Star, if you don't care what anyone says then you should not really be posting on a discussion board. In any case, you do not control reality. The nature of a scientific theory- as I and other have outlined above- is objective and not down to opinion. Your obsession of 'Theory does not = fact' in this context is again just portraying a general ignorance of reality.
It should definitely be made clear to children that it is a theory. The problem is your 'and nothing more', as if a scientific theory is a weak thing. It is not- it is a very, VERY strong thing indeed, and evolution particularly so. It trumps all other explanations by a long, long way.
No amount of yelling 'PERIOD' makes your claims any less ridiculous.
If parents want to try to be even-handed in a case like this, they should teach their children that evolution is science and creationism is a religious philosophy; they should also educate their children about the difference between the two and then the children can decide about the merits of these two things as appropriate.
Personally, though, I feel what some people think is even-handed is actually just giving credence to the ridiculous, hence the issue with ID trying to go on science class.