Originally posted by Bun Bun
I'm being serious hense why I'm posting here.Alright, This is quite embarrassing but It driving me nuts.
Could anyone here tell me why every time i have "intercorse" it hurts badly?
Now I'm not talking about just the 1st few times. I mean everytime. Theres no pleasure for me.. it just hurts.
I would really like if someone had an idea why.
Maybe you are not psyched up enough for sex? Is there enough foreplay and arousal so that you lubricate a lot? Sex is a psychological experience as much as physical - more so imo. Maybe the orgasmic pleasure can overrun the pain if you completely psyched up for it.
Maybe your partner's penis is too big or your vagina is too small? Maybe its the partner?
I agree with ILoveMyDaniel about seeing a gynaecologist about this matter if that still doesn't work.
Re: Sex question.
Originally posted by Bun BunIt always hurts to the max.........when you are not experienced...............It took me quite a few months and even after that it left me with the feeling of "why".......geez.....it doesn't even do anything for me.
I'm being serious hense why I'm posting here.Alright, This is quite embarrassing but It driving me nuts.
Could anyone here tell me why every time i have "intercorse" it hurts badly?
Now I'm not talking about just the 1st few times. I mean everytime. Theres no pleasure for me.. it just hurts.
I would really like if someone had an idea why.
Now that I am older.......It is quite different as with all of those of my age...........We like it very much.,....go figure.
Just something new and different from a bodily (mainly), but for some a guilty feeling also.............
Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Your problem may be due to an intensely low level of lubrication from the vagina because you are not aroused enough. You may not be nervous or tense or anything but sometimes girls think they're relaxed enough and are not and are basically just rushing into things and aren't horny at all, and if you're not producing vaginal lubrication then it's going to hurt fiercely. If you ARE aroused then there is a possibility (not a certainty) that you may have some internal obsticals (such as your cervix being low, or twisted). Your best bet is to check it out with a gynecologist, even if you don't want to, because they know all about it.
Thats Deep.
Originally posted by Bun Bun
Well thanks to those who auctally tryed to help me.I know it's the internet duh i only posted here becuase I really respect "some" of the members and their opinions on here.
I know its not a lube problem lol.
Thanks agian
(p.s i am so not 12! I'm 19 fyi)
You sound pretty uptight; I bet it is a lube problem...
i believe there is a condition where the hymen is very thick and partially obstructs the vaginal opening. This isn't your normal stuff either, half your love hole could be closed off.
Also, how big's the guy? if he's any bigger than 8", then he she be sucking on your clamhat like it's been bit by a cobra while probing your G with his right, middle finger and massaging your browneye with his left thumb.
Also, beware if it's a vaginal tightness or obsturction, and your guy has an intact dong, boning will be painful for you but it can be potentially dangerous to him cause of another one of god's little jokes-paraphimosis
😂 I've seen itty bitty guys........It's like.........where is it.???? haha
I'm just kidding, just kidding.........don't anyone get offended..ok.......we know it's there..........we do, we really do.......and it ok.........In fact wonderful..............no mental problems for anyone now........ok, things better....
Okay, silly question time: Why don't girls with small boobs get the same proverbial treatment that guys with microscopic shamalamadingdongs do? I mean, they're both natural defenciencies, right? Maybe because when you see a chick, you know right away if she's flat or not. Just the opposite for a guy.
Originally posted by botankus
Okay, silly question time: Why don't girls with small boobs get the same proverbial treatment that guys with microscopic shamalamadingdongs do? I mean, they're both natural defenciencies, right? Maybe because when you see a chick, you know right away if she's flat or not. Just the opposite for a guy.
....that is obviously a strange usage of the word "opposite" I wasn't previously aware of...
Originally posted by debbiejoi uh...i uh...i'm at a loss for words.
😂 I've seen itty bitty guys........It's like.........where is it.???? hahaI'm just kidding, just kidding.........don't anyone get offended..ok.......we know it's there..........we do, we really do.......and it ok.........In fact wonderful..............no mental problems for anyone now........ok, things better....
Originally posted by botankusi've actually been with girls that were considerably flat. and honestly...it was weird when you see them naked only to realise i'm bigger than them.
Okay, silly question time: Why don't girls with small boobs get the same proverbial treatment that guys with microscopic shamalamadingdongs do? I mean, they're both natural defenciencies, right? Maybe because when you see a chick, you know right away if she's flat or not. Just the opposite for a guy.