Is **** shaming wrong?

Yeah the shared values thing is important to me.

Originally posted by SquallX
Heres my 2 cents.

If your single
You like sex, have sex. Have sex with as much people and as often as you like too. Just be safe and responsible. It’s the only life you have, and sex plays a big part, so enjoy something that makes you feel good.

If your in a relationship
Don’t cheat, it’s simple. If you feel like cheating, stop and get your priorities straight. There’s no reason to hurt your partner for a one night stand. And if you still think about cheating, break it off. Again, no reason to hurt your partner.

No one should be shame for liking sex, it’s ****ing stupid. We were made to enjoy sex.

👆

Originally posted by NemeBro
Afraid you wouldn't measure up sport?

That was my firs thought too. I have dated guys who have done porn in the past. I do not care, so long as they are not still doing it while we are together.

I think it's wrong to cheat on someone you care about but it's not the end of the world tbh. And I think it's not really that wrong to sleep with someone else who is cheating on their spouse. Their relationship is their responsibility imo.

Originally posted by mike brown
I think it's wrong to cheat on someone you care about but it's not the end of the world tbh. And I think it's not really that wrong to sleep with someone else who is cheating on their spouse. Their relationship is their responsibility imo.

It's not the end of the world, but it should mark the end of the relationship.

^ I will admit, I have seduced women in the past who have had BF's who weren't there with them at the time and found it quite enjoyable. As long as I'm told beforehand, then neither of us has any expectations beyond sex and we can go our separate ways in the morning and no-one is hurt.

Originally posted by samhain
^ I will admit, I have seduced women in the past who have had BF's who weren't there with them at the time and found it quite enjoyable. As long as I'm told beforehand, then neither of us has any expectations beyond sex and we can go our separate ways in the morning and no-one is hurt.

That's incorrect, the bf is hurt. Living a lie harms someone even if they do not know it.

Originally posted by Surtur
That's incorrect, the bf is hurt. Living a lie harms someone even if they do not know it.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
... ❌ Oh Surt!

What I said is quite accurate 🙂

Originally posted by Surtur
What I said is quite accurate 🙂

Yes, it is wrong whenever you rob someone of the right to choose the type of person they want to be with. Anyone who cheats and doesn't come clean is doing exactly that to their partner lol.

Originally posted by Surtur
Yes, it is wrong whenever you rob someone of the right to choose the type of person they want to be with. Anyone who cheats and doesn't come clean is doing exactly that to their partner lol.

Okay 🙂

Originally posted by Jmanghan
I used to cheat and didn't feel any remorse at all till I got older, I was also very manipulative and a pathological liar.

Surt might come out as prudish, but come on, it IS a choice. People get to choose whether they accept or forgive someone who cheats, but when you cheat on them you don't give them a choice on the matter and it's dishonest. I don't even think couples should be fully honest with each other, but dishonesty just to get laid strikes me as a long hanging fruit

But such Such Tasty Fruit...Right Bently!?

Originally posted by Flyattractor
[b]But such Such Tasty Fruit...Right, Bently!? [/B]

Did Pooty just try to GayShame Me?

I think he did.

Such a Homophobe.

Originally posted by Bentley
Surt might come out as prudish, but come on, it IS a choice. People get to choose whether they accept or forgive someone who cheats, but when you cheat on them you don't give them a choice on the matter and it's dishonest. I don't even think couples should be fully honest with each other, but dishonesty just to get laid strikes me as a long hanging fruit

Yeah I don't think couples need to share everything with each other, but they absolutely need to be honest when it comes to whether or not they were faithful. The only excuse is if their partner says "if you cheat on me I don't wanna know".

Originally posted by Surtur
That's incorrect, the bf is hurt. Living a lie harms someone even if they do not know it.

No he isn't. What's the old saying; What you don't know can't hurt you... unless there's a wasp hanging out in one of your slippers.