Is it ok for a 16 year old to have sex with a 20 year old?

Older guys go for younger girls because there is less competition and the guys can generally get whatever they want from a younger girl because the girl will be more willing to go out of their way to please their older boyfriend.

depends on how hot..I mean responsible the 16 year old girl is.

i totally agree a younger girl will do whatever it takes to please their older boyfriend and sometimes the guy takes advantage of the situation which i think is crap.

yes i do only date younger girls but i do not pressure them for anything

Why do you only date younger girls? Will woman your own age not date you?

younger girls rock dude!...therefore i go back to my original stance of they think they know what love is...so all the better to exploit

Originally posted by Linkalicious
Older guys go for younger girls because there is less competition and the guys can generally get whatever they want from a younger girl because the girl will be more willing to go out of their way to please their older boyfriend.

"Avoid familiaritiies in intercourse. Neither use them nor permit them. The stars keep their brilliance by not making themselves common. Every familiarity breeds contempt." quoted by Baltasar Gracian, (1647)

Older women are better than younger women.

Experience...and a stronger sex drive. And you're not stuck avoiding bars, concerts, sporting events....or anything else that is prohibited to minors.

To clarify, yes you can still go to concerts and sporting events, but both people can't buy alcohol.

16 with a 20, that just means the 16 year old child cant get anything else.

It legal in singapore....

I really dont think there's anything wrong with it. I mean in a situation like that everyone really needs to be careful that the 16 year old isnt dating a complete shithead and getting beat on or whatever.

But i know from personal experience. My boyfriend is 4 years older than me and we've been together for almost 4 years. We started dating when I was 15 and he was 19. My parents were a little uneasy about it, but he turned out to be a really nice guy. Besides, my parents are 9 years apart, so they can give advice about age difference, but they really cant complain.

The maturity difference between a 15 year old and a 19 year old SHOULD be so vast that the 19 year old should find very little of what the 15 is interested in. However, a 15 or 16 yearold girl will "give it up quicker" in order to keep the elder boyfriend, or so seems the general consensus among men who are interested in teenagers.

Originally posted by Ming Tea!
Well what do you guys think? I'm not dating anyone that young but I just want your opinions. I know this has been done before but I need to know.

Originally posted by eggmayo
Yeah.. round here... 14 yr olds get more sex than anyone... really.

don't tell eleven inches 🙂

Originally posted by Alan Partauri
Every girl I've been with has been older than me. Not significantly older that it made a difference.....except two of them.

-AP

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

'Girl'.

When I was 21 I dated a 17 yr old. It was great, there was always a designated driver.

Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
NO its not ok. ITS ILLEGAL!

But back to the question, no it's not wrong. A sixteen year old and a twenty year old are both in the grey area of teenagehood trying to mature into an adult, albeit the sixteen year old is on the younger half of the pole and the twenty year old the older half, but it's still a difficult time period and neither one is probably fully "mature" yet. (Though some people never mature. But that's a differant story..)

But again, sex in itself is not wrong ever, it's when it's abused and mis-used it becomes wrong. SpellJammer doesn't find anything wrong with even a fourteen year old having sex with a twenty year old. As long as they're married. Cause marriage says to SpellJammer "this is forever", "we are ceartain we love eachother", and if you're willing to go through the red tape and hassle of marriadel bonds, SpellJammer thinks you're entitled to scrump, bump, hump, and pump.. 😂

thats right big evil, its all the liberals' fault. whatever the case.

if the issue of underage sex comes up, its the liberal's fault teens are having sex.

if the issue of morality laws you deem to be unfair comes up, its the liberals' fault teens are not having sex.

bravo!!!

You know what they say..."It's better to get caught with an underage boy than a dead girl" 😉

You are better off to wait. Unless you are going to die tomorrow, you are not missing anything that you wont have later.