Originally posted by ODGYou know the main thing you're overlooking in all this is that he trained her.
^ That is partially true. But Cyclops spent a lot of time training Hope to be able to handle the Phoenixforce. During that time, Hope declared that she was ready for it and that she wanted it to come. This happened several times. She declares this to Cyclops in Avengers Vs. X-Men #0. She declares in exasperation to Cyclops that she's ready and that she's trained her entire life in Avengers Vs. X-Men #1 again. She actually runs away from the Avengers trying to take her into custody in Avengers Vs. X-Men #2. She again declares she's ready to meet the Phoenix and actually convinces Wolverine in Avengers Vs. X-Men #4 to take her to the Moon to meet it.True enough, Hope realized that she wasn't ready when the Phoenixforce was upon them. But at that point, Cyclops was busy trying to protect Hope from Wolverine friggin killing her.
So it isn't like the eeeevil Cyclops forced her to stand in front of the proverbial cannon while the goodie Avengers were trying to protect her from the bad man. Cyclops believed Hope to be ready in his heart -- and Hope's actions didn't exactly dissuade him, nor should they have. While it's very arguable she wasn't ready at that time on the Moon (something we'll never know for sure), Cyclops wasn't exactly manipulating her with heartless disregard for her own safety.
Cyclops actively and vigorously trained her to be ready body and soul. Which proved to be along the lines (if not completely the same thing) as what the Avengers eventually did with Iron Fist and Spidey. Cyclops protected Hope from other dangers, trying to keep her from missions and thwarting Wolverine's attempts to kill her. This, the Avengers also did. Cyclops eventually pinned all his hopes on Hope because he had faith in her and put her in the line of fire against the raw Phoenixforce. And, well... the Avengers basically did the exact same thing except now she had to deal with fighting Dark Phoenix Cyclops on top of dealing with the raw Phoenixforce when released.
And, you know, there's one more thing and it's probably the most important. When Hope talked to Phoenix Cyclops in Avengers Vs. X-Men #6, Hope said she would accept the Phoenixforce if he offered it. Cyclops refused to give it to her. While that rejection may be sourced in a selfish reticence to relinquish the power, it's also arguable that Cyclops realized she wasn't ready for it and so he and the others would carry the burden for her. So I don't think it's fair to suggest that Cyclops didn't care about Hope's choice and completely disregarded her safety.
From the beginning Cyclops has been waiting to use her to get what he wanted. Say what you will but Cyclops took a kid and trained her hard to do something and only do that. Of course as a kid she is going to be like yes I want to be a savior yes I'm ready, but as soon as she was confronted by it she was like no thank you.
As far as I know Cyclops never really asked Hope what she wanted, endangered the lives of Billions, and did it all without asking anyone else. He never asked Reed Richards, Tony stark, or anybody else for help in making this monumental decision for all of the Earth.
And I'm not saying either side was right or wrong. What I am saying is that Cyclops was pretty selfish during this whole thing, and that he got lucky during the ending.
I mean the Phoenix killed Billions and annihilated entire planets on it's way to Earth. The rest of the Phoenix 5 had started losing their minds. Let's not forget Magik was torturing heroes to keep them prisoner. Namor blitzed Wakanada likely killing some people, and Emma was one marble away from turning every human on Earth into a vegetable. I mean she did do it to some people.
Either one had the power to destroy Earth at a whim and in some cases they often let people know this, using it almost as a threat for people to do what they said.