Im an adult, I enjoy sex. Im not into any kind of serious relationship nor do I want to be. I refuse to deprive myself if I have a willing partner I trust who wants the same 'no strings attached' intimacies. I dont think that makes me a whore. If someone thinks I am, thats their opinion. I dont judge myself based on other peoples opinions on me and my activities.
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Turns out Im not calling you a whore. I did not once call you a whore. Im reffering to the girls who go and **** the whole town. I did not talk shit about you once. I just said If you (meaning someone, hypothetically) were to sleep with everyone, its whorish. I did not accuse you of anything at all. I did not mean to come at you, I didn't mean to call you a whore.And turns out I havent slept with anyone, except for the guy that rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel so stronly about this. But I know, after being rapped, you finally realize how important sex really is. Its not really about pleasure, or lust. Its about showing someone how much you truly love them.
You said having sex with someone you weren't going out with is whorish. Not that someone who ****s the town is a whore. There's a large difference and I think now you are simply trying to cover your tracks.
And that is what sex is to you - but you are not everyone, and what it is to other people is going to be different.
Originally posted by Lana
You said having sex with someone you weren't going out with is whorish. Not that someone who ****s the town is a whore. There's a large difference and I think now you are simply trying to cover your tracks.And that is what sex is to you - but you are not everyone, and what it is to other people is going to be different.
Well, thats what I ment. And in all honesty I couldnt care less if any of you belive me. I wouldn't waste my time and energy trying to prove myself to you. Cause at the end of the say, I know what I ment.
This is true...
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Well, thats what I ment. And in all honesty I couldnt care less if any of you belive me. I wouldn't waste my time and energy trying to prove myself to you. Cause at the end of the say, I know what I ment.This is true...
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Well, thats what I ment. And in all honesty I couldnt care less if any of you belive me. I wouldn't waste my time and energy trying to prove myself to you. Cause at the end of the say, I know what I ment.This is true...
Maybe you should word things more carefully then?
And it is indeed true. You think it's simply for showing love - I think it's for all three things you named (pleasure, lust, and love).
As is, as I said, that just because two people are dating doesn't necessarily mean they love each other, and just because two people are in love it doesn't necessarily mean they are dating.
Originally posted by Syren
Your first response was that it's whorish. Full stop. You generalised and I pulled you up on it, what you should have done was apologised for the gross generalisation you made and then clarified your point. You argued it instead and that caused my response.As for being raped. I was in a relationship with someone I thought loved me very much when I was 17, I was with him for about a year and a half. He started physically abusing me, punching me etc. and also raped me on a few occasions, using the excuse that it was his right and I'd already consented once so that was enough for him. Please don't try to make me feel guilty, if anyone understands the strength of your feelings on this it's me. But think about this; I was in a relationship, I trusted him implicitly and he took advantage of that. Yet I've been with men once who have treated me like a goddess. Where's the logic in that?
shrug
No, can't say that I would.
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Turns out Im not calling you a whore. I did not once call you a whore. Im reffering to the girls who go and **** the whole town. I did not talk shit about you once. I just said If you (meaning someone, hypothetically) were to sleep with everyone, its whorish. I did not accuse you of anything at all. I did not mean to come at you, I didn't mean to call you a whore.And turns out I havent slept with anyone, except for the guy that rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel so stronly about this. But I know, after being rapped, you finally realize how important sex really is. Its not really about pleasure, or lust. Its about showing someone how much you truly love them.
I believe the term you are looking for is 'loose'
Originally posted by Syren
shrug
Ok, I apologize for the generalization. I meant it as people who go around screwing everyone. For that I am sorry.
I am sorry for the way you were treated. But please, if anyone would understand where I'm coming from, it'd be you. I didn't even know the man who rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel like you should really love someone to have sex with them. I feel like if people had sex only if they loved the people, their would be no rape, no abuse, no unwanted pregnancy's.
Originally posted by LiL nAstY GirL
Ok, I apologize for the generalization. I meant it as people who go around screwing everyone. For that I am sorry.I am sorry for the way you were treated. But please, if anyone would understand where I'm coming from, it'd be you. I didn't even know the man who rapped me. Maybe thats why I feel like you should really love someone to have sex with them. I feel like if people had sex only if they loved the people, their would be no rape, no abuse, no unwanted pregnancy's.
Unfortunately that's not true at all.
Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
Im an adult, I enjoy sex. Im not into any kind of serious relationship nor do I want to be. I refuse to deprive myself if I have a willing partner I trust who wants the same 'no strings attached' intimacies. I dont think that makes me a whore. If someone thinks I am, thats their opinion. I dont judge myself based on other peoples opinions on me and my activities.
...couldn't have said it better myself. 😎