And who says that they still can't be?
I'm not understanding how suddenly everyone is dropping to the depths of despair.
I said not officially together. It doesn't mean that it won't be implied. With the subtle track that the relationship has taken, it would have to be implied but never outwardly declared. Otherwise it would dilute the strength of the movies.
What annoys me the most is that every one is so quick to take internet rumors at face value, and instantly drop to the depths of despair.