Guys I have a serious question and I need some advice and tips 😬
So there is this girl, let's call her 'SotAM', and we've been on and off for the past 7 years but I'm not really sure if she has just been leading me on or if there is potential for anything substantial to come out of it. Basically it started with a few chats here and there, a few laughs, then she opened up and showed me a sneak peek at what I could call 'Chapter 1' of our life. At first I thought things were going well, and would check in everyday to see if there was any progress, and there were more laughs and chats, but as time went on we kind of drifted and the chats and jokes became a joke out of themselves and I was often wondering if she would open up to me again, basically I was thinking there might be a 'Chapter 2' at some point, but a year went past still with no progress. I started to think that maybe there was other things going on, I know work and study were issues but it was only McDonald's so it wasn't really too important to check in and give an update now and then. Other people seemed to notice about the time lapses as well and they also thought things were going well, but I think we all kind of just started to accept that maybe 'SotAM' just couldnt work out no matter how hard we tried to convince her that the time and effort was worth it. A few years had passed at this point, and everyone kind of gave up but 'SotAM' was still in the back of our minds, everytime a spark of conversation started we would all hold our breath wondering if 'SotAM' would finally see the light of day but still no luck. So right now it has been almost 7 years since that fateful day of meeting 'SotAM' and as much as 'SotAM' is on my mind, I just wish things had been different and 'SotAM' could have made a lot of people happy. I guess I don't really have a question after all, the end. 13