Originally posted by Ushgarak
Well, I dunno, what IS respect? He's providing a service that is, obviously, in extremely high demand, and if done correctly is perfectly legal. It's just business.
I see what RJ means though. I know if I were on a date and I asked him what he does and he said "Oh I convince drunk slutty, bitches to take their clothes off and feel one another up."(I know/hope he wouldn't word it like that) I'd pretty much have to end the date right there.😬
It's a matter of personal taste I assume. But as far as I know those girls gone wild video's (and I have quite a few) I don't see the problem in producing that kind of material. There are jobs that would put me off a lot more than that. I can see why some people wouldn't want to date people from the porn industry, I admit I wouldn't like to see Storm starting a porn career. But if you really love someone, and they were in porn before you met them, that is who they are.
Originally posted by LethalFemme
I see what RJ means though. I know if I were on a date and I asked him what he does and he said "Oh I convince drunk slutty, bitches to take their clothes off and feel one another up."(I know/hope he wouldn't word it like that) I'd pretty much have to end the date right there.😬
Why's that then?
Originally posted by LethalFemmeTalk about picky and shallow.
I see what RJ means though. I know if I were on a date and I asked him what he does and he said "Oh I convince drunk slutty, bitches to take their clothes off and feel one another up."(I know/hope he wouldn't word it like that) I'd pretty much have to end the date right there.😬
Originally posted by LethalFemme
I see what RJ means though. I know if I were on a date and I asked him what he does and he said "Oh I convince drunk slutty, bitches to take their clothes off and feel one another up."(I know/hope he wouldn't word it like that) I'd pretty much have to end the date right there.😬
I have to agree with Ush here, why?
It's not like he takes advantage of them. He is just providing a service. I mean, don't you find it a bit shallow to judge him on that, especially since it is hardly immoral (even judged by stronger set of morals than mine)
Originally posted by Bardock42
I have to agree with Ush here, why?It's not like he takes advantage of them. He is just providing a service. I mean, don't you find it a bit shallow to judge him on that, especially since it is hardly immoral (even judged by stronger set of morals than mine)
Regardless if you think the whole world should embrace R-Rated culture as if it were nursery rhymes, you might want to try to believe the following concept:
Some people would rather not date strippers, porn producers, or Girls Gone Wild creators because they feel they might be more likely to cheat on them! Yes, nothing illegal about that, too, and it may be a new concept to you but believe it or not, people feel that way about people who engage in these professions. Hence they would rather end the date right there rather than go through all the anxiety that's sure to come.
"Honey, I'm going to Florida for spring break to shoot a couple hundred naked drunk chicks for my next video!"
"Oh, have a great trip! See you next week! Be good!"
I agree, but (one night stands aside) when it comes to people's relationship objectives in this subjective society, no one wants to waste time if they don't feel any long-term potential. That's why introverted dorks, felons, and 300-pound guys are rarely married. I mean, why bother if you don't think you'll be happy with them in a year's time? Life is too short for many people.
Yes, it's prejudice, but again - there are few people who are willing to take that route because many girl's (serious) commitment to a relationship begin with the intent that "this is the guy I'm going to marry."
Yeah, but at least there cannot be ay context to a 300 pound guy (unless he is about to lose it all). What you see is what you get. It's hardly prejudiced to think a 300 pound guy is fat, and if you don't like fat people, physically, then that's a done deal.
But that a person working in that kind of industry is more likely to cheat on you is an assumption, not a fact. Such a person deserves context and investigation, else it is just plain prejudice, as I day.