Yeah, but honestly, I've known a number of women that think porn is offensive, and not because they're talking about it in mixed company or trying to be proper. They just don't like it. Not all of them, by any means. In fact the majority of them are willing to admit they like porn.
But my real point is that I don't understand how porn is an aspect of evolutionary traits.
Originally posted by Devil King
Yeah, but honestly, I've known a number of women that think porn is offensive, and not because they're talking about it in mixed company or trying to be proper. They just don't like it. Not all of them, by any means. In fact the majority of them are willing to admit they like porn.But my real point is that I don't understand how porn is an aspect of evolutionary traits.
Are they Catholics?
There isn't, imo.
Ultimately, the desire of a man who enjoys watching two women have sex with another is to participate in the sex act. This fantasy combines his instinct to share his genetic information with multiple women, and his wish to be considered sexually desirable, i.e. that the two women cannot be fully sexually satisfied without his participation.
There's far too many people who think that everything has to be explained by evolutionary science and psychology, on this forum. It's really starting to become annoying. I of course agree, that evolution has a huge influence on many things, but please - calm it down. Otherwise, I'm going to make a thread entitled - 'Some like bananas, some like oranges - a possible evolutionary trait!'
The lesbian attraction can stem from a couple of sources.
A: A sense of power, a man feels like watching lesbians has sex makes him more manly because more women are involved. This inturn makes him feel like he "won". A common feeling in more primitive times when a man's duty was to shoot his dna in differant women.
B: A more obsessive attraction to females. I can relate to this, seeing men naked disgusts us, we like women SO MUCH that we'd rather see two women ****ing then a man and a woman. Yes, it's harder to immagine ourselves as one of the lesbos, but that's not obviously why we do it. We just like to see women.
I'm sure there's more, but these seem like the two most rational. I don't like to use evolution as a means of explanation because what applied a thousand years ago obviously aint going to mean shit now.
A thousand years ago i wasn't standing erect and probably was eight feet tall. Obviously things change.
I get what you are saying, leonheartmm.
Most of the men I know like "lesbian action" as well. Also, most of the wives/girlfriends of the dudes I know do not "get their jollies" with their male partners because their male partners are just plain jerks in the bed.
I am not really a porn person because I am a hands on (pardon the pun) type of person. Porn lost its appeal a long time ago because I like the actual touch and feel of a women. When I was a young lad, about 13 or 14, I used to watch porn...it was mostly lesbian porn. I hated seeing another dude naked, not because I was homophobic either. I just get turned off when I see another dude naked. I find naked men gross.
And for the jerks who don't take care of their women in the bed...to be honest, my "fetish" is getting a woman off, seriously. Nothing turns me on more. I eat it like there is not tomorrow...when I am allowed. 🙁 (My wife won't let me do that but once a month because, believe it or not, her sexual fantasy is cunnilingus and she wants it to be special.)