Children
Ime interested in seeing other peoples own view on children, but more importantly, what do you think is important in having children? do you think its better not to have children, or perhaps its important that you do?
what do you think is overall the most worthwhile aspects, or most useless aspects of them?
for women having children is really important, it competes then, it actually changes their life
For men it is a little bit different some have the same feeling as the women do, but some others don't give a tinny rats a**.
the most important thing when you have children is that you have a continuation of ones' self, the one that will continue you when you pass on
and of course everything is about preserving the species
hm I see your view, can you explain "completes them" please, what changes their lives apart from ofc the childs requirements, that changes many peoples lives.
I disagree that everythng is about preserving the species, thats a typical animal instinct but since Humans are more important than most animals I belive we can think of higher things than simply continueing the spieces.
Do women belive their children love them in return? I wonder what makes a women love their child so highly or perhaps its just a usual animal instinct, nothing remarkable?
There are too many animals among the human race, not enough actual "human" since although we are humans, we shuldnt just follow the animal instincts and be a drone of soceity imo, I think there are too many guys who just want to have sex and too many women who just want to have children, But I made this thread in an effort to see any human reasons for having children other than animal instincts. From what ive seen, a women does not have much choice to having a child, she is automiatcally and socially made to belive that its terrible not to have one, which is why most women just seem to have the instinctual need and no real human requirement for a child.
Ive got children.
through them you learn a lot about yourself, you have to learn to see the world through other eyes in order to explain certain things for example.
They are hard work, and its a big responsibility but well worth it.
People should make their own decision whether to have kids or not, its a personal thing.
As someone said, kids are the future, hopefully they´ll do a better job than we do, after all they inherit the world from us.
Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, all those women, being slaves to their hormone 😄No difference between them at all 😄
All just breeding machines that love having themz children 😄
You guys didn't realize it's the 21st century, right? Just a tip, if you ever encounter one, we also don't think niggers are stupid anymore.
nobody said that
women are not breeding machines!! it is just that any instinct is far more important and strong from any other belief
Also you must consider that we live in a society that promotes the idea of a family with children. You must consider that most people think of it as a moral obligation !!
Originally posted by Burning thought
hmDo women believe their children love them in return? I wonder what makes a women love their child so highly or perhaps its just a usual animal instinct, nothing remarkable?
every society has some unwritten rules for example a mothers love is always taken for granted but there are many living examples that show as the opposite thing (mother killers etc) but those are extreme examples. also literature has many times been involved in those maters from the ancient Medea to the "contemporary" "stranger" of Camus. if we take those two stories as an example we see that the one that doesn't obey to those unwritten rules is most of the times considered as a monster a stranger . When you hear that Medea is a woman that killed her children you fell ill or consider her as crazy the same reaction you get if you hear that someone didn't even looked sad in his mothers funeral.
It is said that mother and child are connected and "bound" within the first 5 seconds of the child's' life, so you see. If you make an other living being your self and mold its every detail wouldn't you love it ???
Originally posted by Pezmerga
Bush is definately in the same league as Hitler. 🙄
Well attacking Iraq for the love of Oil and causing such war and destruction, AND THEN staying there causing more menace is not too far off from mass genicide, at least Hitler didnt directly order to kill the Jews
Originally posted by danaoula hime
nobody said thatwomen are not breeding machines!! it is just that any instinct is far more important and strong from any other belief
Also you must consider that we live in a society that promotes the idea of a family with children. You must consider that most people think of it as a moral obligation !!
Thats what ime talking about, Drone people, those who simply follow instincts blindly, very often women for children for example (although many times you get the sex craving guy who only thinks of sex) and I think soceity is running people into this, as well as the moral obligation your talking of, its true, and it makes me sick because when the mother and/or father realisies that the truth is not quite as wonderful around children as the morals and instincts tell them this can lead to child abuse, cruelty overall or simply lack of love, and the women who follow the instinct and morals above all else (many women, infact most that I know at least) can turn most other things in their life as second value, sometimes even beocming as bad as having a one night stand with a guy and perhaps ruining his life by making him feel stuck.
In a modern environment keeping the Speices excisting is not the most important thing, keeping the Spieces evolving is, and a human race who are simply morally bent without question to have children and to be pressured, perhaps even without knowing they are to do something they may regret later is wrong. If we cant even control the instincts the human race may as well be living in caves.
Re: Children
Originally posted by Burning thought
Ime interested in seeing other peoples own view on children, but more importantly, what do you think is important in having children? do you think its better not to have children, or perhaps its important that you do?what do you think is overall the most worthwhile aspects, or most useless aspects of them?
Gary glitter would write a whole book to answer your questions.
Originally posted by danaoula himeYou must consider that not everyone lives in Greece. And even if they did, I assume it's not even the case there.
nobody said thatwomen are not breeding machines!! it is just that any instinct is far more important and strong from any other belief
Also you must consider that we live in a society that promotes the idea of a family with children. You must consider that most people think of it as a moral obligation !!
Women are individuals as well. Such a blind generalization as you uttered is idiotic at best.
Originally posted by Burning thoughtYou misunderstood me. My point was that your initial assumption that all women want to take care of children and disregard everything else is incorrect. I am not going to provide you arguments for your flawed assumption.
Very few people are indiivduals in soceity, they are simply another piece in a clockwork system, are you suggesting there is a meaninful reason behind a women wanting a child to the extent that everthing else comes second place?If so, please explain it.