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AmStar 14 Manager
Originally posted by TheFilmProphet
Cinema you might consider it all to be perfectly justified and not an insult. No matter how much you twist and try to explain it all, bottom line is that calling me ann "ass-sore" and calling me someone like "Mr. O' Reilly" is offensive and many people would agree. Sugar-coating everything won't suddenly make it alright to insult me and call me names. You might be able to do this to other people without any objections, but it doesn't make it right.
"Ass-sore" isn't a noun, it's an adjective. It's not an insult, it's a state of being. If you can sit there and tell me that I haven't upset you, by no fault of my own, might I add, then I'll retract it. And if people are offended by me saying someone's spinning my words, which is self-evident, I'd seriously suggest they commit themselves, as they're experiencing paranoid delusions.
Like I said before, if I wanted to or had insulted you, you'd know it. I don't work like that, however. I'll speak my mind, rest assured. I just think you're coming into a serious debate, with a lot at stake, with a totally pacifistic attitude. I'm not out to break you down. I'm trying to get my point across, and you're totally shutting me out, looking for negatives in my approach, because you think I'm against your cause, and you have yet to realize otherwise.
Originally posted by pr1983
i haven't twisted anything. your an intelligent guy cine, your smart enough to articulate what u mean. just because we're passionate about something you don't agree with doesn't give you the right to call anyone ass-sore, so your really defeating your own argument about the term.we wouldn't mind if you wanted to debate and give genuine reasons why terminator should be moved, if you treated this with a bit of respect we wouldn't mind.
and against you? wtf? if you didn't want to come in here you didn't have to. you disagree with us, what did you expect? to change our minds?
Well, I wasn't even referring to you in particular. I'm passionate about the forum, too, but I am also realistic, and that's something you can't lose sight of. There are variables, of which are ultimately going to either work FOR you or AGAINST you. Keep them in mind, and don't let your passion eclipse your sense of reality. We all have different ways of expressing how we feel. I'm a realist, and things just HAVE to be done before considering a move for the forums.
I've been as respectful as I know to be! I've offered my services, my time, my dedication, and the majority of you are failing to realize that, as I said before MAJOR changes would need to be made, and Raz is going to tell you the SAME EXACT THING. I know it needs better exposure to be successful, but it has to be FIT to be promoted before it can even THINK about getting said upgrade. You know what I mean. We all want what's best for the forums. I myself am not "ass-sore", and we need to drop the term because it's getting as played out as "fanfare". I take opposition in stride, I'm used to it. I've been having ideas shot down for years on various sites, but I still was open to constructuve criticism, and refrained from looking to make a negative out of it.
At first, I did disagree that a bigger and better forum wasn't necessary. But, as a Sci Fi fanatic, I'm going to lend a hand, naturally, since it won't actually harm anything or anyone. I'm a perfectionist, and I want things to be at maximum operability before being presented.