Yeah, and why does the male version of '5lut' happen to be 'stud'?
biology. Humans are animals. All animals are biologically pre-disposed to certain behaviors to allow procreation, the carrying-on of their genes. The male and female roles are very different in just about every species of animal on earth, with few exceptions.
Female : Their role is to find the man with the best genes to mate with to pass on to their offspring. It is a process of finding THE best.....to ensure they have the best offspring possible.
Male: The role of the male of the species is simply to spread his seed.....to mate whenever possible in hopes of passing on his genes. It has nothing to do with finding THE best female to mate with......any will serve his purpose, which is simply to procreate.
I hope that answers your question........
I see alot of girls in this thread posting that they flirt......but it's just playful. Um......showing romantic interest in somebody should not be "playful". If you don't actually want to have a romantic relationship with a man, why do you lead him to believe that you do? Does it make you feel good to know you are leading a man on.....giving him the false pretense that you want to have a romantic relationship with him? That doesn't sound too fun or playful to me...........it actually sounds a bit mean and disrespectful.
Originally posted by Evil Dead
I see alot of girls in this thread posting that they flirt......but it's just playful. Um......showing romantic interest in somebody should not be "playful". If you don't actually want to have a romantic relationship with a man, why do you lead him to believe that you do? Does it make you feel good to know you are leading a man on.....giving him the false pretense that you want to have a romantic relationship with him? That doesn't sound too fun or playful to me...........it actually sounds a bit mean and disrespectful.
It's about power and control.
Originally posted by Evil Dead
biology. Humans are animals. All animals are biologically pre-disposed to certain behaviors to allow procreation, the carrying-on of their genes. The male and female roles are very different in just about every species of animal on earth, with few exceptions.Female : Their role is to find the man with the best genes to mate with to pass on to their offspring. It is a process of finding THE best.....to ensure they have the best offspring possible.
Male: The role of the male of the species is simply to spread his seed.....to mate whenever possible in hopes of passing on his genes. It has nothing to do with finding THE best female to mate with......any will serve his purpose, which is simply to procreate.
I hope that answers your question........
I see alot of girls in this thread posting that they flirt......but it's just playful. Um......showing romantic interest in somebody should not be "playful". If you don't actually want to have a romantic relationship with a man, why do you lead him to believe that you do? Does it make you feel good to know you are leading a man on.....giving him the false pretense that you want to have a romantic relationship with him? That doesn't sound too fun or playful to me...........it actually sounds a bit mean and disrespectful.
Thanks for answering my question, but you did it on rather a primal level 😂 I just meant why do people use the word 5lut in a derogatory context towards females who put it about, so to speak, when the male is considered a stud, as in, praised for his ability to 'conquer' as many women as he pleases?
And the word flirt, IMO, basically means playfully showing a romantic interest. That's the whole point. It isn't meant to be disrespectful, it's all about the banter, adrenaline rush and reaction. Men do it too.
Originally posted by Syren
Thanks for answering my question, but you did it on rather a primal level 😂 I just meant why do people use the word 5lut in a derogatory context towards females who put it about, so to speak, when the male is considered a stud, as in, praised for his ability to 'conquer' as many women as he pleases?And the word flirt, IMO, basically means playfully showing a romantic interest. That's the whole point. It isn't meant to be disrespectful, it's all about the banter, adrenaline rush and reaction. Men do it too.
To answer your question in the most simple way, it's a double standard.
Thanks for answering my question, but you did it on rather a primal level I just meant why do people use the word 5lut in a derogatory context towards females who put it about, so to speak, when the male is considered a stud, as in, praised for his ability to 'conquer' as many women as he pleases?
women are looked down upon because they are acting in direct contradiction to our biological impulses.....while men are praised for doing their job well by spreading their seed around as much as possible, it is their job.
And the word flirt, IMO, basically means playfully showing a romantic interest. That's the whole point. It isn't meant to be disrespectful, it's all about the banter, adrenaline rush and reaction. Men do it too.
no......men don't do it to be "playful". If a man is flirting with you......he does want to fuck you. He's not playing....he's not leading you on..........he's trying to get inside your vagina................which by what you say is the exact opposite of women's reasons. Women just do it to play......with no actual intension of giving up the poon.....they just want to tease men to make themselves feel better.
Originally posted by Evil Dead
women are looked down upon because they are acting in direct contradiction to our biological impulses.....while men are praised for doing their job well by spreading their seed around as much as possible, it is their job.
you have a strange sense of things when it obviously comes to women. A contradiction? To what? If a woman wishes to sleep around then who am I to say no to that? And if she's called a "****" for doing so, then let be a badge on honour on her part. I could care less as long as she's responsible about it, e.g. protection from STD's and getting pregnant.
I myself would love it if more women would assert their sexuality like us men...if they want it, then go and get it without repercussions from the morally self-righteous fks spewing their vile venom around.
Originally posted by Syren
Thanks for answering my question, but you did it on rather a primal level 😂 I just meant why do people use the word 5lut in a derogatory context towards females who put it about, so to speak, when the male is considered a stud, as in, praised for his ability to 'conquer' as many women as he pleases?And the word flirt, IMO, basically means playfully showing a romantic interest. That's the whole point. It isn't meant to be disrespectful, it's all about the banter, adrenaline rush and reaction. Men do it too.
Actually a study showed that people with a high number of sexual partners were considered less intelligent than those with a low number. This was true for both men and women. I wish I could remember the link, but the article was very informative.
The question was about women who flirt with men that they have no attraction to. A playful showing of romantic interest is pretty much lying to the other person if the romantic interest doesn't really exist. Men do flirt, but in the majority of cases, they are somewhat interested.
Originally posted by Evil Dead
no......men don't do it to be "playful". If a man is flirting with you......he does want to fu[b]ck you. He's not playing....he's not leading you on..........he's trying to get inside your vagina................which by what you say is the exact opposite of women's reasons. Women just do it to play......with no actual intension of giving up the poon.....they just want to tease men to make themselves feel better. [/B]
With men it isn't always about sex.
Originally posted by Oswald Kenobi
Actually a study showed that people with a high number of sexual partners were considered less intelligent than those with a low number. This was true for both men and women. I wish I could remember the link, but the article was very informative.The question was about women who flirt with men that they have no attraction to. A playful showing of romantic interest is pretty much lying to the other person if the romantic interest doesn't really exist. Men do flirt, but in the majority of cases, they are somewhat interested.
With men it isn't always about sex.
It's always about sex with a male... if they are flirting with a woman there will only ever be one motive; to sleep with her. With women, generally, it is initially to gauge a reaction, to get reassurance that they are physically attractive and perhaps to sleep with the male. But for women there is usually more than one motive. With men, usually only one.
And as for the intelligence level, I am quite happy to take your word for it. But that must make me (and many other women) an exception to the rule. I have slept with many people and I consider myself quite intelligent. I knew exactly what I was doing, I enjoyed it. And none of my grey matter exploded from my ears in the process 🙄 I would like the link if you manage to find it though, sounds interesting.
Originally posted by Syren
It's always about sex with a male... if they are flirting with a woman there will only ever be one motive; to sleep with her. With women, generally, it is initially to gauge a reaction, to get reassurance that they are physically attractive and perhaps to sleep with the male. But for women there is usually more than one motive. With men, usually only one.And as for the intelligence level, I am quite happy to take your word for it. But that must make me (and many other women) an exception to the rule. I have slept with many people and I consider myself quite intelligent. I knew exactly what I was doing, I enjoyed it. And none of my grey matter exploded from my ears in the process 🙄 I would like the link if you manage to find it though, sounds interesting.
It isn't always about sex. I have flirted with many women that I had no intention nor desire of sleeping with. I just enjoyed their company. I flirt with my female friends all the time, but there is no sexual desire from either of us.
Don't misunderstand me. Many sex partners doesn't make a person less intelligent, just generally perceived as less intelligent by others. The study was based on interviews and could definitely be skewed.
Originally posted by Oswald Kenobi
It isn't always about sex. I have flirted with many women that I had no intention nor desire of sleeping with. I just enjoyed their company. I flirt with my female friends all the time, but there is no sexual desire from either of us.Don't misunderstand me. Many sex partners doesn't make a person less intelligent, just generally perceived as less intelligent by others. The study was based on interviews and could definitely be skewed.
✅ I see.
So you do agree that flirtatiousness is acceptable? I mean, you said yourself;
"A playful showing of romantic interest is pretty much lying to the other person if the romantic interest doesn't really exist. Men do flirt, but in the majority of cases, they are somewhat interested."
So you admit that you flirt without having a romantic interest? Therefore, flirting with a member of the opposite sex for reasons of fun and enjoyment is perfectly natural?