Originally posted by Ghostface00
What a stupid question that has no idea on what the concept of marriage is all about. If you're married and respect your spouse and the sanctity of marriage, you should not be sexually active with anyone. I know some couples who are into freaky stuff like spouse swap do it, but it is not right.
I agree w/ u 100 billion %. This is also where I stand on this subject.
Originally posted by Markus Corvinus
Agreed, Naz, if you want to sleep around a lot, why even get married in the first place? Anyone who says love is lying because if you loved them, you wouldn't want to sleep with others.
I see you point plain and clear Markus. What WOULD be the point of marrying someone of whom you are not going to be solely committed to? Why not just go gallavanting off with two heck, four other people? I aggree with you and I don't think it's naive to think this.
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Originally posted by Aster Phoenix
I had this discussion with a friend the other day, so I thought I would put it to you guys on here.My stance on this is yes. I actually know some couples that do this, they love each other and they stay with each other, they just get sexually bored of each other from time to time and have a little fun on the side. And those couples have stayed together for years longer then the monogamous ones I know have.
I think a huge problem in society today is that we put so much pressure and importance on sex. We get so stressed over it and make such a huge deal out of it that it ends up for allot of people taking the fun out of it.
I think as long as a person is safe and takes precautions and the other person in the relationship is fine with it then they should be allowed to occasionally have casual sex with other people.
But I do know there is other opinions out there and I want to hear them, so let's hear it guys, what do you think on this subject?
I'm a one woman man, always have been, always will be, especially when it comes to marriage. If i went through with the whole process, i'd have to really love that woman, and i don't see myself being willing to share her with anyone else...
thats just me, though, if its what they want to do, then by all means... sex is something to be enjoyed, i don't think anyone could argue with that...
depends on the kind of marrige the society you live in and its traditions and the people involved.
in some countres married people take lovers or mistresses or marry more than one wife publicly. According to christian muslim and jewish scripture it is perfectly okay to take more than one partner in marrige as long as there is mutual consent.
The golden rule is mutual consent.
If i went through with the whole process, i'd have to really love that woman, and i don't see myself being willing to share her with anyone else...
'Share her'? Well as long as your willing to 'Share' you toys with me thats fine.
100% Yes on the subject. I mean, it's just sex, it's not like they're going to marry everyone they sleep with. Isn't part of marriage about putting the needs of your spouse above your own? If they're both okay with it and there isn't complicated things like deep feelings or jelousy getting in the way then it seems fine. As the person above me said though, mutual consent is the golden rule. Without it, yes that's cheating.
Originally posted by Darth Exodus
'Share her'? Well as long as your willing to 'Share' you toys with me thats fine.100% Yes on the subject. I mean, it's just sex, it's not like they're going to marry everyone they sleep with. Isn't part of marriage about putting the needs of your spouse above your own? If they're both okay with it and there isn't complicated things like deep feelings or jelousy getting in the way then it seems fine. As the person above me said though, mutual consent is the golden rule. Without it, yes that's cheating.
lol, when i say share, i mean that there are parts of me i wouldnt share with anyone else, and i'd like to be able to expect the same from her...
not strictly sexual, but it does have some bearing...
Maybe people should work on there marriage first as in try to spice up there sex life a bit instead of taking the easy option as per usual....However having said that if you really both are agreed you wish to stay together in a civic arrangement yet dont desire each other sexually then I cant see no problem with it.
Though having said that.....In my opinion the perfect swinging crap is pure fantasy bull that couldnt possibly last because human beings are emotional creatures and believe it or not sex sometimes does involved emotion for example you and the missus are mid life and she screwing other guys and you screwing other girls chances are you will screw one you may just come to "like" too much hence having the same destructive effect you attributed to monogamy= divorce.
Just dont get married folks
I don't think there should be legislation to prohibit anyone to sleep with a consenting adult, no matter their status, especially since I don't think a special status for marriage should be recognized by the government. On the other hand, I do believe that if you enter a monogamous relationship, you should have the decency to not lie to and cheat on your partner, I don't think it should be punished by law, but it's just common decency. Now, if you and your partner are alright with it, I say, go for it, it's your life, you should enjoy it as well as you could.
Originally posted by Bardock42
I do believe that if you enter a monogamous relationship, you should have the decency to not lie to and cheat on your partner, I don't think it should be punished by law, but it's just common decency. Now, if you and your partner are alright with it, I say, go for it, it's your life, you should enjoy it as well as you could.
shit ya!
Re: Should married people be allowed to sleep with other people?
Originally posted by Aster Phoenix
I had this discussion with a friend the other day, so I thought I would put it to you guys on here.My stance on this is yes. I actually know some couples that do this, they love each other and they stay with each other, they just get sexually bored of each other from time to time and have a little fun on the side. And those couples have stayed together for years longer then the monogamous ones I know have.
I think a huge problem in society today is that we put so much pressure and importance on sex. We get so stressed over it and make such a huge deal out of it that it ends up for allot of people taking the fun out of it.
I think as long as a person is safe and takes precautions and the other person in the relationship is fine with it then they should be allowed to occasionally have casual sex with other people.
But I do know there is other opinions out there and I want to hear them, so let's hear it guys, what do you think on this subject?
No, it shouldn't be allowed. I don't accept the liberal idea that just because something isn't violent, it magically becomes morally acceptable. The fact that Man's concept of right and wrong extends beyond only the subject of violence is one of the human race's great qualities.
Allowed? damn they are grown adults they can do what the hell they want if both parties are open about their marriage and no sneaking around screwing behind each others backs.....who are we to judge?
If i was in a relationship and my man was dipping his wick in another woman playing around and i never knew.....i'd put his balls in a vice and turn the handle 😈