how much better you feel. I for one have come to the conclusion that, that individual is well below the age required for posting at kmc given the speech phrasing and syntax along with the obvious spelling errors.

😂

Ok...conclusion...if your daughter or you has sex take the pill use the condom

And for the people who say that girls will go against their parents a lot; hate to break it, but that's the truth...I mean, I know it's bad and I'm 15 and I like to go against my parents...if they tell me not to do something, chances are high that I'm going to do it.....same with sex, you tell your son/daughter NOT to have sex,what do you think most of them will do?..