Is it ok for a 16 year old to have sex with a 20 year old?

Started by Red X16 pages

Heh, Big responsobility. I started renting my own apartment on New Years. You gotta pay the rent, buy food, then somehow manage to save money for the ring.

Originally posted by Silver Stardust
Peter...no offense, but you're still a kid...just give it some time, yeah?

You probably say this because you think I really have no idea do you??
I do know what it feels like..

P.S. I'm no kid.. I'm a young adult..!!! 😉

Originally posted by Red X
Heh, Big responsobility. I started renting my own apartment on New Years. You gotta pay the rent, buy food, then somehow manage to save money for the ring.

i'm emmigrating so the house gotta come first 😬

P.S. I'm no kid.. I'm a young adult..!!!

Actually 18 years old would legally make you a young adult. At 17 years old, plus one month, you are still a kid.

Yeah. So in all, I think you should only have sex with a girl you know, and if your 18 tops.

granted when i was twenty i slept with a girl that was 14,we were friends and stuff just happened and i dont regret it and now that i am 21 i am with a girl who is 17,we are both happy but we here about the age thing all the time

Re: Is it ok for a 16 year old to have sex with a 20 year old?

Originally posted by David Duchovony
Well what do you guys think? I'm not dating anyone that young but I just want your opinions. I know this has been done before but I need to know.

No.

An interesting question. Here in Australia the "age of consent" is 16 (except for homosexuals, who for some reason are 18), also interesting is that the world health organisation recently stated how in the last two years case of Sexually transmitted diseases in girls as young as 14 has doubled (primarily chlamydia) though not due to contact with men older then them, but rather boys there same age.

Personally I think 16 is still a bit to young, but then I also see it appears people are growing up a lot faster and become, it appears, more sexually exploitative at younger ages. So is it wrong for a 20 year old to be with a 16 year old? It depends on the people in question, so I would give a yes and no.

maby im just jufgemental but if a girl freely and willingly has sex at 14,15 shit like that.....she's a whore to me anyway......like those chicks who end up on the Maury show.....but all in all they re my type of whores tho

16 is the legal age of consent in most of the US, so go for it. Let us know how it turns out.

"I was actually referring to the younger teenage years...13-17"

Whether you think it's RIDICULOUS or not, it's not 'wrong' purely because they are legal. 16 is average legal age. Anyone of or above that age being dated by a 20 year old is perfectly legal. I thought the age gap in the US, for relationships at least, was seen to be 5 years max. In which case 16-20 is 4.

-AC

Its up to the two people involved and its not anyone elses buisiness really.

Yeah but since when did the general public care about if it has anything to do with them or not?

Look at the Michael Jackson case. What should have been kept between him and the families is now worldwide news fodder.

-AC

Thats a different story though, he allegedly commited acts of pedophelia, and here I think it kinda goes by the moral sxcale of things. Whats worse? A 20 year old sleeping with a 16 year old? Or a 4o something year old boozing 12 year olds and sleeeing with them? Plus him being a star of sutch calibre doesnt help the situation.

Yeah but that doesn't change the fact that it really has nothing to do with anyone besides those involved. Of course it's gonna get out but it's nothing to do with anyone else, if we're being technical.

People say "Well I want my kids safe". As if Jackson is some lecherous door to door paedophile.

All this and he still hasn't even been convicted. People suck.

My point was, that you are correct. It's between the two people and if they are both legal, there is nothing wrong. If your moral fabric is torn by what they are doing, despite it being legal........deal. None of your business.

-AC

People do suck. I agree with everything you said there.

"Is it okay for at 16-year old to have sex with a 20-year old?"

Seeing as the Danish minimum sexual age is 15, the answer is "yes".

I don't see a problem with it ... as long as she/he doesn't look and act 12. If it was the same age difference but older no one would batter an eye lid, so I don't see why that is wrong, it already happens with a much larger age difference.
By the way -- David Duchovny is Hot 😛 😉

MJ is a door-to-door pedophile, eh?

That would be very disturbing. If Michael Jackson came to my door peddling his 'wares', I would kick him in the crotch.

I just read 16 pages of what turned out to be younger girl older guy stuff. That does go the other way sometimes.....take it from one who knows. 😉