Originally posted by Impediment
I feel sorry for that mother who has to put up with that shit. How any parent can let their kid behave like that is beyond me.
That's also an interesting question. How much could the parent have influenced that. And how much was she just unlucky with the little wanker she spat out.
Originally posted by Impediment
So earlier today, I took my daughter, Madison, with me to go and pick up my weekly paycheck. After I deposited my money in the bank, I decided that we should go to McDonald's for lunch. We order our meals and sit down to eat, when suddenly a little black boy, probably about 3 years old, walks up and sits down at our table with us. I laugh, since he was cute little tyke, and I found it humorous that he would just come a sit down like that. My daughter is playing with her toy she got out of her Happy Meal I bought her, when all of a sudden, the little boy [b]snatches her toy out of her hands and runs off. Well, Madison began to cry because her toy got stolen, and I stood up and walked over to the kid and calmly took back the toy that he stole and I said to him, "This doesn't belong to you, son. You have to give it back."Well folks, the shit hit the fan. This little bastard began to, literally, scream, cry, jump up and down, roll on the floor, and beat his fists. He acted like I had just beat him with a belt and screamed at him. Naturally, his mother walked over, concerned, and asked me, in a rude voice, "What the hell did you do to my boy?!?" I explained to her that her son stole my child's toy and ran away and I took it back. She immediately became unglued. "Why the hell did you do that!! You could have just as easily went back to the counter and asked for another toy! Now you got him all worked up and crying, and now I'll have to deal with this horseshit!" I told her that, maybe, if you would beat his little ass now and again, instead of letting him act like a damn heathen, he probably wouldn't act like this! All the while we are in this argument, the little shit is still on the floor screaming and crying.
She then proceeded to call me "White-ass" and "Racist" because, evidently, I wouldn't have done this were it another white child involved. I was a rude motherf*cker, and I was mean to her child. The manager came out and intervened. I explained to her what happened and I received a refund of my meal, and the b*tchy mom ans her little failed abortion were asked to leave.
Some parents just need to whoop their kids' ass every now and then. I discipline my child, and she is well behaved and courteous as a result. I just thought I'd let you guys know about this little incident, since it was the high point of my day. [/B]
By the way it was not only the child that needed to have some discipline, it was the woman also. She sounds like a real idiot.
Re: Some parents really need to beat their kids' ass.
Originally posted by Impediment
So earlier today, I took my daughter, Madison, with me to go and pick up my weekly paycheck. After I deposited my money in the bank, I decided that we should go to McDonald's for lunch. We order our meals and sit down to eat, when suddenly a little black boy, probably about 3 years old, walks up and sits down at our table with us. I laugh, since he was cute little tyke, and I found it humorous that he would just come a sit down like that. My daughter is playing with her toy she got out of her Happy Meal I bought her, when all of a sudden, the little boy [b]snatches her toy out of her hands and runs off. Well, Madison began to cry because her toy got stolen, and I stood up and walked over to the kid and calmly took back the toy that he stole and I said to him, "This doesn't belong to you, son. You have to give it back."Well folks, the shit hit the fan. This little bastard began to, literally, scream, cry, jump up and down, roll on the floor, and beat his fists. He acted like I had just beat him with a belt and screamed at him. Naturally, his mother walked over, concerned, and asked me, in a rude voice, "What the hell did you do to my boy?!?" I explained to her that her son stole my child's toy and ran away and I took it back. She immediately became unglued. "Why the hell did you do that!! You could have just as easily went back to the counter and asked for another toy! Now you got him all worked up and crying, and now I'll have to deal with this horseshit!" I told her that, maybe, if you would beat his little ass now and again, instead of letting him act like a damn heathen, he probably wouldn't act like this! All the while we are in this argument, the little shit is still on the floor screaming and crying.
She then proceeded to call me "White-ass" and "Racist" because, evidently, I wouldn't have done this were it another white child involved. I was a rude motherf*cker, and I was mean to her child. The manager came out and intervened. I explained to her what happened and I received a refund of my meal, and the b*tchy mom ans her little failed abortion were asked to leave.
Some parents just need to whoop their kids' ass every now and then. I discipline my child, and she is well behaved and courteous as a result. I just thought I'd let you guys know about this little incident, since it was the high point of my day. [/B]
It sounds like the mother is just as bad. It's not just the kid that needs to get beaten.....
Originally posted by Troop
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=473549
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Wooo, ignorance.
Every child is different. Some children respond BEST to spanking. Some respond best to privilege restriction, some respond best to a firm tone, and some (or rather most) respond to a personal amalgamation of all of the above.
As a parent, you have to learn and adjust to each child. Children are different and respond differently.
From the sounds of it, a swift smack might have straightened this kid right up if he isn't disciplined.
You HAVE to discipline your children. If you really love your children, YOU discipline them.
If have found that spanking should only be used with my son IF and WHEN he does something like run into the street after I tell him not to. I do it only because I want him to be shocked at how serious I am and about the situation.
I also spank my son when he throws a fit just like this little boy. Quite seriously, my son has only thrown that type of fit 3 times. The second time was when I wasn't around....and my wife is so delicate that it actually makes her sad and upset when my son gets out of hand. We are working on that... My son has been "fit free" for about a year now and I believe we are done with the fits because he knows it does nothing for him and there is a consequence that he does not like.
Anyway, that boy DID need a spanking or something severe as a punishment. Maybe an alternative way to leave the Restaurant immediately and take him home and send him to his room for thirty minutes? I read somewhere that if a child throws a fit in public, you HAVE to discipline the child in public or they will learn quickly that they can do whatever they want, for the most part, in public.
I also heard, as cruel as it sounds, that a shock collar is the best form of discipline for a child. It leaves no permanent damage and you can press a button every time they do something unfavorable. hmm
Re: Some parents really need to beat their kids' ass.
Originally posted by Impediment
So earlier today, I took my daughter, Madison, with me to go and pick up my weekly paycheck. After I deposited my money in the bank, I decided that we should go to McDonald's for lunch. We order our meals and sit down to eat, when suddenly a little black boy, probably about 3 years old, walks up and sits down at our table with us. I laugh, since he was cute little tyke, and I found it humorous that he would just come a sit down like that. My daughter is playing with her toy she got out of her Happy Meal I bought her, when all of a sudden, the little boy [b]snatches her toy out of her hands and runs off. Well, Madison began to cry because her toy got stolen, and I stood up and walked over to the kid and calmly took back the toy that he stole and I said to him, "This doesn't belong to you, son. You have to give it back."Well folks, the shit hit the fan. This little bastard began to, literally, scream, cry, jump up and down, roll on the floor, and beat his fists. He acted like I had just beat him with a belt and screamed at him. Naturally, his mother walked over, concerned, and asked me, in a rude voice, "What the hell did you do to my boy?!?" I explained to her that her son stole my child's toy and ran away and I took it back. She immediately became unglued. "Why the hell did you do that!! You could have just as easily went back to the counter and asked for another toy! Now you got him all worked up and crying, and now I'll have to deal with this horseshit!" I told her that, maybe, if you would beat his little ass now and again, instead of letting him act like a damn heathen, he probably wouldn't act like this! All the while we are in this argument, the little shit is still on the floor screaming and crying.
She then proceeded to call me "White-ass" and "Racist" because, evidently, I wouldn't have done this were it another white child involved. I was a rude motherf*cker, and I was mean to her child. The manager came out and intervened. I explained to her what happened and I received a refund of my meal, and the b*tchy mom ans her little failed abortion were asked to leave.
Some parents just need to whoop their kids' ass every now and then. I discipline my child, and she is well behaved and courteous as a result. I just thought I'd let you guys know about this little incident, since it was the high point of my day. [/B]
A major reason I'm still single, bro. Stupid bitches like this. If she allows him to act like this when he's a toddler, God help her stupid ass when he's in his teens. When will some of these mothers with shit for brains learn? This is a legitimate case for sterilization.
Parents need to lead by example. That kid was a little shit because his mom obviously is irrational. I think you did the right thing by getting the toy back, Impediment. You stood up for what was right. The manager obviously sided with you because they gave you your meal for free. And this set a good example for your own kid. However, I think the part where you told the mother she should "beat his little ass now and again, instead of letting him act like a damn heathen, he probably wouldn't act like this!" I think that was a bit much, but then again you were angry and sometimes we say things we don't mean when we are angry. I just think that responsible parents will raise responsible kids.
Anyway, I have to agree with a lot of what Chill said, and I don't think spanking your kids teaches them not to be pacifists. I was rarely spanked as a kid. One time I got spanked because I ran into the street and almost got hit by a car. Another time, I was spanked because I bit my sister and hurt her. I'd say a good spank was deserved in both those cases I guess at that period of time, but it didn't teach me not to be a pacifist. I learned that when I got older and people would f*ck with me and I decided not to take it so I fought back.
Anyway . . .
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri5 days are over already?
Wait, you have a problem with the rationalisation: "Spankings equal violence upon the child.", when YOU started a thread suggesting that beating kids was the way forward in parenting?Shitty parents might need to beat their kids, good parents never have to lay a hand on them.
-AC