Originally posted by Alliance
Oh, because no one would think that "I'm thinking that this can be a good opportunity for me to ask for more." could be referencing a pay raise. More respect? The very fact that you're crawling back asking for special privledges, but you turn in your uniform in a day? Usually, imo, people get rewarded for hard work, not for flakiness.
Who ever said that I was "crawling back"? Again, go back to school and learn to read. My warden personally called me and asked me to come in. Why? Probably because I'm a good officer, and I wrote him a 3 page letter of resignation that was both professional and elaborate. Turn in my uniforms for a day? No, I dont think so. I turned them in indefinitely. I have always been a hard worker and an example. I have never, ever said that I was "the best" or "#1", however I do pride my self on having impeccable work ethic.
Originally posted by Alliance
You are the one making crazy demands. You won't pay for a sitter or someone else for one day? You won't pay $20 to get a doctors note, yet you have so much money to live comfrotably? That seems like a lot of agressive personal demands for something totally out of your control. Your daughter getting sick is out of your control, but your treatment of the situation is entirely in your control. And imo you treated it very poorly.
How is asking for one night off, with over 70 hours of sick time, a crazy demand? How did I treat it poorly? My supervisor said, and I quote, "It's not my problem", very callously when I explained to him my situation. I have never abused my sick time, and I always work overtime when offered, or even when its mandatory and I really dont want to. I think one night off is okay, since I have a very good attendance record. Aggressive demands? What the hell are you smoking?
Originally posted by Alliance
If you don't like your job, fine, but don't blame it on your daughter getting sick. Maybe you should start acting like an adult, take responsibility for your actions, instead of shoveling the blame on someone else.
I never said I hated my job, but I was getting burnt out. And furthermore, I'm guessing that you're not a father. If you were, then you would have probably said the same thing if you were in my situation. I refuse to leave my child in the care of anyone I do not know very well personally. I have never "shoveled blame" onto someone else for my problems. And as far as acting like an adult, you're the dipshit who started making flammatory remarks out of the blue for no damn reason. You need to grow the hell up. Take some responsibility, you say? You dont know the meaning of that word, junior, if you arent a parent. When you become one, you'll know exactly what I mean. I'm done with you.