Originally posted by LethalFemme
There are some people who for very good and obvious reasons shouldn't make exhibitons of themselves or post slutty pics as you were saying earlier. The fact that some people do doesn't make them anything less. They ONLY seem less in YOUR eyes and people with eyes like yours.
I'm not Judging you and please call me Carys, I just wouldn't do it myself, I wouldn't want people at school seeing it etc. As well as the other reasons.
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think that's a genralisation Lana, I am pretty happy with myself, in fact I would change nothing about me. I am pretty to other people, I work hard and am quite successfull in my studies and other areas of my life.
Anyway this thread is not about me and I don't want it to be.
Can't the same be said of everything you say?
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.
Being sexual to unspecial people is no biggie either if they can handle harmless flirting, advances, and innuendos....meant to just have a good time. Heck, I flirt with everyone here and I'm married too!
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think that's a genralisation Lana, I am pretty happy with myself, in fact I would change nothing about me. I am pretty to other people, I work hard and am quite successfull in my studies and other areas of my life.
Anyway this thread is not about me and I don't want it to be.
Errr, you say I'm making a generalization when every post you've made in here is a generalization?
And it's true. If you're not comfortable with yourself or have low self-esteem, you're going to see things that are perfectly normal as being bad or wrong. It's called you need to learn to accept it, get over it, and move on.
I am confident with myself to accept and admit that yes, I am a very sexual person. It's simply who I am and there's no point in denying or hiding the fact because someone might think that's wrong or bad.
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I'm not Judging you and please call me Carys, I just wouldn't do it myself, I wouldn't want people at school seeing it etc. As well as the other reasons.
Okay and there's a reason for that. You're not weak because of it nor less self confident you have a line you don't cross. You need to learn not everyone does and they're not wrong because of it.
Originally posted by Storm
As a woman deeply in touch with my sexuality, I' m very comfortable with expressing my desires to anyone, and am a proud and confident woman who exudes sensuality.
Ditto!
Originally posted by Lana
Errr, you say I'm making a generalization when every post you've made in here is a generalization?And it's true. If you're not comfortable with yourself or have low self-esteem, you're going to see things that are perfectly normal as being bad or wrong. It's called you need to learn to accept it, get over it, and move on.
I think every post has been a generalisation, I never said it was wrong. I said flirting for acceptance online was wrong for me. I don't agree with it for myself like I would never engage in cyber, although guys ask for it as soon as you post a pic, which is why I am not sure if I will here.
Originally posted by Storm
As a woman deeply in touch with my sexuality, I' m very comfortable with expressing my desires to anyone, and am a proud and confident woman who exudes sensuality.
I am sure you are, and i'm not saying you shouldn't be.
Originally posted by PVS
whats funny is the direct connection implied between having a high self esteem and being pretty. care to explain that?
There's no explanation for it, it's just a silly generalization that oftentimes isn't true.
And oftentimes, from what I've seen, girls who are pretty are just as prone to having low self-esteem because they often feel that there's some standard that they MUST live up to and match.
Compare the girl who is pretty, spends a ton of time making themselves look even prettier, and complains that they think they're ugly, with the one who might still be attractive, but is fine with the fact that they're not perfect and basically goes "It's who I am, why try and be anything else?". Which of the two do you think has higher self-esteem?
Originally posted by Lana
And oftentimes, from what I've seen, girls who are pretty are just as prone to having low self-esteem because they often feel that there's some standard that they MUST live up to and match.
just visit any local strip club. women who know for a fact that they are hot, yet have no self esteem whatsoever....which turns me on btw
Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think every post has been a generalisation, I never said it was wrong. I said flirting for acceptance online was wrong for me. I don't agree with it for myself like I would never engage in cyber, although guys ask for it as soon as you post a pic, which is why I am not sure if I will here.I am sure you are, and i'm not saying you shouldn't be.
Guys ask to cyber as soon as you post pics online?
Huh...girls? Wanna back me up here? How many of you have been asked that as soon as you posted a pic on here?
I'm probably guessing none.
Guys will make comments about you being hot, if you are, and there'll be the occassional "I'll hit that" or something similar. But that's about as far as it goes.
Originally posted by xmarksthespot
You really need some sort of power too. Superpowered people don't associate with the regular people.
I'm static electricy guy, I let it loose in the winter and zap folks ear lobes for the win 😉
Huh...girls? Wanna back me up here? How many of you have been asked that as soon as you posted a pic on here?
It happened to me and made me feel weird, like you know really weird not like I just went on a roller coaster ride weird but different.