Tips How to Avoid Fights

Started by FistOfThe North13 pages

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
I already have the money, homes, but I have other more important things to spend 7k on. Its also a pain in the ass. (the whole process in general)

Fist of the North, I answered that like 7 posts up.

Didn't see it. I read that you couldn't cause it cost mad loot but now you can do it but won't cause you got better things to do with the dough.

I was just asking cause since you were down with a set, isn't that a penalty, to remove a G affiliated tat..Like, a sign of disrespect. Won't heads come looking for you for doing that..

Re: Tips How to Avoid Fights

Originally posted by Dark Thor
I was wondering if you guys could help me think of tips of how to avoid fights and gangsters. There are many gangsters in middle schools and high schools. I was lucky to avoid 7th and 8th grade. Im going to a high school next year. Can you guys help me think of ways i can avoid getting into fights?
heres a question for you, why are you even around them, but if they follow you, why?

1. Look them right in to the eye.
2. If that doesn't work, beat the shit outta the toughest guy of the gang.
3. If that don't work call yer own gang.

That's what I do.

Originally posted by Dark Thor
I was wondering if you guys could help me think of tips of how to avoid fights and gangsters. There are many gangsters in middle schools and high schools. I was lucky to avoid 7th and 8th grade. Im going to a high school next year. Can you guys help me think of ways i can avoid getting into fights?

never be scarred to give the first kick, in the moment when you see trouble coming and he (whoever) comes closer to you and starts to go on your nerves with some st*pid sh!t (this is the way this always starts) just kick as hard as you can, he will be hell surprised and tell him that he don't have to piss you off again. Take that time go to from there (leave as fast as you can if you see there are more persons who wants to fight too). Never use weapons those only make this a bigger problem problems, so never use something you don't want to have against yourself.

This is the way I react in a situation like this, the best you can do is to avoid this people, you know who they are and stay with your friends or be in groups of people.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Didn't see it. I read that you couldn't cause it cost mad loot but now you can do it but won't cause you got better things to do with the dough.

I was just asking cause since you were down with a set, isn't that a penalty, to remove a G affiliated tat..Like, a sign of disrespect. Won't heads come looking for you for doing that..

I got out of the game years ago, homes. I'm no longer affiliated, ey.

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
I got out of the game years ago, homes. I'm no longer affiliated, ey.

Me too. I decided that lifestyle wasn't gonna get me anywhere. Just got tired of it. So I just picked up, went back to school, then to college and graduated this past Dec. My family are my new peeps I chill with now. I'm around them now.

I have 2 tats. one on each arm and I want them removed. A celtic crosson my right shoulder and my old sets initials in 'Ol English literature on my left forearm.

I looked online and found a local derma clinic that charges $300 a session (13 sessions) for tat removal, a few trainstops away. I'll most likely go there.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Me too. I decided that lifestyle wasn't gonna get me anywhere. Just got tired of it. So I just picked up, went back to school, then to college and graduated this past Dec. My family are my new peeps I chill with now. I'm around them now.

I have 2 tats. one on each arm and I want them removed. A celtic crosson my right shoulder and my old sets initials in 'Ol English literature on my left forearm.

I looked online and found a local derma clinic that charges $300 a session (13 sessions) for tat removal, a few trainstops away. I'll most likely go there.

I got out right before my Junior year of highschool. Which was 2 years ago. There was a huge banger fight, and that's when I realized that this isn't exactly the safest thing to be doing with my life. I wasn't really loyal to them, I was just in it for protection.

Fortunately my tats are hidden enough that I don't need them removed right away. Although I did add to it so it doesn't look like it used to.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Me too. I decided that lifestyle wasn't gonna get me anywhere. Just got tired of it. So I just picked up, went back to school, then to college and graduated this past Dec. My family are my new peeps I chill with now. I'm around them now.

I have 2 tats. one on each arm and I want them removed. A celtic crosson my right shoulder and my old sets initials in 'Ol English literature on my left forearm.

I looked online and found a local derma clinic that charges $300 a session (13 sessions) for tat removal, a few trainstops away. I'll most likely go there.

What set did you use to be in Fist?

Originally posted by Da preacher
1. Look them right in to the eye.
2. If that doesn't work, beat the shit outta the toughest guy of the gang.
3. If that don't work call yer own gang.

That's what I do.

yea call the ones who got ya back. Yo and fight and stand up fo yourself, You cant jus let people walk all ova you. yo learn howe to fight if you dont knowe how to but if thats not wut you wanna do, think of an intellegent way how to stay away from the fight.

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
What set did you use to be in Fist?

Fist, Tu eres Dominicano, que no? Was it a gang in NY?

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
What set did you use to be in Fist?

Our set name was just our block's name. Since we we all lived and were apart of Ridgewood st. that's what we were called, Ridgewood st. Especially just plain "Ridgewood" and "Tha Ridge". Crazy block right there. Then 3 blocks over, you had The Stonehurst st. crew that most of us grew grew up wit. Then the street that formed a "T" at the top of Ridgewood st. was Topliff st. and they had a set named after the street. A couple of Ridge heads had family in the 2 other sets. The 3 of us were just one huge unit, it was crazy. I would see the crazyest shit. I had a lot of good and bad memories during that era.

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Fist, Tu eres Dominicano, que no? Was it a gang in NY?

Yea, how do you know. Well, I was born in NY but both my parents are Dominican. But my set was in Boston, Ma in Dorchester.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Yea, how do you know.

Because you said so in the Reggaeton Thread, and I knew that your gang was named after your block: Latino gangs always are.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Our set name was just our block's name. Since we we all lived and were apart of Ridgewood st. that's what we were called, Ridgewood st. Especially just plain "Ridgewood" and "Tha Ridge". Crazy block right there. Then 3 blocks over, you had The Stonehurst st. crew that most of us grew grew up wit. Then the street that formed a "T" at the top of Ridgewood st. was Topliff st. and they had a set named after the street. A couple of Ridge heads had family in the 2 other sets. The 3 of us were just one huge unit, it was crazy. I would see the crazyest shit. I had a lot of good and bad memories during that era.

For a second I thought you was D.D.P.

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
For a second I thought you was D.D.P.

What's D.D.P.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
What's D.D.P.

Dominicans Don't Play

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
Dominicans Don't Play

oh, nah. I never even heard of them, I chilled with mostly Cape Verdians.

Since my old block came up i just found this online about Ridgewood st., check it out...

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Two Dot Crime Watches Held Up among City's Finest
August 4, 2005
By Brian Denitzio and Jim O'Sullivan
Reporter Staff

Two neighborhood crime watch groups in Dorchester were honored this week at a National Night Out Celebration attended by Police Commissioner Kathleen O'Toole and Mayor Thomas M. Menino. The Ridgewood Street Crime Watch and the Groom-Humphrey Neighborhood Association Crime Watch were recognized as among the city's ten best neighborhood crime watches.

The Rev. Howard McLendon, a member of the Ridgewood Street group, moved to Dorchester in 2003, leaving behind life in the suburbs when he purchased a three-decker on the Fields Corner side of Meetinghouse Hill. McLendon, a former resident minister in a dormitory on the Boston College campus, said he chose Dorchester because it was affordable, but soon after moving he had doubts about his new neighborhood.

The street was notorious for criminal activity, plagued by drugs and gunplay, and in the months surrounding McLendon's purchase, Ridgewood St. was the site of three homicides.

"I was not aware of the street's history," said McClendon from his living room this week. "If I had been, I probably wouldn't have purchased on this street."

But his name was on the dotted line so McLendon decided to get involved, to try to turn the tide on Ridgewood St.

He saw a flier for a neighborhood watch in 2004, a movement spearheaded by neighbor Maria Andrade, and began attending meetings. The group met each month to discuss ways to help improve the quality of life on the street.

At first, McLendon said, he was surprised to hear the stories some neighbors told of their experiences that affected all elements of life on the street.

"People didn't feel safe, they felt threatened, people couldn't find good tenants," said McLendon.

With help from Area C-11 police and organizations such as the Bowdoin Street Health Center, the group set out to create a close-knit, community feel on the street. The group hoped to stem efforts by the few people engaged in illicit or anti-social activities to keep all residents living in fear.

"When you create community and you know who the people are then there are these relationships that are vested and that empowers you," said McLendon, who has seen a marked improvement in the quality of life on the street since the group formed in September 2004.

"The street is 95 percent better," said Eric Johnson, a community organizer with the Bowdoin Street Health Center, who aided the efforts of the crime watch.

The group's major event was a block party last month. Members of the group went up and down the street encouraging residents to come out. While attendance wasn't perfect, McLendon said that the event went a long way to dispel fear.

Dorchester's second winner, the Groom-Humphrey Neighborhood Association Crime Watch, notched a rare second victory. The Uphams Corner group drew 400 people to its peace march this year, holds monthly meetings at the Maxwell Flea Market building, and throws block parties and Christmas parties, all aimed at stemming conflict in one of the city's most violent areas.

Seated around a card table on Nonquit Street Tuesday night for National Night Out, group stalwarts Isaura Mendes and Hal Cohen said the group's success flows from its cooperation.

"We watch after each other," said Mendes, whose son Bobby was stabbed to death in 1995, a slaying many authorities point to as the start of a decade of killings in the Cape Verdean community.

"We're about working together, and I think we do well," she said.

"I think it's that we have persistence, with significant turnouts" at the regular meetings, Cohen said. He said the effort has grown from a blunt anti-crime group to a quality-of-life initiative.

"At first we had to concentrate on the crime," Cohen, who owns the Maxwell building, said. "Now one of our big concerns is building a kiddie park" on Hillsboro Street.

Fernando Bossa, who co-founded the group with Cohen, said the twice-recognized group has stayed vigilant.

"We really are making the system work for us. We're definitely using the phone tree, definitely reporting everything we see that shouldn't be going on."

Frank Armstrong, captain of district C-11 in which both crime watches are located, said that the cooperation between police and neighborhood groups is key in helping officers police the community.

"We can't do it alone, we like the partnerships with the neighborhood groups," said Armstrong.

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It's says Ridge got better. thats good. Headz are finally getting their act together.

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
Dominicans Don't Play

But you do play with dominos.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
oh, nah. I never even heard of them, I chilled with mostly Cape Verdians.

Since my old block came up i just found this online about Ridgewood st., check it out...

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
All Contents © Copyright 2005, Boston Neighborhood News, Inc.

Two Dot Crime Watches Held Up among City's Finest
August 4, 2005
By Brian Denitzio and Jim O'Sullivan
Reporter Staff

Two neighborhood crime watch groups in Dorchester were honored this week at a National Night Out Celebration attended by Police Commissioner Kathleen O'Toole and Mayor Thomas M. Menino. The Ridgewood Street Crime Watch and the Groom-Humphrey Neighborhood Association Crime Watch were recognized as among the city's ten best neighborhood crime watches.

The Rev. Howard McLendon, a member of the Ridgewood Street group, moved to Dorchester in 2003, leaving behind life in the suburbs when he purchased a three-decker on the Fields Corner side of Meetinghouse Hill. McLendon, a former resident minister in a dormitory on the Boston College campus, said he chose Dorchester because it was affordable, but soon after moving he had doubts about his new neighborhood.

The street was notorious for criminal activity, plagued by drugs and gunplay, and in the months surrounding McLendon's purchase, Ridgewood St. was the site of three homicides.

"I was not aware of the street's history," said McClendon from his living room this week. "If I had been, I probably wouldn't have purchased on this street."

But his name was on the dotted line so McLendon decided to get involved, to try to turn the tide on Ridgewood St.

He saw a flier for a neighborhood watch in 2004, a movement spearheaded by neighbor Maria Andrade, and began attending meetings. The group met each month to discuss ways to help improve the quality of life on the street.

At first, McLendon said, he was surprised to hear the stories some neighbors told of their experiences that affected all elements of life on the street.

"People didn't feel safe, they felt threatened, people couldn't find good tenants," said McLendon.

With help from Area C-11 police and organizations such as the Bowdoin Street Health Center, the group set out to create a close-knit, community feel on the street. The group hoped to stem efforts by the few people engaged in illicit or anti-social activities to keep all residents living in fear.

"When you create community and you know who the people are then there are these relationships that are vested and that empowers you," said McLendon, who has seen a marked improvement in the quality of life on the street since the group formed in September 2004.

"The street is 95 percent better," said Eric Johnson, a community organizer with the Bowdoin Street Health Center, who aided the efforts of the crime watch.

The group's major event was a block party last month. Members of the group went up and down the street encouraging residents to come out. While attendance wasn't perfect, McLendon said that the event went a long way to dispel fear.

Dorchester's second winner, the Groom-Humphrey Neighborhood Association Crime Watch, notched a rare second victory. The Uphams Corner group drew 400 people to its peace march this year, holds monthly meetings at the Maxwell Flea Market building, and throws block parties and Christmas parties, all aimed at stemming conflict in one of the city's most violent areas.

Seated around a card table on Nonquit Street Tuesday night for National Night Out, group stalwarts Isaura Mendes and Hal Cohen said the group's success flows from its cooperation.

"We watch after each other," said Mendes, whose son Bobby was stabbed to death in 1995, a slaying many authorities point to as the start of a decade of killings in the Cape Verdean community.

"We're about working together, and I think we do well," she said.

"I think it's that we have persistence, with significant turnouts" at the regular meetings, Cohen said. He said the effort has grown from a blunt anti-crime group to a quality-of-life initiative.

"At first we had to concentrate on the crime," Cohen, who owns the Maxwell building, said. "Now one of our big concerns is building a kiddie park" on Hillsboro Street.

Fernando Bossa, who co-founded the group with Cohen, said the twice-recognized group has stayed vigilant.

"We really are making the system work for us. We're definitely using the phone tree, definitely reporting everything we see that shouldn't be going on."

Frank Armstrong, captain of district C-11 in which both crime watches are located, said that the cooperation between police and neighborhood groups is key in helping officers police the community.

"We can't do it alone, we like the partnerships with the neighborhood groups," said Armstrong.

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It's says Ridge got better. thats good. Headz are finally getting their act together.

g'd up block

Originally posted by Inspectah Deck
g'd up block

in my heart they're my brothers, and i'll never forget 'em but I came to realize that there's a fine line between courage and stupidity. And I know for me to continue down that dark path would've resulted in me being ass-out in some way. And I can't have that.