People lying about Rape: How common is it really?

Started by Surtur7 pages
Originally posted by Putinbot1
Someone mentions how he was cuck ed by his ex and he starts bumping anti women threads... haha

^Triggered and creating imaginary wins. You just can't help yourself. This story was posted today, thus the reason it got...posted today.

And this thread isn't anti-women. It's anti women who lie about rape.

Originally posted by Surtur
^Triggered and creating imaginary wins. You just can't help yourself. This story was posted today, thus the reason it got...posted today.

And this thread isn't anti-women. It's anti women who lie about rape.

mate tell me what you do all day... have you got anything of your own?

Just wanted to bump this and wanted to say something.

As a fairly large man, I live in fear of being accused of rape. God forbid it happens, I'm not sure why but it's actually crippling horrifying to the point I think about it on a daily basis.

Women, dudes, don't lie about rape, even if the person loses the case you will ruin their life forever, friends will ditch them, some people won't hire them, and if they do have a job they could get fired from it.

Jman raped me.

Originally posted by Surtur
Jman raped me.
him too?

Originally posted by Putinbot1
him too?

Originally posted by Surtur
You must be gaping.

And he laughed, oh he laughed. Indelible in the hippocampus is the laughter.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
You must be gaping.

Do you know something about Jmanghan that we don't?

Originally posted by Jmanghan
Just wanted to bump this and wanted to say something.

As a fairly large man, I live in fear of being accused of rape. God forbid it happens, I'm not sure why but it's actually crippling horrifying to the point I think about it on a daily basis.

Women, dudes, don't lie about rape, even if the person loses the case you will ruin their life forever, friends will ditch them, some people won't hire them, and if they do have a job they could get fired from it.

im sry u stress out about these things. Ive always found it best to try not stress out about things that are beyond ur control. And i wouldnt worry too much about being big increasing ur chances. Im freaking massive (6'6" 250-270 lbs) and i doubt there is a single person that ive known in my 35 years that would believe for a second that i raped someone if accused.

Just do ur best to keep being a good person and you'll be fine.

https://wgno.com/2018/08/09/man-who-tied-up-sexually-assaulted-14-year-old-girl-will-serve-no-jail-time/
This was one of many examples where even a full blown rapist didn't get his life completely ruined after the allegations. Despite the fact that he admitted he's guilty to the charges of assaulting, tieing up and raping a 14 year old girl. He didn't even serve proper jail time, as far as I know.
These entire "What If" scenarios are preventing rape victims from getting due justice. Guys are worried about false rape accusations but even people who actually committed rape walk free most of the time. There's obviously a problem if over 95% of rapists aren't in jail despite the reports:

Yeah, I'm sure people are so eager to report false rape accusations when literally only 46 out of over 200 reports actually lead to arrest, and even less to actual punishment.

I am not saying false rape accusations don't happen -- they do and they are awful and they should be punished. But people often use it to undermine actual rape cases and that's just not ok.
If you're afraid of something as unlikely as false rape accusations, imagine how afraid women are from something statistically far more likely to happen and far less likely to get properly resolved in court.

Originally posted by MythLord
https://wgno.com/2018/08/09/man-who-tied-up-sexually-assaulted-14-year-old-girl-will-serve-no-jail-time/
This was one of many examples where even a full blown rapist didn't get his life completely ruined after the allegations. Despite the fact that he admitted he's guilty to the charges of assaulting, tieing up and raping a 14 year old girl. He didn't even serve proper jail time, as far as I know.
These entire "What If" scenarios are preventing rape victims from getting due justice. Guys are worried about false rape accusations but even people who actually committed rape walk free most of the time. There's obviously a problem if over 95% of rapists aren't in jail despite the reports:

Yeah, I'm sure people are so eager to report false rape accusations when literally only 46 out of over 200 reports actually lead to arrest, and even less to actual punishment.

I am not saying false rape accusations don't happen -- they do and they are awful and they should be punished. But people often use it to undermine actual rape cases and that's just not ok.
If you're afraid of something as unlikely as false rape accusations, imagine how afraid women are from something statistically far more likely to happen and far less likely to get properly resolved in court.

Explain how it is used *often* to undermine rape cases. Just to get this out of the way, saying "Sometimes women lie about rape so we need evidence" is not an example of such a thing.

Whenever a discussion about rape actually happens, the first thing people immediately cling to is: "What if she lies and is trying to ruin his life forever!?". And most rape cases are dismissed on such grounds, which is a major factor in why a lot of victims don't even try to report it.

I'm not saying we don't need evidence, I'm saying the whole lying about rape is too major a talking point and prevents actual victims from coming forward.

Originally posted by MythLord
[B]Whenever a discussion about rape actually happens, the first thing people immediately cling to is: "What if she lies and is trying to ruin his life forever!?".

What are you basing this claim on?

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
Do you know something about Jmanghan that we don't?
Jman is a fairly big guy.

Jman raped me and for the duration of it I identified as female sooo you gotta believe in me and my rape.

Rape! I was raaaaped!

The first motherf*cker who asks me what I was wearing is gonna get a papercut to their index finger RIGHT on the spot where it will open up the cut every time you bend it.

Originally posted by Surtur
The first motherf*cker who asks me what I was wearing is gonna get a papercut to their index finger RIGHT on the spot where it will open up the cut every time you bend it.

That is awful. That's like a mini-hell for your finger.

Jman, it's unfortunate that you think so much about this happening to you, but in the same way society tells women how to safeguard against sexual attacks, I do think men should be educated in how to limit the already limited possibility of this happening. A lot of men I say that to seem to think I'm saying; 'You're probably a rapist so you need to learn discipline.' But adopting different methods of socialising in no way means that that person's old methods were wrong.

I also think society still judges women for wanting to have sex, enjoying sex and actively seeking sex far less than it does men which IMO keeps a lot of women thinking that they need to let the man do all the chasing and she has to wait until he's done enough to warrant her saying; 'Okay, fine, let's have sex.' Which unfortunately breeds the attitude of thinking that a 'no' from a woman in a bar or a party is only a temporary 'no' and if you keep picking the lock you'll get in eventually.

Also Jman, you should be careful somewhat as the type of woman who would fabricate a sexual assault would obviously be just as predatory as a rapist and predatory people are great at spotting when someone is uncomfortable in a situation and can pounce, people are animals after all. One thing I do is spend as little time as possible talking to negative women who have nothing good to say about anything or anyone, I prefer the happy, bubbly type who can talk about anything, they don't seem the type to make a false claim.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
Jman is a fairly big guy.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
last time I did that, I got banned from tinder (joke), she didn't report me.