Female rape victims: Stop being weak and get over it.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Okay...here are my two cents...

You can see my view in the other thread as far as therapy are concerned.

These are the things I hate in this world.

1. Long car trips. (I would rather have reeds shoved under my finger and toe nails, then my finger and toe nails ripped out, and mace sprayed in my eyes continuously for 10 minutes then to go on a long car trip...I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOATHE CAR TRIPS. (I have ADHD and I cannot sit still.))
2. Rapists (If the victim is not killed, then swap this with # 3.)
3. Cold blooded murderers. (someone who kills an innocent...not manslaughter, etc..)
4. Child Molesters.
5. People who use religion to kill an innocent bystander in the name of their god.

As you can see...I do not like rapists at all...in fact...I hate them.

Unfortunately, there will always be rapists among humans. In the future when our brains can be fully integrated into a cybernetic interface and people actually meet in a virtual environment...rapists will hack those systems and rape people in their own mind. (Yes, something like the 'Matrix" is very much possible and will happen in the future and people will be raped there as well.)

I wonder why rapists rise in standing when it is a child they did it to.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Possibly the lowest words-to-foolishness ratio ever witnessed in a post.

Originally posted by Pure Poison
Now this thread tickles me for so many reasons.

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My advice is unless you have been pinned to the ground had your clothes torn off you and raped violently and left, not just only feeling used and dirty but bleeding then you can not simply tell people to get over it.

You made Bardock42 a very happy German...

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Possibly the lowest words-to-foolishness ratio ever witnessed in a post.

But there were a lot of words in my post...wait a minute...so that post was that foolish?

EGADS!!! surprise

Where is Mr. T when you need him.

Don't worry I forgive you... 😄

Here, take this...kisses

Buddies?

Originally posted by long pig
I mean, when I got beat up, it didn't scar me for life. Of course I wasn't raped but that shit wouldn't scar me either.

ever seen american history x?

Originally posted by PiruBlood
i never claimed i was hard i never claimed nothing. this is just me in everyday life. adam poe entered into something that never conserned him. so when he made his little bubble gum pop comment i had to do what i had to do. all this stuff started when violent2dope used the N word in the racism forum and its been on since then. then all of a sudden secther or w/e the **** you call him butts in and oviously they both were talking wile i wasnt even here so i replied thats when adam ho came about.

Violent2Dope and PiruBlood, keep your personal issues off the boards.

Obvously rape is a traumatic event. The only thing I can say is that if you get raped you have to get over it or go crazy. You have to be strong but its not easy.

Originally posted by long pig
Maybe the thread title was offensive....

But still, why can't you female rape victims simply get over it? I mean, a guy beats you up and screws you and you're mentally unstable for the rest of your life. Why not just say" That sucked. Hope it doesn't happen again."?

I mean, when I got beat up, it didn't scar me for life. Of course I wasn't raped but that shit wouldn't scar me either. Do you know how many men in prison are raped? Do they become crazy crack smoking bastards for the rest of their life? No, they move on.

Honestly, can women be that weak of mind as to allow such a truly small event ruin their lives?

Its not about just getting over it. I believe that most women who are raped are raped by somebody close to them, whether it is a friend, boyfriend (in some rare cases girlfriend) or family member. Mentally it is a horrible experience. The physical aspect of it is just icing on the cake. Not only are they raped, beaten and in some cases killed, but they are also mentally backed into a corner with no hay out and usually with no leverage to defend themselves. It's probably a terrifying experience. Now considering from in some your previous posts I've gathered you are a "big guy" chances are you don't have to worry about other men stalking you and following you to your car. It's very likely you might not have any idea what it's like to be raped. And that's just why most women have a right to be on the defensive when it comes to being alone with men. They are typically smaller and physically weaker to most men. It's something men need to be more aware of so as not to take advantage of women. That's not to say women don't like a confident somewhat aggressive man. It's just they don't want to feel like this man is going to try and force them into his car. You get?

Originally posted by Alfheim
Obvously rape is a traumatic event. The only thing I can say is that if you get raped you have to get over it or go crazy.

false dilemma. nice.

its impossible to "get over" for many and probably most victims. doesnt mean they have to let it consume their lives, but how the hell can you just get over that?

There are many traumatic events that happen to people and the best thing for their minds is too try to get over it and go on living. Same goes for any traumatic event. It's best for the person if they can.

its easy to tell who knows what they're talking about and who's blowing hot air in here.

"get over it". what a completely idiotic cliche to try to pass off as advice.
as if being raped is some superficial inconvenience which doesnt have unavoidable life-long ramifications. bunch of idiotic tools flapping your lips and smelling the sweet aroma of your own horseshit. "blah blah blah *fart* "

LOL poop.

Originally posted by Schecter
its easy to tell who knows what they're talking about and who's blowing hot air in here.

"get over it". what a completely idiotic cliche to try to pass off as advice.
as if being raped is some superficial inconvenience which doesnt have unavoidable life-long ramifications. bunch of idiotic tools flapping your lips and smelling the sweet aroma of your own horseshit. "blah blah blah *fart* "

Otherwise, it will destroy the rest of your life.

Originally posted by debbiejo
People need, for their own sanity, to get over horrific events. That's what psychologists are for.

psychologists can help people learn to live with and deal with their trauma, but it never just goes away. they cant just make someone "get over it".

Originally posted by Schecter
psychologists can help people learn to live with and deal with their trauma, but it never just goes away. they cant just make someone "get over it".

Originally posted by debbiejo
A person must put it in the past and try not to let it affect the rest of their life and others around them. With the right tools many can do that. It's not a forget it ever happened, but how to deal with it and move on.

Originally posted by debbiejo
A person must put it in the past and try not to let it affect the rest of their life and others around them. With the right tools many can do that. It's not a forget it ever happened but how to deal with it and move on.

to "get over" something is to render it superficial and not let it effect you anymore. like if you get dumped and find someone else, and then the past is likely no longer an issue at all.

it is an impossibility with most of not all rape victims (or any victims of real trauma).

feel free to disagree with fact, but you are still dead wrong

Originally posted by Violent2Dope
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...as are you

I wonder how many of these people in the 'get over it', 'go on with your lives', 'just move on' crowd have actually been raped...

You can't just get over with it you need to get some help to deal with the emotional problems so you can be a normal functioning member of society.

Schecter,

You have a different version of "get over it" than most if not all people. When I get over something, it no longer "consumes me". I have gotten over many things and they still affect my life. In fact, after I have gotten over some things, they actually made me a better person...despite the fact that sometimes, I think about those things.

Yes, it is possible for a rape victim to "get over it", but not the way you are defining the cliché.