Why are girls not respected on the internet?

Started by Molly Hayes24 pages

Originally posted by Lana
There's no explanation for it, it's just a silly generalization that oftentimes isn't true.

And oftentimes, from what I've seen, girls who are pretty are just as prone to having low self-esteem because they often feel that there's some standard that they MUST live up to and match.

Compare the girl who is pretty, spends a ton of time making themselves look even prettier, and complains that they think they're ugly, with the one who might still be attractive, but is fine with the fact that they're not perfect and basically goes "It's who I am, why try and be anything else?". Which of the two do you think has higher self-esteem?

You said I must be worried about how I was and being called pretty was one of a number of things I cited to show this was not the case.

I wish I could just wink and get girls to buy me stuff crybaby

Originally posted by Lana
Guys ask to cyber as soon as you post pics online?

Huh...girls? Wanna back me up here? How many of you have been asked that as soon as you posted a pic on here?

I'm probably guessing none.

Guys will make comments about you being hot, if you are, and there'll be the occassional "I'll hit that" or something similar. But that's about as far as it goes.

I have had guys say similar things in public threads on here I will show you give me a minute.

Originally posted by ThePittman
I wish I could just wink and get girls to buy me stuff crybaby

i'll buy you some stuff 🙂

*unzips fly*

Originally posted by Lana
Guys ask to cyber as soon as you post pics online?

Huh...girls? Wanna back me up here? How many of you have been asked that as soon as you posted a pic on here?

I'm probably guessing none.

Guys will make comments about you being hot, if you are, and there'll be the occassional "I'll hit that" or something similar. But that's about as far as it goes.

Okay in all honesty that has happened to me but, most guys here are respectful and only joke about it with me.😂

But, I agree with everything else you saw.

Originally posted by ThePittman
I wish I could just wink and get girls to buy me stuff crybaby

No, you REALLY REALLY can just make sure it's the seeing eye pigs and you're good.

Anyway I guess im being oversensitive as well.......this time.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I have had guys say similar things in public threads on here I will show you give me a minute.

are you sure they were guys? are you sure they weren't nobody?

Originally posted by PVS
i'll buy you some stuff 🙂

*unzips fly*

Man you must have some small hands to be able to unzip the pants off a fly 😱

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Okay in all honesty that has happened to me but, most guys here are respectful and only joke about it with me.😂

But, I agree with everything else you saw.

Let's cyber. Right here. Right now.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You said I must be worried about how I was and being called pretty was one of a number of things I cited to show this was not the case.

When did I ever say anything about your looks?

I didn't. Just that not being comfortable with the fact that as a human you are indeed a sexual being is generally a sign of low confidence.

How you look doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how much self esteem you have, and it's something I think people put far too much weight into. I might not be as hot as, say, LethalFemme, but I know that I'm pretty. I am who I am, no point denying it. I'm happy with how I look, but it's not something I really base me being happy on, because it's a purely superficial thing.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Okay in all honesty that has happened to me but, most guys here are respectful and only joke about it with me.😂

But, I agree with everything else you saw.

I think this bit about "facesittiing" was a joke as well

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/435572_8-members-with-most-comic-knowledge

but it highlights a stereotype.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Okay in all honesty that has happened to me but, most guys here are respectful and only joke about it with me.😂

But, I agree with everything else you saw.

I meant like split-second as soon as you posted your pic, and that they meant it seriously, which is what she was implying, dear 😛

Originally posted by Lana
Guys ask to cyber as soon as you post pics online?

Huh...girls? Wanna back me up here? How many of you have been asked that as soon as you posted a pic on here?

I'm probably guessing none.


On the contrary, on other sites, I' ve been invited to cyber sex without posting a picture.

Originally posted by PVS
nonesense.

...young boys

..... younger boys.

****ing perv, I'm calling the cops.

Originally posted by Storm
On the contrary, on other sites, I' ve been invited to cyber sex without posting a picture.

....and then what happened? 😄

Originally posted by Lana
When did I ever say anything about your looks?

I didn't. Just that not being comfortable with the fact that as a human you are indeed a sexual being is generally a sign of low confidence.

How you look doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how much self esteem you have, and it's something I think people put far too much weight into. I might not be as hot as, say, LethalFemme, but I know that I'm pretty. I am who I am, no point denying it. I'm happy with how I look, but it's not something I really base me being happy on, because it's a purely superficial thing.

I'm sure you are pretty Lana. I don't know you well enough to comment on your esteem. You seem nice enough. I also commented I knew I worked hard and did well, interestingly noone picked up on that instead they wanted to pick holes.

Originally posted by Storm
On the contrary, on other sites, I' ve been invited to cyber sex without posting a picture.
😂

Originally posted by Storm
On the contrary, on other sites, I' ve been invited to cyber sex without posting a picture.

So have I

Originally posted by BackFire
****ing perv, I'm calling the cops.

you're just picking on me because im a pretty lady