~dorkerina~
Senior Member
Originally posted by Kella
I mean...other than bashing our scriptures and leaders...talk about something else. Find a reason that we should hate our parents and abuse our children...find a reason that we should drink and smoke and put harmful drugs into our bodies. Tell us how we should not give 10% of our income to a church that will ALWAYS help us out when we are in the most dire need of it. Tell us how we should go out into the world and have random sex with anyone we choose and wind up with STD's and unwanted pregnancies or...as has happened to myself and many of my close female friends...tell us the joys of rape. Tell us why we should allow the world to tear us down until there is no hope left in our hearts? Please...tell me. Convince me of the wonders of the temporal world! Tell me how my Lord will save me when His Holy Spirit cannot dwell in any unclean thing? Tell me how the world will save my soul more so than this "filthy and lying" Mormon religion that has never done harm to you or anyone! TELL ME!
I'm really sorry that the Mormons you've met have such a warped view. i really don't hate anyone becuase they are not mormon, i have non-member friends. I really do feel bad thath they've terated you that way. they will have you answer for that becuase they knew better than to be like that. I hope i can show you a different kind of mormon, or that you will meet one some day. I have been left outside of tight circles of friends in my own ward, and i still believe thath even if the churches members aren't perfect, the gospel is. In confrences the Prophet has directly said we are not to be unkind to anyone, especially non-members. he said he had herd stories of people not allowing thier children to play with non members, and said he was appaled, he did not want us to do any such thing. i hope that you will see in a memeber some day, the example of love twoard others. Or just in another person, everyone deserves love and respect from those around them, no matter what. THe sad thing is you've seen it and it does happen, I just hope you understand that is not apart of us.
As for your friend i'm sorry he has low self estem. But you can't deny that a little dislike of yourself, the bad qualities, are needed so we can make ourselfes better. We are tought that we are loved, and priceless children of God. He is our father, and we need to love others and ourselves. We should not hate ourselves or others, because then we hate also God.
And as for the people you know who hate the gospel, well they are obviously imbittered by a bad esperience. you don't ask someone who hates cheese if it is any good. (haha dumb example). what i'm saying is that i want you to directly quote church leader teeling members to hate anyone, or do something that will not eventually help you as a personl. like kella said above. I want you to really know our churches message before you tell me it is evil, and every member hates themself becasue of it.