Is **** shaming wrong?

Originally posted by NemeBro
Afraid you wouldn't measure up sport?

I wouldn't. Seems gross as hell and there is a lack of intimacy in my mind. No amount of word games would change my mind.

I did date a stripper, back in the day. Didn't know she was. She cried the first two weekends. She quit after 5 weeks. Made the money she needed. Got out.

Her real name was Stormy. lol She was born for the stage.

Originally posted by Surtur
Nah, just not the type of person I'd wanna be with.

It's similar to how I'm sure a black woman who only dates black men isn't doing so because she fears she won't measure up when it comes to non-black men. It just means that is her preference.

Not similar.

One has to do with physical attraction and everyone has their preferences. The other has to do with ego.

Originally posted by Robtard
Not similar.

One has to do with physical attraction and everyone has their preferences. The other has to do with ego.

It's not ego, just preference. And I don't think not wanting to date outside your race is always based on *only* finding your race attractive.

Is a Christian who won't date non-Christians afraid they won't measure up to a non-Christian? Or is it just...ya know, preference? Wanting to be with someone who sees the world in a similar way you do?

Originally posted by Surtur
It's not ego, just preference. And I don't think not wanting to date outside your race is always based on *only* finding your race attractive.

Why?

I do know there is plenty of evidence out there to support an attraction to similar looking people which contributes to the "like my own race" attraction.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Why?

I do know there is plenty of evidence out there to support an attraction to similar looking people which contributes to the "like my own race" attraction.

*shrugs* It's based on personal experience. A girl told me I was cute but that she "only dates black guys". It's not like I had asked her on a date either it was just a random comment.

I figure for some people it is cultural.

Originally posted by Surtur
*shrugs* It's based on personal experience. A girl told me I was cute but that she "only dates black guys". It's not like I had asked her on a date either it was just a random comment.

I figure for some people it is cultural.

I've heard that a couple of times from black women, as well. Both times, unsolicited. It's an odd comment/compliment.

But you should just take it as a compliment. They may be letting you down, gently.

Originally posted by Surtur
It's not ego, just preference. And I don't think not wanting to date outside your race is always based on *only* finding your race attractive.

Is a Christian who won't date non-Christians afraid they won't measure up to a non-Christian? Or is it just...ya know, preference? Wanting to be with someone who sees the world in a similar way you do?

The 'too many partners' is absolutely an ego thing. Absolutely.

The religion thing (and similar) has to do with wanting shared interest, another aspect of dating/mate-finding.

The own race thing is mostly physical attraction and a form of shared interest. Edit: Children factor in this too. Some people want their children to emulate them more than others.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I've heard that a couple of times from black women, as well. Both times, unsolicited. It's an odd comment/compliment.

But you should just take it as a compliment. They may be letting you down, gently.

I've had a weirder one. Woman asked me how tall I was, I said 5'9". She goes "I don't date men under 6'4". I was like "Okay..."

I didn't hit on her or even casually flirt, in fact, she wasn't attractive to me at all.

Originally posted by Robtard
The 'too many partners' is absolutely an ego thing. Absolutely.

The religion thing (and similar) has to do with wanting shared interest, another aspect of dating/mate-finding.

The own race thing is mostly physical attraction and a form of shared interest. Edit: Children factor in this too. Some people want their children to emulate them more than others.

The religion thing has to do with shared values too. Same thing goes with the number of partners, at least for me anyways. Wanting someone with similar views on intimacy is not about ego.

Originally posted by Surtur
The religion thing has to do with shared values too. Same thing goes with the number of partners, at least for me anyways. Wanting someone with similar views on intimacy is not about ego.

So you wouldn't have a bunch of one night stands or short term flings with many attractive woman if the opportunity presented itself considering you're single?

*This isn't a right/wrong answer, just a personal to you

Originally posted by Robtard
So you wouldn't have a bunch of one night stands or short term flings with many attractive woman if the opportunity presented itself considering you're single?

*This isn't a right/wrong answer, just a personal to you

No I would not have a bunch of either of those things even if I was single at the moment.

Originally posted by Robtard
I've had a weirder one. Woman asked me how tall I was, I said 5'9". She goes "I don't date men under 6'4". I was like "Okay..."

I didn't hit on her or even casually flirt, in fact, she wasn't attractive to me at all.

Just to be clear I'm not trying to say one night stands or short term flings are inherently wrong or deal breakers for me.

Yet if a woman said "every weekend for a couple of years I picked up a different guy" yeah that isn't someone I'd wanna be with, but that is just me.

Originally posted by ArtificialGlory
You shouldn’t have told her your height. You should’ve asked her how tall did she think you were. People like her tend to overestimate height.

I had nothing to hide and had no reason to try and impress her, even if I wasn't married I'd not have hit on her, not my type. Was just a weird unsolicited question and comment.

Originally posted by Surtur
Just to be clear I'm not trying to say one night stands or short term flings are inherently wrong or deal breakers for me.

Yet if a woman said "every weekend for a couple of years I picked up a different guy" yeah that isn't someone I'd wanna be with, but that is just me.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I've heard that a couple of times from black women, as well. Both times, unsolicited. It's an odd comment/compliment.

But you should just take it as a compliment. They may be letting you down, gently.

It was strange. Though various people can be weird about race and dating. My friends current girlfriend has chastised him because in the past he dated a few white women(they are both hispanic).

Originally posted by Robtard
The 'too many partners' is absolutely an ego thing. Absolutely.

Originally posted by Robtard
I had nothing to hide and had no reason to try and impress her, even if I wasn't married I'd not have hit on her, not my type. Was just a weird unsolicited question and comment.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
You see, I would be hypocritical if I held that against a woman. I've had phases in my life when "every female hole is a goal" if I was shit faced or coked up tbh it's just a case of rutting. Once when at Uni and already a father, I was in the process of a temporary separation from my first wife and working the door at a night club three evenings a week (I sold shitloads of ecstasy, but I digress). The cashier left, and another doorman and I went on a hand stamping spree. We let loads of pretty girls in free; he stood to block the camera. Lol, I shagged one in my car on my break and took another home that night. Result!

^ More proof that no other KMCer has lived life more than Whirly

Look on his Works, ye Mighty, and despair!

Originally posted by Robtard
^ More proof that no other KMCer has lived life more than Whirly

Look on his Works, ye Mighty, and despair!