Is it ok for a 16 year old to have sex with a 20 year old?

Originally posted by Ou Be Low hoo
I agree with dark1365...No older than 3 or 4...5 years old at the most.

I'm a realist..I understand that people are going to have sex whether laws are passed or not...however..I don't think the law should enforce bad behavior..especially amongst teenagers...

I'm 19 years old..and I have to say that when I was 16...I didn't know a damb thing...when I turn 30..I'll look back on when I was 19, and think the same damb thing.....there shouldn't be laws passed to enable adults with "social" ineptness to have intercourse with minors...period..

People above the age of 20 who look for teenage children to have relationships with are pedophiles..and deserve to be treated like any other sex offender..

"People above the age of 20 who look for children in their teens to have relationships are pedophiles..and deserved to be treated like any other sex offender.."

Silliest comment I've read on here in some time.

Of course they're not. I'm in my teens, am I a child? No. Anyone above 20 dating a teen of legal age is doing absolutely nothing wrong.

-AC

Well, there is a difference between what is legal and what is morally acceptable

Morals differ between people. Laws do not.

If the girl is of legal age he's not a paedophile.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri

Of course they're not. I'm in my teens, am I a child? No. Anyone above 20 dating a teen of legal age is doing absolutely nothing wrong.

-AC

I was actually referring to the younger teenage years...13-17.....I should have clarified that...however..even if its legal..it's still friggin ridiculous for someone who's been an adult for quite some time...to date an individual who's just come of age...regardless of whether the law deems it to be legal or not...

If an individual has problems relating with others from their own peer groups..then they need to see a shrink.....for someone to believe that a 16 year old can be on the same maturity level as a 30 year old makes absolutely no sense in my book.....

There's something wrong with an individual who's 20 or over...who's combing the highschools/shopping malls looking for minors to date.... This is a big world..and there are many people 20+
who are out there to socialize with...

i kno its not 16 =20 yr old but 18 yr old with 29 yr old having a proper realitionship do u thinkits rite

Anything over 15 should be legal

hit it. quit it. 😖hifty:

ahem....in mexico. ✅

Besides if it's consentual there isnt anything morally wrong with it

Originally posted by David Duchovony
Well what do you guys think? I'm not dating anyone that young but I just want your opinions. I know this has been done before but I need to know.

statatory rape.

the end.

yeah. had a friend. she was 14. he was 19.
they f.u.c.ked.
yeah... ew.

It's only statutory rape if one of them is under the AOC, though...which in most places is 16.

Originally posted by ladygrim
i kno its not 16 =20 yr old but 18 yr old with 29 yr old having a proper realitionship do u thinkits rite

i was 18 when i met my gf (27), we're planning to get married...

its right if both people are of legal age and it makes them happy!

Originally posted by Silver Stardust
It's only statutory rape if one of them is under the AOC, though...which in most places is 16.

true.
it's 16 or younger in most places, even if it's with consent.

Originally posted by pr1983
i was 18 when i met my gf (27), we're planning to get married...

its right if both people are of legal age and it makes them happy!

Heh, Im still saving up money on part time job(The other rest of the day I go to college) for a ring 😛

i'm in the same position, but house first, ring second...

Damm wish I'm old enough to experience that...

Pain in the neck I tell you.

It probably is... but pain has already been part of my life 2 years ago...

I.. just wish to be a dad...

Peter...no offense, but you're still a kid...just give it some time, yeah?