Originally posted by The Omega
BF>“Yeah, I forgot to say that the threat starter is pretty much correct, there is an undeniable double standard when it comes to women and what's acceptable.”And who is to blame? As Winddancer says … If guys get harassed and they do not sue – then it’s the guys own fault, no?
“The sweet power” is spreading… You guys better wake up and start protesting soon.Some things are changing in society for sure.
But… What I’m getting tired of is this CONSTANT man vs. woman debate. As if we’re somehow at WAR with each other and are defined solely as a gender.
Think about what you did today. How many things did you do because you are the gender you are – and how many things had nothing to do with you being male or female?
Originally posted by GCG
There is also the 'bullying' at workplaces. Women at work get their arse pinched very often. One has to evaluate the circumstances of this abuse to see whether it was done as a prank in front of an 'Audience' or if the abuse happened behind closed doors, which can be serious as it does get a little intimidating..... 😕
of course one has to evaluate the situation, but I really dont' see the difference in whether there was an audience or not. having your arse groped to the amusement of your coworkers is humiliating and unpleasant and it might even make it more difficult to make it stop, since it's all in good fun and what's the fuss?
as you said yourself; women at work get their arse pinched very often. does it make it more right or pleasant for the victim course there's an audience?
Originally posted by lil bitchiness
No actually - British Crime survey suggest that 70% of those are not reported. This also includes rape.I can tell that you're saying most of it from the ''logical perspective'' and that you have not encountared one single peace of research or gray literature to support your view, or even for the grounds of that view. You are not absolutely right at all.
Actually I'm talking from personal experience.
I've seen my father hauled off in a police car from defending himself while my mom attacked him with a knife. He was sliced on the arm and stomache while she had little more than a red wrist from having her knife holding hand restrained.
You can dig up as much crap from internet research as you like...it doesn't make it any more credible to me than what I've seen with my own two eyes.
Women get warnings. Men get sent to jail.
enough with the bagging on chicks..were obviously only geettingh away with this type of stuff cuz you guys have made it that way....Do you think grls like it when you have every car with a guy in it holloring and screaming at them like there some piece of meat..dont you think thats degrating....you guys put your self in that position...if you scream at us like dogs that how we know we can control you...and about your friend if he didnt want to show his shit he didnt have to..iv been cornered by plenty of guys to flash them and i didnt and i didnt look at it as sexual harrasment..just some drunk horney guys..if they try to touch me then i tell them to back off its easy your friend should try it.....
Originally posted by kaidaboo
enough with the bagging on chicks..were obviously only geettingh away with this type of stuff cuz you guys have made it that way....Do you think grls like it when you have every car with a guy in it holloring and screaming at them like there some piece of meat..dont you think thats degrating....you guys put your self in that position...if you scream at us like dogs that how we know we can control you...and about your friend if he didnt want to show his shit he didnt have to..iv been cornered by plenty of guys to flash them and i didnt and i didnt look at it as sexual harrasment..just some drunk horney guys..if they try to touch me then i tell them to back off its easy your friend should try it.....
Originally posted by kaidaboo
enough with the bagging on chicks..were obviously only geettingh away with this type of stuff cuz you guys have made it that way....Do you think grls like it when you have every car with a guy in it holloring and screaming at them like there some piece of meat..dont you think thats degrating....you guys put your self in that position...if you scream at us like dogs that how we know we can control you...and about your friend if he didnt want to show his shit he didnt have to..iv been cornered by plenty of guys to flash them and i didnt and i didnt look at it as sexual harrasment..just some drunk horney guys..if they try to touch me then i tell them to back off its easy your friend should try it.....
Well but he got forced physically thats something different.
Re: Women, they get away with anything.
Originally posted by ((The_Anomaly))I also completely agree with you
Ok here is the problem I have: Is that woman can get away with any kind of sexual discrimination or harassment simply because they are women.I REALLY noticed this about 4 weeks ago because my friend was up to my University.
Anyways he was hanging out with the girls downstairs (they were all drunk). What happened was that they were harassing him to show his penis to them (about 7 or so girls and just him as the only male)
Anyways, he was standing there and they all were harassing him, the next thing he knows they pulled his pants down! (He was wearing pajama pants). And what happened? They were all like “hahaha! Yes we just sexually harassed you and because were girls it’s not a problem, it’s just good fun”. This really pisses me off (he was very unimpressed to say the least) girls can do something like this and there are absolutely no consequences, as a matter of fact, society seems to just not care. In contrast if I was to harass a girl to take off her shit and then she didn’t so I pulled her shit off, I’d get sued for sexual harassment, or at the very least my peers would think I’m some sick perverted weirdo and the rest of the girls would never talk to me again. But girls can do it and their peers just think it’s hilariously funny.
There is a serious problem in society when it comes to this and I was wondering what you all think.
how come females get away with alot of stuff but men cant?
i had this convo with a friend of mine at work on monday. is it just me or is it that women get away with stuff? for instince a girl will flirt her way out of a ticket but yet if a guy did that to a female cop he would get arrested. also the sexual harrasment situation is kinda a toy for females. a girl can just walk in and look like a cheap hooker and if a guy makes a comment *bam* sexual harrassment. i think females get away with more sh*t than (us) guys
Originally posted by Marxman
True. Its called a double standard. But it works both ways. If a guy bangs three chicks in one night, he's the man. If a girl bangs three guys in one night, she's a whore. If a man is trying to get the promotion, he's ambitious. If the girl is trying to get the promotion, she's conniving.
true. but for us men sex is incoded in are d.n.a and i believe women have a gene in there dna to just shop.
Re: Women, they get away with anything.
Originally posted by ((The_Anomaly))
Ok here is the problem I have: Is that woman can get away with any kind of sexual discrimination or harassment simply because they are women.I REALLY noticed this about 4 weeks ago because my friend was up to my University.
Anyways he was hanging out with the girls downstairs (they were all drunk). What happened was that they were harassing him to show his penis to them (about 7 or so girls and just him as the only male)
Anyways, he was standing there and they all were harassing him, the next thing he knows they pulled his pants down! (He was wearing pajama pants). And what happened? They were all like “hahaha! Yes we just sexually harassed you and because were girls it’s not a problem, it’s just good fun”. This really pisses me off (he was very unimpressed to say the least) girls can do something like this and there are absolutely no consequences, as a matter of fact, society seems to just not care. In contrast if I was to harass a girl to take off her shit and then she didn’t so I pulled her shit off, I’d get sued for sexual harassment, or at the very least my peers would think I’m some sick perverted weirdo and the rest of the girls would never talk to me again. But girls can do it and their peers just think it’s hilariously funny.
There is a serious problem in society when it comes to this and I was wondering what you all think.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you talking about the one who is getting married to the student?
the teacher who was a model. i cant think of her name but look at how hot she is and gets a slap on the wrist. and another thing ive noticed is she goes oh i screwed so in so but i didnt realise it. tell me this how the hell can a woman not realise she has a dick in her goodies? i mean come one people its not like the girl imagined a dick being rammed in her.