Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If I'm horny and I jerk off, I'm not horny anymore.
for how long? an hour? seriously
its a temporary release and in the long run, not substantial
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I never said if you masturbate it removes will to have sex for life, way to blow things out of proportion.
not out of proportion at all. a peadophile wants to have sex with a child. the only thing stopping them is the concequences, and perhaps a remaining shred of morals. however, wouldnt those morals erode through constant rewarding of that urge through porn?
either way, the porn doesnt matter. at best it will delay, but not prevent.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
It's entirely possible for someone to be attracted to watching something, not neccessarily being a part of it. I know females who say they get turned on by watching rape scenes in movies (which from a psychological standpoint is semi-understandable) but they don't walk out the door hoping they get raped. -AC
i have heard of this too. but its (from my understanding) a forceful initiation of sex, not forceful entry. (i tried to wrap my brain around this many times, but can never understand...but maybe thats a good thing, right?) the scenario being: she WANTS to have sex with him but for whatever reason refuses, and he refuses to accept the 'no' and persists in groping her until she finally lets go of whatever inhabition she was holding on to. in court that might stand up as rape with a good lawyer, but in a romance novel...thats different i suppose. but lets stick to the true meaning of 'rape' which is forced sex with the victim having no attraction to the victimiser at the time of the rape.
edit: hmmmm do i smell 'new topic'? 😕