Originally posted by Fëanor
yeah...but on the flip side...if you get '10' pounds heavier, or your hair looks like it's been styled in the victorian era...your tummy looks to be pregnant all the time...well, then any guy will start to wonder--and not to sound shallow as i'm sure it works the other way round--what happened to that chick i fell in love with?
And this is the thing. I do not keep my weight off for him, I keep it for myself.
If I kept myself pretty for him, then what would happen if I want to spite him, or don't love him anymore? Gonna get fat and ugly?
Why cut off your nose to spite your face?
The point is, that he likes me the way I am, and I am not that way because of him, I am that way because of me.
Originally posted by PVS
not really, since old men are the worst drivers. you know, the ones with the silly hats who leave their blinker on and never check their rearview when merging into traffic.SHOT DOWN!!!
I'd take them over make-up applying, mobile phone talking, chatting to someone in the back-seat...thinking about celebrities...high-heels-obscuring-the-pedals women any day.
Originally posted by lil bitchinessokay...that's great and all. and i am completely with you on that. but what i'm saying is...when one gets to a point--and not to say that that person no longer cares about their looks--where they just let themselves go, how would it make you or the guy feel that the person that you or they initially fell in love with or whatever has gone to piss?
And this is the thing. I do not keep my weight off for him, I keep it for myself.If I kept myself pretty for him, then what would happen if I want to spite him, or don't love him anymore? Gonna get fat and ugly?
Why cut off your nose to spite your face?The point is, that he likes me the way I am, and I am not that way because of him, I am that way because of me.
Originally posted by Fëanor
okay...that's great and all. and i am completely with you on that. but what i'm saying is...when one gets to a point--and not to say that that person no longer cares about their looks--where they just let themselves go, how would it make you or the guy feel that the person that you or they initially fell in love with or whatever has gone to piss?
I understand that, but why would one let themselves go just because they have found a boyfriend/husband?
I don't necessarily understand that notion.