Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Turns out its a song, by Nitty. So, get you facts straight 😉
Turns out if you want to have sex with someone with no strings attached, it's perfectly natural. Animalistic, perhaps, but not 'whorish'. So, get your facts straight.
Also, you wouldn't have chosen that particular song title or lyric if you weren't aware of the sexual connotations, so don't try to pull that one love.
You just called a lot of females here a whore.
Congratulations.
Originally posted by Syren
Turns out if you want to have sex with someone with no strings attached, it's perfectly natural. Animalistic, perhaps, but not 'whorish'. So, get your facts straight.Also, you wouldn't have chosen that particular song title or lyric if you weren't aware of the sexual connotations, so don't try to pull that one love.
You just called a lot of females here a whore.
Congratulations.
Originally posted by Syren
Turns out if you want to have sex with someone with no strings attached, it's perfectly natural. Animalistic, perhaps, but not 'whorish'. So, get your facts straight.Also, you wouldn't have chosen that particular song title or lyric if you weren't aware of the sexual connotations, so don't try to pull that one love.
You just called a lot of females here a whore.
Congratulations.
Yeah it is natural to want to have sex with people. But having sex with any guy you want to with no strings attached is whorish. Its basiacally being easy. If you just have sex with anyone, why even bother with someone you love?
Yeah I knew of the sexual connotations, but that doesnt make me a whore, cause I like a song.
Ok, well if you go around sleeping with people just for funny, you are a whore. Thats how guys will see it as, They wont repect you, they'll just use you. Sorry to break it to you sweetheart.
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Yeah it is natural to want to have sex with people. But having sex with any guy you want to with no strings attached is whorish. Its basiacally being easy. If you just have sex with anyone, why even bother with someone you love?Yeah I knew of the sexual connotations, but that doesnt make me a whore, cause I like a song.
Ok, well if you go around sleeping with people just for funny, you are a whore. Thats how guys will see it as, They wont repect you, they'll just use you. Sorry to break it to you sweetheart.
When did I say I had sex with loads of men just because I wanted to? Not once. I've had 'one night stands' because the moment was right, as Shellie said. It suited both of us at the time and I don't regret it. I don't think girls with too much to say and hardly enough experience to back it up should be the ones to tell me I'm a whore because I've had occasions when I perhaps didn't feel as though I needed to justify sex with a pointless relationship that wouldn't have worked because we weren't compatible in any way other than physically. It does happen, some people are attracted by raw chemistry. Once that's sated there's nothing else there, so as long as I didn't get myself pregnant I don't think responsibilities need come into it.
As for love, it isn't just about sex. There are a multitude of elements that combine in a loving relationship. So that logic is null and void. If you have sex with someone you don't love, why bother with someone you do? Because in a lot of respects the sex can be better, more fulfilling and passionate. It depends what you're looking for and what you want out of it.
Don't call me a whore. If you were here right now, would you be saying that to my face? I doubt it, you're being abusive and continuing with what you said rather than backing down and admitting you were a little hasty because you know you can, not because you're right. Come back when you have a little more experience to speak of under your belt. You're nastier than me honey, regardless of who you have or haven't slept with.
Originally posted by Syren
When did I say I had sex with loads of men just because I wanted to? Not once. I've had 'one night stands' because the moment was right, as Shellie said. It suited both of us at the time and I don't regret it. I don't think girls with too much to say and hardly enough experience to back it up should be the ones to tell me I'm a whore because I've had occasions when I perhaps didn't feel as though I needed to justify sex with a pointless relationship that wouldn't have worked because we weren't compatible in any way other than physically. It does happen, some people are attracted by raw chemistry. Once that's sated there's nothing else there, so as long as I didn't get myself pregnant I don't think responsibilities need come into it.As for love, it isn't just about sex. There are a multitude of elements that combine in a loving relationship. So that logic is null and void. If you have sex with someone you don't love, why bother with someone you do? Because in a lot of respects the sex can be better, more fulfilling and passionate. It depends what you're looking for and what you want out of it.
well put
Don't call me a whore. If you were here right now, would you be saying that to my face? I doubt it, you're being abusive and continuing with what you said rather than backing down and admitting you were a little hasty because you know you can, not because you're right. Come back when you have a little more experience to speak of under your belt. You're nastier than me honey, regardless of who you have or haven't slept with.
Originally posted by Syren
When did I say I had sex with loads of men just because I wanted to? Not once. I've had 'one night stands' because the moment was right, as Shellie said. It suited both of us at the time and I don't regret it. I don't think girls with too much to say and hardly enough experience to back it up should be the ones to tell me I'm a whore because I've had occasions when I perhaps didn't feel as though I needed to justify sex with a pointless relationship that wouldn't have worked because we weren't compatible in any way other than physically. It does happen, some people are attracted by raw chemistry. Once that's sated there's nothing else there, so as long as I didn't get myself pregnant I don't think responsibilities need come into it.As for love, it isn't just about sex. There are a multitude of elements that combine in a loving relationship. So that logic is null and void. If you have sex with someone you don't love, why bother with someone you do? Because in a lot of respects the sex can be better, more fulfilling and passionate. It depends what you're looking for and what you want out of it.
Don't call me a whore. If you were here right now, would you be saying that to my face? I doubt it, you're being abusive and continuing with what you said rather than backing down and admitting you were a little hasty because you know you can, not because you're right. Come back when you have a little more experience to speak of under your belt. You're nastier than me honey, regardless of who you have or haven't slept with.
Turns out Im not calling you a whore. I did not once call you a whore. Im reffering to the girls who go and **** the whole town. I did not talk shit about you once. I just said If you (meaning someone, hypothetically) were to sleep with everyone, its whorish. I did not accuse you of anything at all. I did not mean to come at you, I didn't mean to call you a whore.
And turns out I havent slept with anyone, except for the guy that rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel so stronly about this. But I know, after being rapped, you finally realize how important sex really is. Its not really about pleasure, or lust. Its about showing someone how much you truly love them.
Originally posted by Lana
That's very true.And damn you with your long post, Sy, I made a very important point that will likely be overlooked 😛
Ah, apologies madam.
Originally posted by Lana
Can I just point out that just because two people are going out, they aren't necessarily in love, and just because two people are in love, they aren't necessarily dating?
😛
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Turns out Im not calling you a whore. I did not once call you a whore. Im reffering to the girls who go and **** the whole town. I did not talk shit about you once. I just said If you (meaning someone, hypothetically) were to sleep with everyone, its whorish. I did not accuse you of anything at all. I did not mean to come at you, I didn't mean to call you a whore.And turns out I havent slept with anyone, except for the guy that rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel so stronly about this. But I know, after being rapped, you finally realize how important sex really is. Its not really about pleasure, or lust. Its about showing someone how much you truly love them.
Your first response was that it's whorish. Full stop. You generalised and I pulled you up on it, what you should have done was apologised for the gross generalisation you made and then clarified your point. You argued it instead and that caused my response.
As for being raped. I was in a relationship with someone I thought loved me very much when I was 17, I was with him for about a year and a half. He started physically abusing me, punching me etc. and also raped me on a few occasions, using the excuse that it was his right and I'd already consented once so that was enough for him. Please don't try to make me feel guilty, if anyone understands the strength of your feelings on this it's me. But think about this; I was in a relationship, I trusted him implicitly and he took advantage of that. Yet I've been with men once who have treated me like a goddess. Where's the logic in that?